My Husband Lives In A Different House

My Husband Lives In A Different House

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[creativemuse]

In my research, I have come to realize that when we grew up in an dysfunctional household, our standards in love became really low. Just because you are physically safe, does not mean you are emotionally safe, it’s a huge difference and we need to talk about mental & emotional safety more.

[beyourself]

Seriously, people need to understand the difference between being good and being nice!

[prettyprincess]

This is why is soooo important to work on your self esteem and boundaries in therapy before dating. Especially if you come from a dysfunctional background. It's so easy to fall for the first nice person and conflate it to genuine love.

[jesuslives]

I love how he just cuts to the chase❤. We lie to ourselves all the time

[gailwagner]

Just because he's kind doesn't mean he's good.. a good man will talk to you and work things out a kind man may do his own thing and just not treat you badly That's not the same thing at all..

[eetoved]

Delony. Such kind eyes. What a compassionate man.

[maryw]

True or a separate resident he’s a player divorce him he wants his freedom John is right

[gem]

Separate rooms? Sure. Separate houses when one party isn’t cool with it? Oh heck no.

[pinksugarcookies]

"Nice" means nothing. Nice is fake. Nice is shallow. Kind, generous, thoughtful, dependable, loyal, honest. These are traits that you want. Nice is nothing

[libertyordeath]

My cousin and his wife kept their houses, but they lived TOGETHER. Just switched back and forth between the houses. It was different, but actually, so very much them. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[jacquelineisawesome]

You can be nice and be lying your face off. Those two things don’t always and maybe more often don’t conflate

[afterthestorm]

I kept my own house, but my 2nd husband lived 2.5 hours away and I WAS NOT going to disrupt my children by moving them. We spent our weekends together, EOW we alternated homes. I learned that he was alcoholic (during a surprise midweek visit from me). He said that he didn’t want to be married anymore and that he never wanted kids (I had 4 teens). We divorced, per his wishes. (Beer drinking mattered more than relationship, I guess). Anyway, a few years later he unalived himself. It was a sad situation.

[TheSassitude]

I wonder the age of this woman.
There was a time I said more frequently to myself: "When I was a child, I did childish things. Now that I'm an adult, I must put away childish things."

Essentially, I told myself to grow up. No more unrequited loves. No more feeling badly. I ived for YEARS without being in a relationship (more than 2 decades). There was no time limit. It just had to be the right person to share my space (peace, existence, mundane life, events, etc, space).

Know what a good man is. Define good for yourself. Believe in your definition and be resilient enough to live it, be self sufficient, be happy (however that needs to be defined for you).

Be blessed.

[barbarawentzel]

I went thru a very similar event. He was very narcissistic. Liar, dreamer.. cheater. Dead now. Don't even miss him.

[ladypamela]

I love how straight forward you are. Wish i would have known about you a long time ago when i was married to the psychopath i married.

[janjacksonauthor]

I like this man he says the truth no squirming on it to soothe grieving souls. ❤❤❤❤

[natural]

Oh my gosh.. All humans have the ability to sense things and this woman has sensed that her husband doesn't want him but she refused to believe it. Your body has incredible ability to sense things it's reacting to the energy outside of the body

[gracebressi]

If he’s not living with her, he’s definitely seeing somebody else. That’s why he wants his own place.

[annamarietaljaard]

HE IS NEGLECTING AND ABUSING HER EMOSIONALLY!!

[lavonnetollison]

Honey I stayed for most of 22 years - it never changed. Wish I’d been the one to walk away that last time!!!!