My Partner Doesn't Listen to Me

My Partner Doesn't Listen to Me / Do you find that your partner, spouse, (or even your friend, relative, or coworker) won't listen to you? Do they shut down or are they resistant when you offer suggestions to their problems? Not listening to each other is a common relationship problem/marriage issue.

Today I'll explain why your partner isn't listening to you and share a super effective communication tool to make sure they start listening. Get ready to improve those communication skills!


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[marvel]

Thanks Abby! Your point about empathizing the emotion, but changing the tone feels like an excellent tool to utilize.

[Sommyie]

Its weird, i went from "oh dang, yup, she talking to the robot behind my cameras" to "this is my partner" to "ive done that, and she never has answers"

[dainakcoffey]

This is super helpful! Thanks for sharing this one, Abby!

[Syro]

My fiancé is so stubborn. Even when she’s wrong and has no idea what she’s talking about. It drives me up the wall, because there are things I’m more educated in and she just doesn’t value what I say. It makes me feel like she thinks I’m stupid. She also doesn’t listen to my personal needs. I’ve literally cried to her multiple times about certain things and yet nothing has changed long-term.

[antoniotortiz]

Great video! I especially appreciate the suggested questions to create connection in the end of the video. I find that people know what they need and what they need to do, but they just need to be heard. Also the “aha” moment only happens when they feel heard. I’m gonna use these tips to listen to myself, i would love to have more “aha” moments and all i need is to empathize with myself. ❤️

[mscafe]

Wow! Good to know we're wired this way and I'm not just crazy. Thanks for this info!!

[ari]

You are amazing!! Keep doing this great job!!!

[acecalderon]

This doesn't work on a grown adult that can't see reality staring in them face AFTER it being brought to their attention by someone they love and trust.

[lolalassiterwhite]

In my opinion if they won't listen then when they mess up don't look to me for help. Im done giving advice to others.

[LiLi-sovl]

I have a question, ill give you an example of how I do not feel heard in the relationship and this has been going on for years, I am feeling the need to move on, anyways umm my girlfriend goes in the room starts to get all the dirty laundry clothes and I am still in bed at that time so I say to her half asleep myself leave it there ill put it in the washer dont worry, I kept repeating that many times and she still put all the clothes in herself. Once I was up I told her I was repeating to you not to put the washer, her answer was I had already put in some clothes I said u could have turn it off now i have my pajamas dirty and why would i want to just put 1 washer for only 1 pair of pajamas? She was like ooooh okay no problem. I am at the point of getting sick and tired of her, I feel like leaving her, this is a constant thing her not giving a shit (listening) Give me some advice please.