How to Stop Talking Too Loudly

Speaking with a voice that’s always too loud effects your personal and professional life. If you’re a loud talker you’re probably sick of being shushed or told to use your indoor voice. Here are two strategies for dialling down the volume of your speaking voice in a way that feels natural and gives some relief to those around you.

[missnuggie]

I’m loud when I’m excited and happy and my mom and other family tells me I’m way to loud and to be quiet I know they are being honest but it hurts my feelings so yeah

[agentwrench]

The comments: full of people complaining about annoying people who talk too loud
Me: here because I am annoying and talk too loud

[makenzie_lovess]

I get WAY to loud when I get excited!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

[leahbeaty]

When people say I’m too loud I just decide I’m not gonna talk anymore. But I always fail so I’m just gonna learn.

[ashutosh]

I have this problem I don't even realise when my voice gets loud and my main problem as I guess is that I get a lot excited while talking may be a friend or coworkers.

[nicolejoiceseno]

I really have a problem with the loudness of my voice. Everytime I get too excited, or I express my emotions, I tend to shout, unintentionally. Thank you for this video this is a big help!

[friendlycryptid]

People tell me I'm too loud but I honestly I've never noticed it so hopefully this'll help me change that. What probably isn't helping me is the ringing in my ears.

[itsukitakahashi]

I've been told for EVER that I'm too loud and to "tone it down" but as you said, this doesn't help, you actually helped and explained how to do so and I very much appreciate that. Thank you for helping and giving these tips

[leahbeaty]

I’ve been told too many times that I’m too loud and stuff and it’s always bothered me and I’ve always been really insecure about it. But since my boyfriend said something to me about it I’m here and kind of ready to cry lol. If this does t help I think I’m gonna cry 😭

[lunakatemiller]

my teacher humiliated me because of the volume of my voice so I find this very helpful

[ycepeda]

You truly can find everything on YouTube! This video was completely relatable! I only seem to go from loud to louder to loudest. I can't help it. I usually try to just no talk at all, but my voice seems to be attached to my emotions. I noticed It fluctuates to emphasize when I'm excited, passionate, or angry. You gave me good advice, I'm going to 1.Slow it down 2.practice with reading and 3. Record my difference. Praying this works for me! People do get the wrong idea about me from my volume, my husband tells me all the time...it's how you say things🤦🏻‍♀️Yes my family, old friends, and culture have all done a number on me!!!

[assassinpro]

Im always loud and annoying but i never realise it :(

[sleepyboi]

Teachers at my school need this. They can be saying what's for lunch and it'll sound like a hate speech.

[asma_kauser]

1. Practice producing sounds without effort (sigh of relief)
2. Practice speaking with whole body (vibration)

[wildflxwrr]

I often speak loud and don’t realize it before someone say something about it. And when I whisper I tend to say some words loud. Plus I talk fast, that sucks when I’ve school presentations :-/

[javiermillan]

I just realized im way to loud everytime I talk on the phone. My next door neighbor thought I was arguing and fighting with someone when I was just having a casual conversation on the phone 😂

[agunnnation]

I'm glad I found this video and I am shocked to see that there are a lot of people who have the same problem as me! I"m planning on slowing my voice down and reading out a lot and then recording my voice when I feel a difference in it because it annoys me that my voice gets to loud

[hajramehdi]

I’m watching this video cause I was just playing outside with my cousin and she said we couldn’t go in her house cause we we’re to loud so I’m watching videos that will help me not be loud anymore

[dealex]

thank you, I have a very loud tone of voice that I honestly felt like was out of my control. My bf often gets frustrated with my voice tone and always says I'm right here you do not need to yell or your loud. And I often here shhs at the office as well but I just try to talk lower but once I engage in casual conversations I'm back to annoying people.

[a..]

I'm a very loud person and definitely draw attention, this video was very informative