Make Him Miss You | You've Never Heard THIS Before

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[katemoffitt]

Once U feel avoided by someone…
never disturb them again.

[breezluize]

With the RIGHT person, you can be authentic and organic. No games required.

[davideasiebert]

Honesty works in relationships. I hate games. I would much rather be alone. People who are afraid to be alone create their own dysfunction. Once you are okay with solitude you get to know who you are and what you want. Deal with you shadow side.

[Spiritsong]

Yes. Indeed. Playing games with other people’s hearts is nonsense. Being authentic, compassionate and open hearted is the only way to find a true connection. ❤

[jens]

I’m 37 and divorced almost 2 years. I’ve been dating men Ive met online for the last year. I am becoming disheartened about these guys. None of them want to put work into growing something. If they are divorced, they are broken and players. If they have been bachelors, they show no capacity of growing into more. What happened to people becoming a couple over time and staying together ? :(

[katstewart]

Appreciation first!
-good communication skills
-patience and understanding that humans are flawed
- generally agreeable vs victim mindset
-be fun, outgoing and spontaneous!
-live in your empowerment!
-healthy body, and mind. Look after yourself!!
-financially have their act together
-independent energy vs dependent energy. You are in charge of your relationship with a healthy man.
-You're in love with yourself first!!
Hugs of love to all😊
Thanks Jonathan.

[joycealdrich]

Thank you for your advice. May we each find someone we can make a life with. Looking forward to that day. I have upped my game, by losing weight, changing my hair to look good for my age, 66, dressing well, everytime I go out (and it doesn't cost much to dress well), wearing lipstick and mascara, and focusing on my family, singing and painting. The happier I am with my outer appearance, the more my inner feels good about me. It's not always easy, but I'm pushing myself to do it. As a result, people tell me I'm looking good. I'm not invisible, anymore. Interestingly, the music and painting are also getting more notice. 👌 If someone cones into my life... Great! If they don't, yes, I'll have sad moments, of course, because I don't want to be alone, but I need to take care of me, as I am alone, so is what it is. Hey! I'm enjoying my relationship with my wardrobe, at the moment!!! Fun to dress up, do my nails, and I learned to cut my hair into a Bob on YouTube, so saving money, and can keep the look fresh! Not going to spend the last part of my life in a slump! May G-d give me strength!

[juliedaly]

U are the first person that I’ve found on YT that makes any kind of sense and tells it like it is. I used to think that maybe there was something wrong with me because guys would start to ghost me after they got to know me a little. Truth is, I think that I’m so independent and self-sufficient, that most men find this off-putting and intimidating. I recently came back from a vacation, where I reconnected with myself and discovered that the only thing that was wrong with me, was that I was selling myself short. Maybe one day I’ll find one of that 20%. Until then, I am enough by myself and will not settle for less. Moral of the story: Don’t drink poison just because you’re thirsty!

[keddy]

A dear friend once told me this: “If he is leaving, there is NOTHING you can do to make him stay; if he is staying, there is NOTHING you will do to make him leave.” Wise words!

This talk was validating! I am aware that I possess the masculine energy of action-oriented relationship behaviors and I oftentimes think that maybe I should take a more passive role, however this does not fit my authentic self…thank you!

[Cleaningfairy]

I didn't do "High School" when I was in High School. If I'm busy it's because I am working to financially support myself. If someone doesn't accept me the way I am than they don't need to be in my airspace. I don't allow people to live rent free in my head. I grew up and want a grown up partner not drama.

[TimTamRipple]

You cant “make” someone feel something . All these “games” are stupid and I agree with you.

[OolongG]

If someone pushes you away, you should leave them alone. If he don’t give anything, should I keep communicating with them? If he pulls back, it makes me think he doesn’t want to be bothered so I leave them alone…..

[richm]

Scarcity creates value. If your friend is just as happy to see you like your dog is then you have someone who cares for you.

[helenaasousa]

“I actually believe that most people are emotionally dysfunctional”. I love it! I, also agree. We all are to a degree some way, way, more than others. Thank You! Great Message!

[tammywilliams]

Only way to true intimacy is Honesty ❤❤❤❤❤

[Caymanlady]

Yes John! I totally agree with you. Why would anyone want to make someone miss you…that sounds so negative…it’s like the glass half full. I would like to have a man want me!!!

[NM-gytx]

I'll tell you someone who hasn't let themselves go... you! Lovely thick dark hair, nice tanned skin and muscles, kind honest features and a humorous tshirt that says "I'm intelligent but also can have a joke about myself too!" exuddddes confidence. It's a shame all men can't be more Jonathan Aslay! 🙂

[katewright]

This is what I needed to hear. Real wisdom and honesty. I have watched a few dating coaches and they all tell you to play mind games, reverse psychology and basically act. It is like telling your stubborn child Bye I'm going now!' so they get scared ad run to catch up with you. It is a trick most parents employ and the sad thing is it works. We should not be using tactics to get what we want. Men shouldn't be that bad that we need to control them. I like how you said us women take charge... but don't manipluate. These tactics are dysfunctional for dysfunctional people. Trust and be patient.

[cherankimiorak]

This setting is stunning in the background

[pamsegers]

I totally agree with you! I believe in treating people the way you want to be treated. I don’t need a man to take care of me, and definitely don’t want someone for money. I was raised to be strong, kind, thoughtful, down-to-earth and with good values! Positive is a plus, I believe you can find a positive in anything or anyone…look for it! These are my opinions. Honesty and being real is so important! I put my jeans on just like everyone else, one leg at a time. I’m just ME!

I really enjoyed your words of wisdom! Thank you! 😁always!