THE NARCISSIST'S SICK GAME: HOW THEY TURN PEOPLE AGAINST YOU/LISA ROMANO

#narcissisticrelationship #narcissism #toxicrelationship The narcissist's sick game is designed to turn people against you. Do you have a friend or family member who is a narcissist? If so, you know how they can turn seemingly everyone against you. In this video, I'll share some of the tactics narcissists use to get people to do their bidding and how to protect yourself from them.

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[Madmart]

One of the best video explanations about narcissists I’ve found-thank you ♥️ As you say they have already spread the poison by the time you try and talk to others about it and it just backfires on you.

[chicka-rocka]

It's like they break your legs and then yell at you for not running.

[melissademarco]

RUN. . .the psychopaths NEVER change. Save yourself!!

[lysas]

“They live in a false reality. They think they’re far more intelligent, beautiful and spiritual than they actually are.”Wow, so true!

[SheCanSmile]

Well in my life now the narcs' monkeys are turning against the narc. It is beautiful to witness.

[kristenstewart]

This is what my narcissistic father does to me. I never understood why when I met family friends they would give me a kind of pitying/concerned look- these were people I was meeting for the very first time in my life, yet they would act kind of worried for me and sometimes ask me about school/friends/whatever. It took me years for me to realize my father was a narcissist and find out from others how much he talks behind my back. Sometimes he would offer me money, only so he could whine to others about how much money I was taking from him and how dysfunctional I was. I still dont understand how someone could be so evil and conniving about their child, but I know it comes from all the darkness inside of him.

[themysteriousdomainmoviepalace]

This is powerful. If you have narcissistic parents, you become a narcissist magnet and not see what's going on. There are so many of these all around us.

[CS-ivtk]

They build a bridge with someone in a relationship in front of a audience, then turn around and set it on fire when they no longer serve a purpose.

[janedunlap]

He destroyed my relationship w my children and family. Those who sided w him still don't speak to me. But the empaths saw right thru him and his bs. Bless them🙏

[christinalw]

When narcs lie about the empath it is evil. Do they not know that we see & feel from the others they have gossiped to? Sad, and disgusting.

[farfetched]

It's funny how a person from the outside can turn people you've know for decades against you. That let me know my own family, children, and friends never were true in the first place and already felt some type of way about me

[SheCanSmile]

"you will pay for the unresolved issues in them." that is so true but their issues are never resolved. sowhen they get mad at no contact, they mad ur no longer around to be abused.

[tilronag]

They hate communication because they label it as complaining. Ive become much better after educating myself on how to keep myself grounded.

[Julienna]

I never noticed during my 2 years long relationship with a narcissist that he is talking shitty about me behind my back. Once we broke up I was totally isolated, alone, nobody was on my side. I was heartbroken and alone, suicidal. I could not understand what happened to people I loved, even my family members. Now I understand the behavior. He was talking badly about me the whole time! When we broke up, I felt like a failure, I missed him, I used to cry all day long... then I met my neighbour and told her about the break up and her immediate reaction was: he probably found somebody better than you... I was like This felt like a punch into my sad face. I could not believe what she said. We were good neighbour and I never did anything wrong to her! I helped her many time, this old "lady" who was living alone! I lost all my friends and some members of my family were accussing me of being the abuser and that I deserved the end of the relationship. Eveh his betrayal - his cheating on me. :O I wish I could punch him now! I almost commited suicide, I thought the whole world stopped loving me. This was 1O years ago and now it all make sense, finally! Thank you, Lisa. :-*

[TheCuriousBunny]

They use everything against you, they don't care who they hurt to make themselves feel in the right

[aries-seventhseal]

Blood "family" do this too. Since a toddler. I finally got away and IM NOT EVER GOING BACK.

[DianeHasHopeInChrist]

As an are attracted to me, as I have compassion where they lack compassion. I had to cut my narcissistic mother, and an narcissistic ex, and a narcissistic friend completely out of my life. Their toxic energies sucked the life out of me. And the harder I tried, the worse I was treated. The narcissist appears to be charming, caring in public....but abuse you in private. I finally learned to build a bubble around me, so that I could stop absorbing other's energies. I spent most of my adult and young life, trying to win approval from te narcissists in my life. Especially my mother. It was once I was diagnosed as an Empath, in therapy by a Parapsychologist, I finally realized why my mother, friends, ex-boyfriend, etc., were so emotionally, spiritually, verbally, and physically abusive towards me. It is difficult to live life without those I love, but I had to save my own life, literally, to survive that abuse.

[paulad.]

The smear campaign is a very large topic. Years back, I had a roommate for a few years. We had, what I called back then, a one-up, one-down relationship. She was clearly on the one-up side of things. She told me that she had 'issues of control.' I didn't understand then what that meant. I do now. She is also a therapist, which ended up being used against me. In the course of the friendship/roommate relationship, she determined that I was a narcissist and she began treating me that way. I became angrier and angrier over time because I was being treated that way. It took me about 25 years to finally figure out what was happening in that relationship.
During that time, I would hear people making comments that made no sense to me at the time. I did not understand why they made those comments, but subsequent insight has led me to understand that during the time I lived with her, she was talking about me to them behind my back.
After she kicked me out of the apartment, I became aware of other things. People, who were nice to me one week, wanted little to do with me the next. One of her friends glares at me whenever she sees me. I had a friend one time come up to me after services (I live in a Jewish community.) and she looked very upset and disapproving about something she had heard. (She had just been sitting at a table with a bunch of women and the ex-roommate.) This friend told me that whatever I did to not bring anyone I was interested in dating to the synagogue. So, I have been aware for a long time that she has been running a smear campaign against me.
To be clear, not once have I done the same thing to her. And this, from the person (me), who is supposed to be the narcissist.
It is a horrible thing to go through. She is a loved and respected person in the community and people think she is a wonderful person. I have my own thoughts, which I have shared with only the closest of my friends, and even at that it took me 12 years to open up with them about this subject.
It is an awful thing to go through. I once heard that people who try to control you, upon finding out that they cannot control you, will try to control everyone else's perception of you. That rings true from my experience.

[redraven]

It's never their fault, He staged being the victim to my friends and turned my kids against each other n me, He used my history against me.

[alexandriascott]

This literally explains what my mother has done to me! It’s so awful.