8 Scenarios That Make The INFJ Seem Cold Hearted & Ruthless

8 Scenarios That Make The INFJ Seem Cold Hearted & Ruthless | INFJ ruthelessness is a double-edged sword. At one end, the infj blunt nature allows for an honest and genuine approach to their notorious infj advice.

However, on the other end, the infj dark side can emerge through a seemingly ruthless communication style. So, what specific scenerios expose the infj cold-hearted alter ego?

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00 - INTRO
00:42 - Number 1: When their dark humor slips
01:45 - Number 2: When they can’t help but to treat others fairly
02:57 - Number 3: When their put off by silly human indecency
04:10 - Number 4: When they’ve tried their best to set boundaries
05:17 - Number 5: When the notorious INFJ door slam is called upon
06:49 - Number 6: When they’re trying to be less sensitive
07:38 - Number 7: When they have to be brutally honest
08:43 - Number 8: When they find the humor in everyday inconveniences
09:43 - Comment Question!

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[PSYCH-O]

Hey PSYCH-Os!👋
*So, do you think other would consider you cold hearted at times as an INFJ?*
Comment down below 👇

[KattilaTheHunFreedomFighter]

Yes..very true. Let's just say I have left a long trail of people upset and befuddled because they didn't (even try to) understand or appreciate me. And that's not my problem. I really did try, and gave of myself wholeheartedly. But they ultimately brought it upon themselves in the end. The rear view mirror is an INFJ's best friend.

[ajestlemonde]

My humor is so freaking dark! I laugh at highly inappropriate things, because there is either laughter or tears... and I prefer laughter.

[neoanderson]

yes I have been called cold hearted by my mother, my fiance, my friends but honestly I am just protecting myself from more hurt from them

[rockfordsolids]

I freaking nearly fell of my seat ha ha! there is a statement in there around 3:39 that the infj has a love hate relationship with humanity as a whole and i burst out in laughter! Could not be more accurate!

[drewford]

I think you hit the nail on the head. I can come off as cold hearted to other people who are giving off negative vibes by reflecting the same attitude towards the negativity! People who are naturally kindhearted it's the total opposite

[VaughnMictus]

I laughed like a maniac because right before a massive wall of things to do at work, there was one tiny task that was given as "be sure to do first and foremost". It immediately conjured an image of throwing a glass of water at a raging fire or plugging a hole in the dam with one's finger. The same humorous visual metaphor was not shared by all in the moment... I guess if comedy is tragedy plus time, maybe it needed some more time.

[raebutler]

I like cracking jokes on myself when I mess up. It cuts the tension and gets others laughing too.

[ronniemontgomery]

I wouldn't say cold hearted nor callous. Indifferent yes. This is not an easy way to live life. Sometimes it is brutal to feel so much. I'm seventy years old and I really don't know if this is a good thing to be or in so many ways a curse. The only thing I do know is that life is much easier when kindness is a priority. Generally speaking.

[nevannarence]

one thing i learned many years ago is my humor is definitely not for everyone. i always just say it was requisitioned to me in boot camp and i just refused to give it back when i etsed. i could relate to so many things in this video and couldnt help but laugh at its accuracy.

[normanschmidt]

I don't attend pity parties. I care deeply about people's genuine troubles. But when someone is always feeling sorry for themselves and see others that don't pander to their sympathy needs as cold-hearted, I can get down right ruthless. Giving them the pity they crave is only enabling the handicap.

[endacollins]

this is so me, I treat people how they treat me be nice and I will be the same but piss me off and I will shut you up without even trying, which has got me in hot water at work but even then my boss could not answer my questions when I was challenged, and as a writer words come easy to me, great post, cheers

[susanpauli]

Our humor pokes fun at serious things that need love humanity, its just people we can't like to say ..
" please don't take advantage of my good nature"...door slams are necessary, final and liberating....brutal honesty instead of verbal anger is a better choice....I laugh out loud at myself often...finally....
I wouldn't change places with anyone...❤

[andywilliams]

very true
inflated ego's, big hate for me

[itsyourowngood_yvfw]

I dont mimic or mirror negative behavior i address it. I have been considered a " truth sayer" as long as i can remember. A door slammer. And the one you come to when you need a trusted ear for advice or favor you wouldnt ask others. Im a character checker. And will never entertain argument unless its geared towards resolution of some sort. Ive always been considered rough around the edges. But never had an " enemy" in my life. Im a 38 yr old women but i feel like i relate to a stubborn old man thats always got some wisdom behind his words. Not to say im wise. I just try to choose my words thoughtfully no matter the tone of conversation.

[cck]

I think I just have a way of cutting straight to the point. For one thing, I don't really like small talk, and for another, it seems to scare people to not talk around certain subjects. I may just see life more clearly than a lot of people, I suppose, and I'm not so willing to BS my way through it. 😂

[arlenerivera-gwst]

When people ignore my advice, and then find themselves in deep water or drowning, I have no sympathy for them. I accept the consequences of choices I make for myself, and I will pull myself up out of the hole I've dug. But, I expect others to do the same even as I sit close by to provide support but no sympathy.

[drewford]

Love u guys! Thank you for everything you do