When He Doesn't Text Back, Here's What You Should Do

[monicalevyt]

One more thing of what NOT to do:
Don't keep texting him asking what is going on, why is he ignoring you, showing desperation.

[rdunyc]

Reward him for inconsistent behavior? That's absurd. A quality man will be consistent and communicate like an adult. Better advice: Move on and invest in a man that values you enough to text you back. Simple.

[chanelaholic]

Must have been taking a shower for days

[aimeekleine]

When he doesn't text back delete his number and move on😂😂😂😂😂

[danielastefan]

Matthew, no matter how busy a man is, he can find 20 second to text back, he can do it even in the toilette. This is not an excuse. If he s not into you, not an excuse neither. I had ugly and stupid men texting me all the time, I was fed up and I took time to text back, just to say I was busy,  this is being educated.

[whisperingwind]

What's the big deal if he doesn't text u back??
Bc it's rude that's why.
Being busy at the moment is one thing, playing bs games is another.

[hgnnnno]

Matthew: "He could be in the shower."
My dumb ass: "It's okay, he's just taking a three day long shower and responding to everyone but me."

[Hitomiaka]

wait wait. This allows a man to do whatever he pleases. He will know that he can do a disappearing act. I believe a woman needs to set her standards. Could you talk about that?

[vANIBO]

The worst advice !Who rewards petulant bad behavior and disrespect . Quality men don't behave this way they communicate effectively .

[deeg]

We all have boyfriend's ... or ex boyfriends who could provide these same lame excuses. I'll accept a reason, but never excuses!

[kaleidojess]

Or.. you can just drop it all together and realize that you've got better things to do with your life. Any one who doesn't prioritize you probably isn't worth it. Why care if they don't?

[Beeyourself]

But ignoring someone is not showing them that you value them? So if you reward him for "coming back". are you not condoning behaviour that is counter productive to him valuing you as a person?

[anitalennox]

I am a teacher so as you can imagine I am a really busy person, but if I like someone, I can find the time to text back. Not very good advice I am afraid. If he does not find the time to communicate with me then I am not a priority and why would I want that in a future partner?

[mishi]

If he pulls back you pull back if he invests a bit you invest a bit.

[janereaction]

If a woman has to do all those things just to get him off her mind when he’s not texting, might as well be single! Also, don’t be so afraid of scaring away a guy who’s not that into you anyway. Shame away and click next

[septemberdawnluketz]

No-one likes anyone that's too needy. Not even women like women or men that are too needy. At least I don't. If a man doesn't have healthy boundaries with me I am not interested when they follow me around like a lost puppy, but I also can't stand it when they are completely emotionally unavailable. Women like men that are confident with themselves because it is a reflection of how they will be in the relationship. Women and men both need space, healthy time apart, and quality time together.

[张婧琳-um]

Yes he was busy and HE THOUGHT I was acting needy. But the problem was I was busy too and I needed his response. I didn't shame or condemn him, we have talked about this issue calmly and have even written the solution down. He said it was a great idea... But it just didn't happen.. So I asked him not bothering to contacting me anymore and then I totally deleted him. I know what you are talking about, but a boyfriend in a serious relationship needs to be maturer and more responsible than this, if they want a very independent girl who doesn't really think about them (I am really so busy in life and have many friends), they should not have a relationship at all - because girls have a relationship not because they want to be more independent than even before.

[yaniquesainvil]

REWARD him my ass.What if the shoe were on the other foot??lol..BYE FELECIA😂

[duomaya]

It's very hard to find good guys in this world, these days....😦

[makeitcount]

I lose interest really fast so 3 days of no contact and you are out of my mind and definitely not at the top of my list any more. Once I don't feel strongly for you I can never recreate those feelings ever!