5 Sneakiest Ways Girls Test A Guy's Confidence Level

Girls want to make sure that the guy they select has certain qualities, with most of these qualities boiling down to confidence and self-esteem, and these tests are usually indirect in nature, and oftentimes, guys have no idea what is happening, until the girl ends up choosing some other guy.

Knowing about these things might not change anything for you, but I find it interesting, so I figured I would share the ideas with you guys!

[nostalgia_ess]

If she flirts with other guys in front of you then she is disrespecting you, that´s more than a red flag, if she does that she is not testing you she just belongs to the streets.

[michaelmirin]

A girl that I've been talking to pulled away for about 5 years now and even got a boyfriend. This is one hell of a test

[goriygf]

"It might seem like she is insulting you, but what she is actually doing is testing you"
Uhm, no. What she is actually doing is insulting you, and her justification for it is irrelevant.

[epictetusofhierapolis]

Having been around the block a couple times, I can tell you that all this "act indifferent" response is basically a band-aid for a much deeper issue. If you REALLY know what is right and wrong, if you REALLY know your particular values and beliefs, you don't have to "act indifferent", you will BE indifferent. And that is because any woman testing you in this manner is being immature and disingenuous. Once I hit 30, I just noticed what seemed to be irrational behavior of this sort from women, and I just tuned it out and let them know that I was not playing their game. The key is, it was not because I actually WANTED them to accept me, but because I really didn't want to deal with shit in my life. That's where these kind of videos lose the plot. When he says, "act indifferent, she'll actually like you because of it". Yeah, maybe, but do YOU want a girl who plays games like these in YOUR life? Ask yourself that question.

[nithishkumar]

The only way to pass all the test without even trying is to not give a shit.

[wesdean]

On the flip side, those "tests" can backfire. Some of us lose all respect and interest when we see signs of manipulation and games like this being played. It's a huge turn off. The man who is just as comfortable being alone as they are in a relationship neither has time for that crap, nor will they put up with it.

[forkme]

I can handle almost all of these just fine. The jealousy "test" will piss me right off, though. Not because I'm jealous, but because it's disrespectful in the extreme and I won't tolerate it. I've broken off relationships in the middle of dinners, parties, etc because I got fed up with being disrespected to my face. Never got verbally or visibly aggravated though, just told them that since she's so interested in the other guy that she can't even wait until I'm not around, I'll give them some space, and her things that I have at my place will be ready to be picked up the next day at noon.

[kylekenan]

I've had a girl do the jealousy test on me and I did it back to her simultaneously, then she gave me a disgusted look and I smiled.

[CAG]

You're not losing her, the universe is moving her out of your way!

[ianl.gutierre]

“ A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her” — Oscar Wilde

[JC-scrx]

See this actually happened to me. My girlfriend insulted me, and I did get upset because I thought she shouldn't be trying to hurt me if we are together. I always tried to make her feel good about herself so I expected the same in return...but...that caused me to fail this test and that was the end of the relationship. It was odd because honestly in retrospect I should have been the one to walk away from it, however she got there first. Growing up I didn't realize that women these days actually aren't on the level of maturity as women who came before them. Since the relationship failed I have had the opportunity to meet and be with even more beautiful women then her and to meet and be with women who treated me better as well. Oh well. What do we call? blessing in disguise? I dunno

[fubarace]

2 rules:

1) Don't ever get angry with a woman. When it's done, acknowledge it and just leave. If the test happens in the middle of a date, you end that date. Right then, right there. The person who values the relationship least is the one in control of it. If you show her you'll leave if things arent the way you want them, she's less likely to test you. This is the hardest lesson to learn as compromise is normally considered a reasonable alternative when two parties disagree. The problem with that here is if you show you'll bend when pushed, she loses respect and is going to keep pushing, if she sticks around.

2) When you recognize she's playing games, don't play. Almost universally the best answer to a woman's games is walking away, and remembering to not get angry.

The one thing that woman will always be searching for is acknowledgement and attention, her games are designed to get her both. Give her neither, understand she is trying to control and manipulate you and do not allow it.

[abhishekpandey]

Now it seems like getting a Mercedes is easier than getting a girlfriend.

[TheDhammaHub]

In reality, we are "tested" all the time by everyone!

[sunk]

Arthur Schopenhauer was right, women will always be children at heart. Those childish tests/mind games are exhausting and that's exactly why i stopped dating. I almost feel manipulated and i genuinely hate it. I don't want to drain myself by analysing everything, i have better things to do.

[rbs_jonesy]

If she’s flirting with other men around you, she’s for the streets. She’s not worthy of you

[commentainment]

Ignore them.
Avoid them.
Evade them.

You have more important things in life than this petty misery.

[teflonug]

Long story short, don’t give af and you’ll succeed

[villagerjj]

You my friend, are a life saver. Not only do I see my own weaknesses, you also give us vague ways to repair them so we are not just copying a video, and instead make our own ways. I thank you!

[Mecca]

The key to pass all these test is to have an Abundance mindset 🎯💪🏾💯