5 ICE-COLD INFJ MOVES

INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Get ready, because today we're diving into the world of ice cold INFJ moves. As INFJs, we have this frosty persona that's equal parts intriguing and intimidating. But here's the secret: we're not proud of it. We keep it under wraps, not wanting to make others uncomfortable. But let's face it, this icy disposition is a unique skill. The real question is, how are we going to wield it? Are we going to tap into it for good or for mischief? It's high time we not only embrace this part of ourselves but also revel in it and let it guide us towards the life we've always dreamt of. Buckle up as we explore five bone-chilling INFJ tactics and how they can help us create our ideal reality.

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[Wenzes]

What are some of your ice-cold moves that come out from time to time?

[Mister]

To my fellow INFJ’s… EMBRACE that inner ICE🤙

[fawnforest]

Don’t ever quit doing this service, Wenzes because nobody else can put this into words so simply

[pattir]

I got into a situation recently with a friend that drew in several of these "ice cold moves" on my part. I had observed her subtly disrespect me and treat me with contempt over the better part of a year, and finally I had enough of it. I confronted her and ended the friendship. She didn't really see it coming and was surprised at my reaction. This was a "fight" that I knew there was nothing she could say to change my mind. I knew all along that there was nothing left to salvage. INFJ door slam ensued promptly after that conversation, and I've never looked back. She's contacted mutual friends to whine about it, but I'm just done. Ice cold? Maybe. I prefer to look at it as healthy boundaries, and I wish her all the best going forward.

[Chercheure_Indépendante]

1:11 # 1 the INFJ dreams and dares big
3:29 # 2 the INFJ doesn't play the game of society
5:15 # 3 the INFJ always has a backup plan
7:00 # 4 the INFJ is constantly evaluating other people
9:15 # 5 the INFJ only fights when they know they will win

[Chokoboh]

Yeah, most people would agree that i'm ice cold and unrelatable.
My closest friends see quite the opposite. Cause they make me comfortable to be my true self.
Hard shell, soft core. The first to cry when something bad happens in a movie. Still not someone average joe wants to mess with.

[AkChiVibes]

Sometimes I feel guilty for having back up plans but whenever something awful is happening I immediately make sure I have a plan. It’s usually my very first thought-how it will affect me and should I be making other plans 😬

[AdisaCar]

This is great, thank you!! I always struggle with feeling “harsh” but only because others are willing to put up with things that I am not. As I’ve gotten older, I realize the necessity of boundaries and letting people know how to treat you. Folks will treat you any kind of way, and I don’t desire to be treated just any kind of way.

[cgsweat]

"The INFJ only fights when they know they will win"
Not necessarily, at least in my case. I usually step in more when I feel like it is "safe" to do so. In other words, I see more good than harm coming from my "fighting." Even if I don't "win, " at least the impact would be positive overall. Ideally the other person will leave and think about what was said and come back with a cooler head next time.

[MeeCee]

I didn't think of this as an ice-cold move when it happened but since watching this video I think it was a very good move. There's a guy at my job who is attracted to me and since he's not really my type, I don't respond to his flirtatious moves. But even though I haven't given him any encouragement at all, he still finds a way to interact with me somehow. He's actually very subtle about it so I don't know if anyone else has noticed, but because INFJs can read people so well, I know he's interested in me. It would be very easy to outright turn him down, but that might lead to some awkwardness, so one day we were in the breakroom Getting Coffee and he said something about politics. Even though it's not how I actually feel, I took this opportunity to throw a big wet blanket on his affections. I took the opposite stance on political ideas and all but called him a tree-hugging snowflake. Needless to say, he has been actively avoiding me ever since!! 😂😂😂

[torhildsagenghansen]

I'm probably an INFJ, I took a test, and came out as such. And I recognize the aspects as described. (English is not my first language, by the way.) I have two examples from my own life: I had a woman, a neighbor, who tried to make me look bad or stupid on a couple of occations. We lived in a four flat building. This happened many years ago. One afternoon I heard some commotion out in the staircase area, and I went to look. This lady had started to clean the walls of the staircase, with furious energy, and not speaking a word to me as she spotted me. Okay, I had nothing better to do just then, so I got my bucket of soap water and starting to clean our side of the staircase, not uttering a word to her, just working on like there was no tomorrow. When we reached the lower part, our downstairs neighbor peeked out, wondering what was going on. That way, she was witness to both of us cleaning the walls. I could see what lady A was planning; to make me look like a sloppy and unwilling neighbor, to tell all her friends (she had a couple of them) what a despicable person I was. Her having to clean the whole staircase alone! Well, she failed hard. Acouple of days later, the sun was shining, and most of my neighbors were sitting out in the garden, drinking coffee. I had just baked a cake, so I asked them (lady A was there, too) if they wanted me to bring out some cake, and some more coffee. Yeah, they all agreed, and I went up and got the cake and the coffee, and a cup for myself. When I came down in the garden, lady A shouted, laughingly; - no, we have! She really enjoyed herself, making me look foolish. - Well, I said, - you might want some more! I smiled, poured myself a cup, put the cake on the table, and sat down on a chair. I spoke not a word, picked up a magazine laying there, read some of it with deep interest, drank my coffee, and told them to keep the cake, because I had things to do. 1-0 to me, I guess. After these episodes she walked on eggshells around me...

[mlbullbooks]

Great video💯Number #5 is so true, and we also often don’t get in fights we know won’t lead to a resolved solution too, especially with people who don’t listen, lack empathy, and only can see their own perspective and never accept yours. These people only try to persuade you and really don’t care about how you feel as an individual.

Maybe not all the time, but sometimes it’s better to accept the blame than to explain. Sometimes losing is winning because you persevere your energy. On some occasions, speaking to some people can make matters worse. But as long as you and GOD knows what’s right is what matters most. Everyone has to take accountability for themselves.

[zeroyum]

When I was working in high tech, I came up with a new idea for a division for the company I was working for. Most people would have thought I was crazy if I would have said I was going to be a VP of the largest division of the company. I ended up retiring due to health issues. When I left, I was about 6 months away from my division spinning off. I shook the hand of the director of Engineering in the division I was working in, and I said I will be seeing you. He looked horrified and asked me if I was firing him, even though I was not his boss or a VP yet, he knew I had the power to get him fired if I wanted to.

[joiedevivrefrench]

INFJs also have a plan within a plan within a plan within a plan, they like to keep their cards close, always have something under their sleeve, and checks the "climate" of the situation and things and how it affects their plans and decisions.

[BajanBeauty]

I embrace my ice cold side 😂

I use it for continued peace and love to always flow. I have 0 energy to allow anyone interrupting my journey.

[gypsylee]

The Ice Queen! When I was about 18 I had this boyfriend who kept threatening to kill himself if I left. I can still picture getting off the phone and thinking "well go on then.." and he did try. But my mind was made up

[klpuhelin]

I have no problem setting and keeping my boundaries with strangers and people that I couldn't care a less. I don't even care if they think I'm mean, if they don't know how to behave first. But the closer the person is more difficult it is. So many times I'm way too kind and pleasing. I'm trying to learn anyway.

[RandyMoe]

I use my ice very rarely as I stop talking. Freaks them out.

[hazeyoung]

4 hit me I questioned if I was judging by evaluating

[craigbarrett]

got let go from a company that needed to shed staff on trumped up accusations. Was offered a weeks pay....
I said 'don't bother', phoned a mate in need, drove up to him and had work for three weeks and then found a better job. 😅