This Is What Avoidants Feel When You Go No Contact

If you’ve been through a breakup with an avoidant, you know it can feel like they don’t even miss you. So then how is No Contact supposed to work? Aren’t you just giving them what they want? How are you supposed to make them miss you when they just wanted space from you in the first place?

Well the truth is that No Contact actually affects avoidants more than you think. They might actually be the group who is the MOST impacted by this technique, even though they’d never admit it. And that’s because of what it does to their psychology and their self image. Watch to the end to learn more...

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[SK]

Totally true. They loooove the attention and want to keep you at a distance. The second you show interest or a desire for any kind of communication-they’re out.

[johnolsen]

The AAA method = Always Avoid Avoidants

[tumbleweedconnection]

One thing that a lot of avoidants lack is self awareness!

[alejandrocornejo]

good content, no contact is more effective when its long er than 3-4 weeks most of the time in my opinion.

[Apbt-rvzw]

The shame doesn't drive them back into your arms. The shame often keeps them away because in you the partner is that you represent the shame they feel. The shame is what they will avoid... bogus.
You forget that Avoidants will monkey branch to another person to get that validation they crave.

[sbethsc]

Please keep in mind even if your avoidant ex returns, this pattern does tend to repeat itself from the articles & research Ive done. Make sure they are truly aware of their behaviors and adapt change or at least welcome new behaviors to show up in a healthier way otherwise you are just returning to the same traumatized person that has no desire for change because you accept them as they are. I cannot stress this enough, you do not want repetitive heartbreak & disappointment.

[missnicole]

4 years of dealing with the repeated break up cycle. This time, he left 3 months after moving in. Claimed he cannot meet my needs and doesnt have the capacity. He said he isnt a good boyfriend and he will be alone and regret this decision for the rest of his life. I agreed with break up and suggested he find someone more like him and i was done. 2 months of NC and a month in, he blocks me on instagram. He knows i didn't want the break up, but i was giving it to him. Doubt he is coming back this time, especially after i said i was done. I miss him terribly, but i know he isn't going to work on himself. 😢 he said he cant change.

[Shah-ssfe]

They never wait for you, they don’t miss you . They always jump into new relationships. Don’t worry they don’t think about you.

[swagyboyX]

Brad I got a question should I still have contact with the family of my ex? Or should u avoid

[Pablo-hllf]

It’s been 6 months after breakup. We are in no contact for 2 months. I’m missing her. She has another boyfriend right after our relationship, and i feel like i not been even important for her. We have some conversations but she acts indifferent..

[markb]

i was with my ex for 17 years she ran straight back to a ex partner she had stayed friends with

[confidenceblesson]

Thank you 😊 brad.. this video was helpful

[WeGotTurboGaming]

They go no contact, get lonely. Only to find someone else. And not to come back to you, because they think you've moved on and feel to guilty to come back.

[Jacksamuel]

Could you please make a video about why an ex texts you with something insignificant like ‘how are you doing’ and after a really short convo you leave the conversation because they didn’t ask anything else or say anything else. Also when will they likely text again the second time and if so what could they be saying?

[bbojebac]

Few days after breakup I left flowers at my ex's door and she contacted my parents to tell that I'm pursuing her...just left flowrs with letter "sorry"...

[alchemicalsoul]

I was very oblivious to my own avoidant behaviors in the past. My awareness has been unraveling over the last several years after experiencing a DA myself. I believe that the attachment styles are too rigid. We are much more complex and nuanced. When a person evaluates their past relationships they will see various stages of overt and covert anxiety. You don't kkow what you don't know, but blanketing your behavior in the context of attachment styles is limiting. It's key to size yourself up and learn how you operate. Also consider whether you have the kind of nervous system and psychological make up that can navigate interpersonal relationships.

[MSC-Sharika]

Hi Brad,
My bf took the decision to broke up because of the reason that his family won't accept the relationship.I have tried my maximum to make him understand the real situation and promised him that i will help him out of that..but he is saying that he is afraid of again being to relationship in a situation where families won't accept..
Can I get this relation back ? Pls respond

[Any]

So what I basically got out of this video, is I didn't win my avoidant ex back because I didn't text them after 40 days period?! As I felt it's not what I was supposed to do after so much giving from my side.

[lucywood]

What to do if ex cheated and moved away with someone new

[JustMeAndMyBoy]

@BradBrowning 1)Are u saying that THEY do reach out in time? 2)Are u referring to dismissive or fearful avoidant pls?