men, just wait till marriage

[lancemarchetti]

If you can enjoy being married to each other BEFORE a legal marriage certificate is physically signed, then that's a huge win for you both. The marriage ceremony is not the goal...and it does not make two people fall in love. The Relationship is the goal. After all, it's not a priest, pastor or piece of paper that makes you 'husband and wife' ...Just think about that... :)

[ProbablyBased]

It's the porn. Everyone's an addict nowadays

[robloxvids]

I waited for marriage, too. Just not my marriage. My neighbor got married so my gf and I decided to use that as our symbol of readiness.

[markm]

I'm 32 year man and I've been saving myself for marriage. I'm engaged to a wonderful God-fearing young lady whom God has put in my life, we getting married this summer. Waiting is worth it!

[tarynthompson]

Both me and my husband waited. Well worth it! He was almost 30 when we married and I was his first and only girlfriend and he was my first and only boyfriend.

[Belle-py]

Life is short. Do what you want to do as long as you're not hurting anyone. The Shapiros can't tell you how to live your life.

[youngtrout]

I'm 26 and I've never had sex and I'm proud.

[drdst]

As a man who failed to wait until marriage - this remains the biggest regret in my life. You can't put that genie back into the bottle once opened, only live with it and move forward.

[AbbeyClint]

One of the best decisions I made was to save myself for my husband. 😅 I’m so glad I don’t have the baggage and struggles that come from not waiting until marriage 😢

[lambdaboy]

*"No dating till marriage"*
-Steven's Dad

[jessefoster]

Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.

— John 7:38

[sunnivs]

Why would you tell anyone what the should or should not do?

[ShadySummerZ]

This ignores that its totally different for guys. If you track divorce rates vs premarital sexual partners a woman with 1 (not the future husband) has the same divorce rate as a man with 19. Women choose which men get sex and men choose which women get married. I dont see any upside for men in waiting only negatives.

[DanielMartinez]

You are ignoring the legal risks of marriage. Please don't tell men to ignore what is best for us and tell us to get married.
Inform yourself please. I think you are a good person, but you don't know the problems that we face.

[madsdes]

Husband and I dated 6.5 years and waited till marriage. Best decision ever!

[clemmywemmy]

jesus, just let people do what they want. nothing will happen if you do or don't wait until marriage. it's not that big of a deal. let people do it before, it'll be fine babe.

[melvincole]

Most marriages that don't wait fail.
Most people that waited until marriage survey to be satisfied and happy to learn together. (When these couples have a heart to serve their partner)
Women that don't wait OR in most cases women that have had multiple partners before marriage have a more difficult time bonding to a partner.
Those who wait to have sex until marriage, compared to those who don’t, report significantly higher realtionship satisfaction (20%), better communication patterns (12%), less consideration of divorce (22%), and BETTER sexual quality (15%)2. These effects are lessened but still consistent in those who became sexually active later in dating but prior to marriage

[MaxZero-yzkm]

I unfortunately did not wait i had s*x when i was 19 and a kid was born he lives with his mom her and i never married and i haven’t seen them both since i was 19

We were all waiting for her to pop em out

Very disappointing

[brandogg]

What if you wait until marriagr and the sex is BAD?