Why Do INFJs Leave Relationships? (INFJ Breakup)

Why Do INFJs Leave Relationships? (INFJ Breakup) | Now.. we've all heard about the notorious INFJ door slam breakup.. (and for those who haven't; check out our door slam INFJ recommended video below! ) Yet.. what's behind this notion of the 'INFJ no return?'

When people think about an infj breaking up with someone, they may resort to blaming it on their idealistic vision of romance, yet that's usually far from the truth. In fact, most time, infj heartbreak comes after numerous attempts of keeping things in harmony.. one of the INFJ strengths that they take seriously. When INFJ leave relationship, they can end up more heart than the opposing partner making INFJ dating all that more difficult for the rarest personality type. So.. why do INFJs leave? Learn the 10 relatable INFJ reasons in today's video!

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[fazzaustralia]

One of the other reasons is we just outgrow people. Because we never reach our peak and our mind changes as we discover new things of interest and new concepts, we never stay still. So we slowly lose interest in people around us if they can't keep up. It's not done without empathy it's just the way we are. It's kind of a 'Been there done that' sort of thing. I think we just need the scenery to change or we just get bored and want to move on. Like there's nothing here for us anymore.

[CM-stwy]

No one gets unlimited lives with us. We are super patient and if you are too self absorbed and unwilling too make real changes we will end it. It becomes clear that our core values do not align. You will hold us back from our determination to self improve.

[james-INFJ]

Ahhh the struggles of finding love as an INFJ... I feel as though this video also applies to friendships in general, not only in romantic relationships.

[zenjen_]

Once my trust is broken, I have no problems ghosting anyone, and I don’t look back. Since learning that I am a Heyoka-INFJ so much of my life has made so much more sense. As I continue to learn more about myself (which tumbled into an existential crisis) I appreciate the friendships I have formed so much more. Relationships, I am happy not being in. For the moment. There is so much more self love and care I need to pour into myself than to someone else. For now.

[paulavukicevic]

Wow, finally I understand why I have been cutting off so many guys without any obvious reason. My intuition was screaming inside of me "he isn't the right person" or "he doesn't truly care for you" although he was seemingly nice and interested. But ignoring this inner voice is simply impossible so suddenly it bursts out of me and I need to leave the relationship. I still was the one who suffered more after the the breakup, because I connect so much, that it physically hurts to let go 😔

[MrBobbymacaroni]

We are often surprised that when we offer someone a helping hand, they simply eat it and then look longingly at our remaining one...

[chriscampbell]

Because we get fed up with being taken advantage of

[aodh]

It's not always easy walking away. When you're sure the other person likes you, but you've seen enough to know it won't work out in the long run. I require 100% commitment, or nothing at all.

[athenenoctua]

don't break my trust twice
i learned to fight on my own if i need to
and i am not afraid to go for good.
I will miss you
but i will not come back.
once i am gone, i am gone.
this is why i am verry slow with trusting people
loosing my trust in someone is just as painful as if they would die.

[bc]

Got a laugh out of the "long overdue". Been there, done that. I usually wait way too long, over-thinking, or not wanting to hurt someone, or whatever....

[BrittanyshaeR]

My breakups are always always always long overdue.

[angelonemo]

When communication fails and damage prevails there is no choice but to walk away.
As a result, there are no truly close people left in this entity's life, and, although terribly difficult, life is better without that kind of suffering.

[alyajewellery]

Intuitive hunch is why I always walk away. If I’m being breadcrumbed by someone who claims to love me, I’m assuming there is someone else taking their attention.

[LilyRoseLavender]

Well it gets really complicated when an INFJ has Traumas and deals with abandonment issues 😓

[sarahohara]

I’ve left every relationship, friends and partners. This vid is pretty accurate but I’d say when I’m met with chaos, something new about about a person that I was not expecting and perhaps some perceived moral deficit, I become intolerant and usually end the relationship.

[bidensucks]

Speaking from my experience, people push me so hard for so long that they oddly enough push me away!
People have a habit of getting use to what others do for them, they aren't upset you left they are upset you are no longer available to support them.

I had a friend who we decided we would raise her kids together, unfortunately at one point she made the decision on her own that "we aren't doing this co-parenting thing any more" her words, she didn't realize that at that point "I wasn't doing that free child care any longer "!
Literally after saying that to me, the next day she called wanting to know why I'm not there to watch the girls. I explained, "you fired me and I don't take care of children I can't say NO to"!

Things to never say to me as a friend or partner is,
1) we are no longer friends
2) we were never friends
3) we aren't friends
4) I don't love you
5) I never loved you
Saying any of those things will will end the relationship on the spot with no hope of salvation. Because I can't NEVER trust that person again!

[PS.U.D]

We like debates... we don't like arguments

[phoenixindigo]

Yes, my intuition caused me to end a 7 year relationship. My boyfriend was working a new job and a certain woman he was working with was a common subject. Since I had previous experience with cheating husbands and boyfriend's, I recognized the signs. Found out later there was also drug abuse going on. I didn't sense that. A just wish I could find a partner that had the same integrity as I do. But I açcept that we are far and few between...

[flowerpower]

Yea the Narcissist is the very worst to become entangled with, run like away 🏃🏃🏃👍

[melonpan]

I never broke up relationships because of Nr1. I would be happy to have a calm and ordinary, but stable relationship with someone kind. No need for roller-coasters or any other risky things.