INFJ Bad Romance - 6 Common INFJ Relationship Problems

When it comes to relationships, INFJs do not mess around. They don’t give their hearts away easily and so when they do choose to invest themselves in a relationship, it is with serious intent. They are out to find a soulmate or at least someone who fits nicely into their long term future. Although they value and put a lot of effort into their relationships, there are a number of relationship issues that people of this type may struggle with. Here is a look at 6 relationship problems that INFJs commonly face.

[c.m.b.]

I would say true on every point. I like how this video breaks it down so I can be more aware if I were to have a relationship. Which I am not actively pursuing because I know these things about myself and have been mulling it over in my mind over and over. It really does seem to me that INFJs aren't really compatible with anyone. It would definitely take a special kind of person to be with an infj I think. That's a little discouraging. As there's times I feel good being alone and then other times I feel bad. It's this constant back and forth of the two, that I don't think it would be fair to expect a partner to keep up with. So that person would have to absolutely understand that and actually want to work with that. Is that possible? Does anyone know of a relationship dynamic that they see work with an infj? I would absolutely be interested in knowing. I do get along really well with infp types, INTP, intj, and ENFP. As far as romantic relationship with any of these types I can see the potential problem in each. I really don't have a problem with other personality types. For me personally a problem only arises when they show me that they have a problem with me. Pretty much I let people be who they are aside from who I am. It's if what they do starts affecting peace or peace of mind and they're not willing to work on correcting that that I really get upset. So I think another person would have to be a person that also strives to have peace and harmony. That doesn't like chaos. But can still be spontaneous. You know? Thank you for this video it helps break it down in a more simple way. Much appreciated 🙏💕

[feiwaan]

Am glad I have grown past all these... Well except no 3, which may never change until I feel more safer about the other person. It's not at a high extent but I feel it's highly needed.

Taking things personally only comes when I am burnt out and over stressed. Yep, they mentioned it.

Yep, am still stubborn. And am proud of it. I think it's in a reasonable way. But sometimes I compromise Yea.

Yep, my need for space may never be changed. I always need it. Just wait around, I will come around and share with you once I have understood what am feeling and decluttered it.

[MR-vffw]

Us INFJS are a select few although beneficial in many ways. I am introvertef, and easygoing. The scary thing about me even to myself which is not often is when I get mad, or get focused on a perceived injustice, or major problem that needs fixed I will catch a lightning bolt, and leave everybody else in the dust working on said issue. Basically go from 0 to Mach 2 in three seconds flat on two wheels. I am writing this right now working on a solution for what I perceive to be a travesty of justice. I am normally a lazy person. Right now I am operating on sheer adrenaline which has been for several days. PRAY FOR ME, AND THE PERSON I
LOVE WHOM I AM TRYING TO HELP CHERRY ON TOP PRETTY PLEASE.

[sinisterkitty]

Dear INFJ, If you have ever had a relationship implode and don't really know why, or were dating someone and it just suddenly fizzled out, go through this video and examine each point from the other person's perspective. These are very fixable things. It's not like you're awful people or anything. You're just a lot of work sometimes. (And the rest of us all be lazy...)

[nomorewar]

That was a great summary - the best I’ve heard so far. Thankyou

[adventure_infinity]

1. Unrealistic Expectations
Me an INFJ: *immediately*Dam they right

[itskris]

I should have watched this before I broke up with them