How Women Test Men

Many of the ways a woman will try to figure out if you are good enough for her are invisible and if you don't know what these ways are, you can easily fail them and get dropped without knowing what happened. So let's go some of the ways that a woman will test your inner strength.

[ah]

The more you worry about things like this the more screwed you get. Just focus on what you want

[jorgeriera]

So true my girl just told me I'm not in love with you after 3 years of a relationship Ok so I left her. Her grandma passed a few days later I sent her condolences text went to the funeral I was very supportive without being overwhelming to her she had no emotions so I pay my respect and I left never to look back.

I don't play those games it's simple you don't want to be with me ok bye this shows you are true man accept the break up yes it hurts but work on getting better and move on. Do not reach out don't bother her again.

I never saw her again. Thank God.

Update

She breadcrumb for about a month and half yes i did try to work it out but no luck until about a week later i had enough so I told her this is hurting emotionally so if you love me block me so she did and I never heard from her now 3 weeks after the last conversation she has a new man I'm happy she found someone that can love her I wish them best on their new life.

[amirhasan-yeku]

I think for not being needy we should focus on ourselves, not the test. In fact the tests, push us to become better,
good job, Tripp👏

[redi]

Just be you and you'll attract the right person for u

[neonh]

It's good to be on guard and prepared for these tests at all times, nice onec👍🏾

[point-blnk]

Rather than "watch out for these", my advice would be to work on youself so that, should those tests pop up, you're ready to clear them without even realizing it. For example, If you're a yes man chances are deep inside you're desperate and lack the confidence to find someone else.

[catalinacurio]

True, I kept getting asked out by a guy until one day I bumped into him in the park my house backs onto, he asked me out again so this time I thought why not give him a chance so I said yes, his response was to ask if he could come to my home for a cup of tea (as in right now), he failed the test and yes I hadn’t thought I wax testing him at the time.

[DennnisB]

Being 60 years old...I agree with this message...

[annstar]

These are true for the most part. I would clarify though there is a huge difference in behavior and energy of someone chasing (by this I assume you mean taking initiative and showing interest?) and being needy/suffocating. I think both men and women and all people get very confused about this, and it can end up backfiring on them by not understanding the middle ground with these behaviors.

[MariaV]

I would not say, watch out for these. Ok, for sure, regardless gender, look at actions, if they match the words. Never fall for smooth talk.

And most of the "tests" mentioned in the video are biologically programmed. Men being hunters, women being gatherers. A male who is not needy, "automatically" shows strong masculine behavior, being able to provide for the family, therefore, stronger offspring.
I would not classify these as games.

And that pulling away, men also do that to test if a woman is needy. If she is, she can be moved to do things at his terms.

[kennymcdonald]

They can test and play as much games as they want. I have no time for games, I have a life to live and have to keep on moving, if you come on this journey, I don’t stop and anyone that stays on the course with me, I will protect and love you along the way to the end of the journey.

[otakumangastudios]

This is why having that conversation on the first few dates are actually really important, and if your date is willing to do so, it's a good sign. If they're not willing to do so, it likely means they never meant it to be serious in the first place. Not everyone tries to figure these things out inadvertently, but in today's society, it seems like the only way to learn about someone, because it's an immediate turn off if you ask these questions directly. It shouldn't be, before falling in love, you should find out if you're compatible or not. After that then, you can be lovey-dovey with each other and learn about each other sexually and emotionally

[gabesen]

If she ever remotely tried that game, , , , my response is- "NEXT" !!!

[ruthannemackinnon]

I never tested my husband but I did carefully observe him

[WorldOfMasters]

I just failed a neediness test the other day just before I watched this video. Can you still bounce back from failing tests and how?

[joanmadrigal]

As we should, I think. Who’s gonna stay for some guy who just isn’t compatible like that?

[agassifams]

I got confused is she testing me or she try to move on :(

[raylancarver]

A girl I dated during my high school career may have done this. Basically she asked if we should split up. Without hesitation I said yeah. Back then I didn't know why I said that since I did like her. I think that may have been the best action. Again this was a girl I liked. Sadly she passed in 2010 during my final year. Some time between she told me what happened after when she told her mom. As she puts it she was devastated. I probably would have gotten back with her but she was diagnosed with terminal cancer months after. Had to let her go in the end anyways.

[MeliyaStroobant]

Just to see if he's a chaser? or just to see if he respects you? Could be both, right? ;x

[lynn]

I'm curious if there are any people that actually "pull away to see if the other is needy". I've never done that.. but they also say men do this too... But now I'm wondering does this actually happen? And also why are these getting recommended to me lol