Easy manipulation tricks someone can use to make you obsessed 😍 with them without realizing 

[yashs]

This is basically narcissism and she is explaining very similar patterns/traits that they show. And she’s spot on.

[moonchillld.]

To those people who are wondering if she is right, trust me on this, she is absolutely right. I have first hand experience. Just do what she advises if you don't want to get hurt badly.

[astrafinance]

When a person ghosts you... They could prolly be depressed... They have bursts of energy and then it goes away... Don't personalize their behavior.. Not everything is about you.. Remember this and you'd be fine.

[vince]

If someone tells you they were busy all day, they are not necessarily manipulating you. Maybe they’re just establishing boundaries and letting you know they’re not comfortable with texting with you all day long because that’s not the kind of relationship they want or they have responsibilities, such as making a living. Some people really are clingy.

[nandinii]

Absolutely on point. I experienced this a lot in my early 20s, and now that I am almost 30 and have weathered many storms, I can recognise such people from a mile away.

[Basthey]

If you know about those dynamics (and I learned the hard way), they are not so unpredictable anymore – or at least you get a sense for what is going on. They actually can become one of the most predictable people. I've become really good at spotting those behaviors and I'm done with it. Some of them might even become obsessed with you if you just don't care anymore.

[bplovelove]

If you’re obsessed with someone it’s because they know how to fill in your ego make you feel temporarily happy. People are most likely to be obsessed when they feel lonely or have low self esteem where they cannot get the relationship and the image they want. If a person pulls those strings on regular recovered person, notice that obsession is not so strong.

[brideofallunquietthings]

For what it’s worth, this experiment was done on rats given food in an inconsistent manner and they developed the same obsession. It’s an actual addiction.

[Almsoo]

Thanks for sharing this. I am going through a divorce after the anxious avoidant cycle for 4 years. My ex would do and say the things mentioned in the video, making me questioned myself if I was the main problem. Very painful and lonely when she ghosted me, I hope I find someone healthy enough to communicate and work together on the relationship

[piyupayal]

People who are asking why do they do it, they never had actual stable relationship with their parents. Love to them is actually this. Their subconscious actually truly doesn't understand the healthy version of love that we do. It's either control or either not love. It's something very animalistic and not evolved.

[MoralityTheBand]

This is the most important tactic narcissists use on people to get them hooked. Narcissistic personality disorder should be discussed more in the education system and the work force. It's highly dangerous to be in a narcissists full matrix and most people don't realise it. More videos on narcissistic personality disorder would be great from your perspective.

[Arya]

Hands down to this video my ex was like this she did these same things for 3 months and when she found another person she just said on my face that I got better option, u aree a attention seeker and blamed many things which weren't true . I hate her I am still healing from the damage this was the first time I met a people like her and now I got the experience. Loved ur video as she is honestly speaking straight facts .... Please don't make urself toy and being played by a manipulator protect urself and know ur worth ❤

[sacred]

Sometimes it isn't manipulation. I'm that type that goes all in during the moment but then other times I just want to be on my own. It's not always deliberate, but I only ever had one girlfriend who accepted it. Usually they want your attention or access to you whenever they please and if not they get paranoid or possessive.

[hautecouture]

This comes natural to psychopaths and malignant narcissists

[BlackMale]

I recognise the first and last from a recent situation. Got addicted to the dopamine for sure. Glad that it's over. Took me some time to realise what was happening and why I was accepting the breadcrumbs she was giving me. It was more the dopamine rush that got me hooked than who and what she was

[Valhalla.Studio]

I'm one of those people that take forever to reply sometimes and people get angry, but am not doing it on purpose, sometimes busy really means just that you busy. I try not to check my phone constantly because I have issues with addictions and might start scrolling social media and end up wasting way too much time. Also I like to reply to messages with bit of humor or make it interesting, but when busy I might put it off to reply bit later when I have more time, which sometimes leads to forgetting to reply even longer. But none of which is intentional forms of manipulation, some people just overthink this stuff way too much and make it all about them. But anyway I'm sure in some cases what she saying is actually true, just not always!

[katherinechase]

I agree with your advice, however some people are unconscious about their attachment styles. I studied psychology in school, but only learned about them recently. There is sooo much useful real life information we miss out on- Being a life long learner is crucial! If someone is playing games with you- get out, don't get used 😢.

[ciaramaricartan]

I have learned this the hard way. I almost got into therapy because of the trauma inflicted on me for a cycle of 2 yrs. Good thing I came out strong right after that.

[CatoTato]

Some of the best advise i have for seeing if someone loves you is that if they love you, they *will* make time for you no matter what, they will just want to be near you almost all. The. Time

[colevanwyk]

This is all good and well if you don't want to live a "comfortable"/lavish lifestyle. I'm married, we have a son, and I'm really busy during the day, aka, working. I'm a very affectionate person too, so when we spend time together, I pour out my love for my wife. Texting for most of the day isn't for us coz when we see each other, there isn't much to talk about (I don't text much in general, I prefer meeting in person). We respect each other's time and make the most of it when we spend it together. We have arguments but make it a point to make up afterwards, even if we still dont agree. That's okay and isn't manipulation. Just some perspective.