WHY MEN CHEAT

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[fermh]

a person cheats because they want to. doesn't matter if you are a hard working and loving man or woman, if your partner wants to cheat, they will independent of what you do.

[vbj]

Whether it's a man or a woman, anyone who is impulsive, entitled, novelty and validation seeking, lacks empathy and puts his/her needs first most of the time is more likely to cheat. They're just being themselves. If you can't accept who they are, leave.

[beautylife]

Someone said, "don't trust a man, instead, trust yourself"....I agree.

[Ohkay]

Cheater: I'm going to betray you, hurt you, embarrass you, and put you at risk of STI's all to satisfy myself. I will also blame you for my cheating by saying you didn't meet my needs (while I ignored your needs). But I still love you.

[__VR__]

Only people with low self-esteem cheat. It’s scientifically proven. A person with confidence knows how to get what they want and have enough brain to speak to their partner and say “Look, I’m not happy.“
A loser who is scared of change and improvement always prefers to hide. End of sentence.

[peacekalu]

I can't wait to tell my future husband " baby I cheated because I wanted to appease my needs elsewhere without bothering you but it doesn't mean I don't love you"😍😍😍

[tedthajohnson]

Men choose not to communicate that something is missing because a lot of times nothing is missing cause some of them just want something different. Plain and simple. Then there’s what she said

[alexaa]

0:33: 👥 Men can say they love you but still cheat due to unmet needs and a lack of communication.
3:18: 💑 The video discusses how becoming a mother can cause women to neglect their duties as a wife, and suggests that open communication and quality time can help prevent infidelity.
6:27: 💑 Honesty in a relationship creates emotional attunement and prevents infidelity.
9:35: 💑 The couple discusses the importance of trust and communication in their relationship, especially when it comes to discussing their sexual needs.
12:38: 🔍 Being emotionally and psychologically connected to your partner helps in recognizing any change in their behavior.
Recap by Tammy AI

[raheemkhan]

Just because she is right about this doesn't mean men should feel less guilty about cheating.

[Ayse-wfes]

“It’s not that the cheating men don’t love their wives”……errrr……then I don’t want that cheap brand of “love”. Love is a choice just like cheating is a choice.

And a guy who chooses to exert his energies into texting/calling/meeting another woman behind his wife-n-kid’s backs…..is actively (and repeatedly) choosing someone else over them….and that is not love.

It’s funny how cheaters use the word “love” after getting caught. But-but-but-I love you. Well not enough if you were deliberately willing to risk it all before getting caught: why didn’t that same “love” stop you in your tracks? Hmm?

All that mental and emotional energy you put into starting the affair…fueling it….hiding it….doing it again and again…………….ALL of that energy/time/money could have been used toward your wife.

[amberjheard]

I love how Sadia is so real that even though she understands human nature very well, she owns she still have vices and room for personal growth herself. This was a really good discussion.

[thestorybehindthat]

Love is caring about your partners well being. As she said, caring men won't cheat on their partner. You can't cheat and love your partner. It's one of the worst things you could do to another person. Ask any man and he'll tell you about it. Men lie to themselves and minimize their transgressions when they're the offending party.

[truthwithes]

Communication is key. I remember I would check in with my ex husband to make sure we were okay or any issues that needed to be addressed and he would always say "no babe we are fine". Then, turned around and cheat and cheat and cheat

[JAWD]

I think your comment on values is on point as someone may develop a crush on someone during their marriage but their value system will determine what, if anything, becomes of that crush.

[abiramipoobalasingam]

A person cheating on you is NEVER your fault! The cheater always has their own reason for doing that and it is ENTIRELY their choice. It is interesting to know some of the reason to educate ourselves about these issues so that we can prevent it from happening in a healthy relationships. However, lt is entirely the cheater's choice that she/he decided to cheat on their partner. I also came across people ( players ) who are never satisfied with what they have so they go for one after the other thinking one is better than the other. It is an internal void they have but they go about testing many thinking the next one will be better!
You always have a choice to decide what you can and cannot tolerate.

Thank you

[donh]

Value system is the keyword. All men are tempted to cheat. The only thing that’s stops me is hard discipline due to my love for God and the person I’m with. Sexual temptation is man’s greatest battle in life

[crystalanamericaninsicily]

Saying I love you means NOTHING!! Where is this Love?? ACTIONS!!!

[miagilaani]

Sorry but being a cheater apologist and victim blaming will give a hall pass to men to cheat about and gaslight women for having their needs not being met. 90% of cheaters don’t do it out of need but a selfish want. Work on ur poor relationship or exit it and then go about sleeping with ppl. I matched up with a guy on a dating app and he later in admits to being married and has a perfect marriage of 8 years but he just went on the dating app for the thrill of it . I had to unmatch him. So nah for the first time I don’t agree with her

[kenishahammond]

She broke this down so well and it makes sense, it doesn't make it right but I have a better understanding of why a man will cheat. I also feel like people, male or female need to just be honest with one another and also practice self control as well.

[Mz.weingarten]

More often than not there's cheating going on.. I notice a change of behavior EVERY SINGLE time my partner is cheating.. so I can't help but be accusatory..