Inside The MIND Of A TOXIC FAMILY 'Queen Bee' - A Female Psychopath

Psychopathic females come in all shades and colors.

They are never innocent in matters involving their desires no matter how far they have to go.

A psychopathic female (i.e., mother, sister, aunt, girlfriend, etc.) can often use their unique charm and glib to manpulate, triangluate, and cause irrevocable harm to those who trust her.

Within a toxic family dynamic, this psychopathic female has manipulated, harmed, and triangulated many family members including her own children.

In this video, I discuss the psychology of the female psychopath.

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#trauma #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
2:13 psychopath vs sociopath
3:35 risky impulsivity
4:44 COMMON FEMALE PSYCHOPATH BEHAVIORS
7:01 thrill-seeker
10:29 Gender differences
12:09 HOW THIS IMPACTS YOU
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. Cowan N, Adams EJ, Bhangal S, Corcoran M, Decker R, Dockter CE, Eubank AT, Gann CL, Greene NR, Helle AC, Lee N, Nguyen AT, Ripley KR, Scofield JE, Tapia MA, Threlkeld KL, Watts AL. Foundations of Arrogance: A Broad Survey and Framework for Research. Rev Gen Psychol. 2019 Dec 1;23(4):425-443. doi: 10.1177/1089268019877138. Epub 2019 Sep 19. PMID: 33967573; PMCID: PMC8101990.

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[Sarara-mvsx]

Thank you. Being raised by a mother like this takes quite a toll on an entire family - to put it mildly.

[gregoryritchie]

Tamara: My own mother tried to attack me with a knife. I kid you not. Even I couldn't believe it. My brother told me years later it happened to him too. Still hard to wrap my mind around it decades later.

[m.schwartz]

Again tonight, my mom and much of my family. Thanks for explaining this topic.

[lundsweden]

Omg, this is really a must see for me. I think my Mother was like this, which is a strange realization after thinking she was a nice person most of my life.

The reason why I think she was like this? I've found out (sometimes at the time, sometimes later) that she was involved in crimes, usually fraud, but different kinds (auto insurance fraud, workers compensation fraud (she was working while receiving it the 1st time, 2nd time she claimed her rare psychological illness disappeared when the payments ended) knowingly selling defective things second hand, falsifying illness in teenage children for financial gain, falsifying own illness for financial gain).

Then there's the unethical stuff, pathological lying, parasitic lifestyle (retired at 55 and got children to pay her bills), ignoring sexual abuse of son by stepfather, turning this story into a story "about a family we know in town" and looking excited/happy when telling the story.

Making up lies about family members to try and undermine them (even her favorite child), and she did this with everyone. Took decades to unravel all her lies about family.

[debbiekillewald]

My dad was fitting this description, but he'd tried to mimick some social type of mannerisms, and I could tell. He was also very creepy. I called him the creeper. Sadly, I'm pretty sure he dated women like this. The last one he dated, I feel, fit this description much more ...like the women he chose got sicker.

[nancyP]

Now I'm going to pay more attention to head movement...

[KimberlyGladden-rx]

All The Above Negative Emotions In Interpersonal Relationships and Toxicities

[michelelynn]

Thank you tamara! Merry Xmas and hope you feel better! ❤

[janinemccartha]

👋Hi Ta'mara. It seems to me that so many people are like this & no one ever figures it out until they get caught. Hopefully, I'll never have to deal with too much of their drama since leaving toxic relationships behind. See you soon on the next one, Happy🎄🎁🥳🎉 holidays, love, Miss Janine🪐🌴🧸 💅✨️✨️🌌

[catielove]

It’s my birthday. This talk is a gift, validating what I understand in hindsight about the woman who my siblings and others believe to be a saint. Im 67 and still actively working on trauma and my relationship with myself.

[hawk]

Takes time to spot them . But they eventually twist your mind up.

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Excellent video, from start to finish. I didn't expect to watch this whole thing or even listen to it in total at regular speed but the content and delivery was too solid.

[DaughterOfEl]

I admire, respect you and the work that you do! God bless you Tamara Hill😊♥🌹

[Sproutgoodnight]

I have a question about this topic but like the whole thing. My entire family almost has very toxic or negative traits ranging from physical violence to emotional abuse. Then they just deny everything or get angry with me or shut it down. And I get really angry or really depressed and they act as though I'm mentally ill, but all of the drinking, screaming at people, gossiping, and violence is normal. I hate them, but I'm genuinely confused. They know to lie to other people and to me and deny everything- but at the same time they must know what they're doing. Sexual abuse is wrong. Manipulation is wrong. Picking on one kid for everything is wrong. And they give half-apoligies or insincere ones then will do the same things as before. I was fooled every single time into thinking they had changed and the abuse would eventually end. If someone knows to apoligize or they know to deny what they were doing is that remorse? Can these kinds of people even feel remorse? Why do they do it? Why am I targeted as the mentally ill person in a family where everyone is either an alcholic or talk trash or are violent towards each other and I was literally a kid the entire time while they were all I get blamed for defending myself. I get blamed for defending my mom. I get blamed for saying how sick and evil they all are. I don't understand do they know what they are doing or not? It kills me are they actually insane and don't understand what they're doing to me or do they know this and do it anyway?! I can't figure out if the evil side is genuine or the apologies. Much love from confused girl

[jonathanclayton]

Queen Bee. I always wondered what this referred to.

[witnessofchrist]

This was very interesting. I don't know why it crossed my mind, but what if a patient with mental health is receiving therapy from a professional with these traits? That's scary knowing they have a degree and experience in these matters. 😱✌🏾

[jennw]

I had heard that psychopaths are born, and sociopaths are made, through their environments (i.e. children growing up in circumstances where gangs offer the only opportunities for community, mentorship and success). Is this not true?

[Smartbeautifulawesome]

A lot of this is just weird stuff going on people act out in toxic environments too

[Smartbeautifulawesome]

lol and these are the people calling everyone psychos and narcissists. I’d be careful who is calling who what it’s such weird bs with people

[jonathanclayton]

Is it possible they operate under the radar. Very Covert?