You can marry a 2nd wife without permission from first wife Dr. Zakir Naik #islam

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[PrinceAmir]

I’m Muslim and this is so wrong!!!! The first thing you do it don’t LIE to your wife and have NO SECRETS!!! You tell her you explain if she’s not happy then no second wife! If she is then introduce them and let them to have a human relationship based on respect and understanding. If your first wife agrees then you may marry a second wife.. men do not do this crap! The first rule is do not risk losing your first family to have another

[abtahijuhayer]

As a Muslim woman, I'd like to tell all the frustrated women out there... please have faith in Allah and accept that rules in Islam are the wills of Allah SWT and it is for our own good only...If you don't want your husband to have a second wife you can always put that very condition in the nikahnama before getting married like the sheikh said...then your husband will have to inform you before marrying second time:))

[platinumwings]

He is absolutely correct. One such case hapoened in my native village and the so called "first wife" went to police station. The police told her on her face that they cant do anything as it is as per yout muslim personal law board. The local molvi was also brought in and he advised her the same that it is as per shariah. That lady had no choice but to accept her husbands 2nd marriage.

[sandev]

The more I learn about Islam, the more I shake my head in disbelief. God help them.

[arif_ullah.]

Dr Zakir Naik is reading the jurisprudence of Islam to the best of his knowledge.

[Marwadear]

The reasons are many, and they should be explained:
1) Before modern technology, men may have traveled for long periods due to war, studying, business/career, getting stuck or trapped somewhere while on pilgrimage, etc. In these instances he may either want or need to marry due to his circumstances and he wouldn’t be able to ask or inform his wife.

2) In modern times, if the wife refuses sex and he’s not going to just rape her and she also refuses him another wife and Islamically he can’t have a sc, then that is unfair of her. He could divorce her and remarry but that might not be doable for many many reasons and it might not be best for the kids. So he can balance her unfairness and stay in the marriage by marrying another woman who wants to marry him, even if the first wife refuses.

3) Polygyny isn’t just about or for the first wife and her husband. It’s also about and for other women. Some have financial need, and yes a man could fulfill that without marrying her though it’s extremely unlikely and human would choose to fully pay everything for another person when that person isn’t even family or gf/bf, but anyway, women and kids also have other needs. In many parts of the world a woman needs a protector and she might need a husband to fill that role. A woman might need a masculine role model and stabilizer for her kids. A woman might need a sexual outlet herself and she can’t find any single good men. A woman might be extremely lonely in life and need family — I personally understand this because I literally have no family at all outside of my two minor children, so life gets lonely easily. I need a husband for companionship and guidance. A woman might be nearing the end of her childbearing years and not have kids but desperately want them, want a family. And she can’t find a willing, single and good man. So it’s not just about first wives. It’s also about all other women. Islamically, the first wife or any subsequent wife doesn’t have the right to deny this from another.

Now a man doesn’t have to tell the first wife beforehand, but he must make the marriages locally public. So if the other wife is living in the same region, then the first wife will learn about it and then she can choose to stay or go. But she can’t try to play games to keep it from happening. If the subsequent wife lives in another land then it might not be known to the first wife. This means that her husband routinely travels there anyway (or else she’d catch on). And if he does, then she’s used to his absence anyway, so him being with another woman while traveling doesn’t actually affect her anyway. So long as he maintains her rights of time and provision.

A husband shouldn’t lie to his wife though.

[nabila-zisd]

Don't you think even for 2nd women is injustice to marry a married men. Just because she is mujbur so she will marry a guy who is already marry.why can't mujbur women can get single material men, if married material men can get single material women then why can't women? The actual problem is men thinking. Mens are not acceptable, but womens are acceptable .

[angshumanroy]

All wrong things are preached by u.Dont ruin other families.

[alternatedino]

This is one of those technicalities that doesn't apply well to real life. It's like a woman who stays at home and doesn't work saying I'm not obliged to cook or clean for you.
Yes true, not an obligation in the Shariah, but it just makes sense.
Shura (counsel) on the other hand is encouraged. So maybe not "seek permission" from his wife like a child seeks permission from their parents to eat ice cream, but we know that reasonably, at the very least he should inform her. In best case scenario, seek counsel and consider her feelings and capabilities.
Allahu Alam

[RASHEEDKHAN-hl]

Nabi Rasuallah never wrote any such not to get 2nd marriage etc in his nikanama. Follow him not Zakir naik.

[snowmansully]

I think it should be standard to mention in every nikah that they can't have a second wife unless the woman asks for it to be removed it would solve alot of issues and people misusing it and taking advantage

[muhammedbinqasim]

the truth is a bitter pill to swallow. accept . dont fight what you have no understanding off.

[gerardbok]

Who is he to control and destroy peoplles lives whicj can lead to murder? Religion of peace.

[safeteganiji]

Is very bitter to say like a women but subahanallah is true, in islam you not need to take premission from first wife, when Allah give permission to mens to marry, you can tell tham but not premission elhamdulillah

[muhammedbinqasim]

the truth is a bitter pill to swallow.

[Godislove]

How to let shaytan in your life its not korans fault its peoples fault to be unholy

[theampworldpiperssquad..am]

Unfortunately, men abuse this because they don't understand the religious rules that go with it and abuse it terribly. The women then suffer. Firstly the law of marrying up to 4 women came because before this, men married huge numbers of women and treated them like slaves. This law came to stop that and protect women. Also at the time of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) there were many wars, which made Muslim women widowed, so this law came to protect them at that time. If you think, they had no source of income like nowadays. There is a video by Aminah Assilmi who correctly states that polygamy was there to protect women and to serve women. However, men have changed it and use it for their own gratification and abuse it. That is the biggest problem and this counsel letter points it out to a tee. This is exactly how men abuse it.

[riz]

He’s absolutely correct
Thank you dr naik