Is it time to quit your toxic boss?

[MononokeLynn]

This hit me so. Hard. I’ve been doing my job for five years, yet my boss constantly treats me like I’m a newbie in a place that has a one-year quitting average. I have seen so many coworkers (good and bad) leave. I work my tailfeathers off, trying to keep a positive attitude and welcome new people, while trying to be civil to those who treat me like crap. I am mentally and emotionally exhausted at the end of a shift, to the point where I can barely do simple house work. I am constantly moving around around at work but have gained 75lbs in five years due to extreme stress. My work comes out good - very little mistakes compared to others because I take more time and care, but those who say I’m slow at what I do more a bunch of mistakes constantly. My work should speak for itself, but my boss’ dont see it. And I’m just so tired and I know I deserve better. Yet I tell myself I can keep going and to not be a quitter. Healthcare work is disgustingly deceitful - they tell you it’s all about patient safety and comfort, yet it breeds toxic work environments.

[battlevain]

Brilliant advice. This is so true. You have to see how this toxicity from work corrupts your wider life. You have to escape these monsters. Remember poor Sisyphus. We have to stop rolling the stone of futility and engaging with toxic people who turn negativity into a sport. Disengage asap.

[whatsevenhappeningrn]

Currently experiencing this. It hurts my mental health and triggers anxiety and fear.

[honey_beesknees]

This is true! My mom has always struggled with a toxic boss at some point in her job, and she was always miserable even when she tried to hide it.

[yolandas.]

I abruptly resigned, out the blue, due to the mental torture my manager was putting me through. My manager was very abusive. I had knots in my stomach before work and could not sleep at night. I didn't give a two week notice because to hell with them putting me through that BS. I felt better immediately. I had a small savings and I'm looking for something else and I still don't regret how I left that job.

[kresivarivkah]

I am a licensed massage therapist starting my own business. I was offered a part time job at a Spa..Second day my boss pulled out her toxic cards. She yelled at me in front of clients. She was condescending. I quit. I cannot work in such an environment.

[Senior]

Listen well children. This lady speaks truth. Save enough money to carry you over between jobs because this toxic society isn’t going away. It’s getting worse!
Best to become self employed unless you like getting punished from 9-5

[Reaper.City]

My manager, Rixcy and her little team makes me sick, that everytime she calls me in the office to talk about "mistakes" I feel like bashing her head into the security camera monitor since she loves to watch me work lmfao

[caric]

So happy I found you on YouTube! I love your tik Tok. I recently went through a horrifically toxic boss. I developed a stomach ulcer and excruciating anxiety. I finally quit when they made me miss my child’s field day but I stayed for over a year. My responsibilities constantly changed, they did not have me do what they initially hired me for. Every meeting we would have which would be multiple times a week, she would berate me infront of her higher ups. I’ve never felt so small in my life. They gave me impossible deadlines. It was the worst sh*t show I haven’t ever seen in the corporate world. I’m now self employed and my business has taken off. Thankfully I’m in a much better place, but I still struggle with anxiety and my self confidence. I could never treat an employee the way I was treated.

[Tephen]

My boss always belittle me even infront of other people. She even screams to me even I am not the person who makes her mad. Now I am questioning my skills and my self.

[pismobiics]

I have come to hate my boss after 4-5 months. He is mentally sick and traumatizes others left and right. I am his secretary and I coyld vomit when I see him. Worst company, worst boss I've ever had. I can't wait the day I can leave those vampires behind...

[taurahelms]

That’s happening to me right now. This coming weekend I will apply for other jobs.

[thirdgen]

Im quitting my job at the end of the year. Too many false promises. Too many half truths. The good workers get treated like they dont care and the egocentric managers get all the glory. Company hasnt even given anyone a raise in over six years. Work us on a skeleton crew and expect us to work like a full crew and told to be grateful that we have a job.

Id like to think the day will come when they regret not being grateful for us, but that isnt realistic.

[GreenP]

My boss makes me feel uncomfortable because he tries to flirt with me. He crosses a line I don't like.

[nikkic]

I have definitely become sick. I just afraid to not find anything else

[kingrob]

This video helped me make a tough decision, I woke up a couple days ago and my head was pounding because I knew I had to deal with this toxic \ ass hole I finally got the nerve to quit

[RochelleJahdiCo]

Literally passed out and work up and threw up at work when my new boss was breaking me down on only my 11th day. They took me in an ambulance to the ER. It was nuts. All due to a massive toxic boss and having had so many before him. I just can't take it. I have to quit.

[lisa-sedp]

I have never worked at a place before where management won’t bring HR into a dispute when one of the party is requesting it. Madness

[ultraego]

my told me I smell like weed and I didn't even smoke anything. he went ape shit on me while telling me to spare myself. he refused to let me explain and told me to take my jacket off. I just went out and let my boss's boss I am giving 2 weeks. it's been going on for months him trying to talk down and make me into his personal punching bag so i had enough.

[johnrainsman]

I'm going to quit my job and work at a coffee shop, but the application asks for my previous employer and contact number. I need her to write well of me so I can get the job. But after I get the job and quit my current one, I want to write my boss a letter, _finally_ standing up to her for her toxic behavior. Is it risky? Can she just contact the coffee shop and tell them what I wrote to her? She needs to hear how she made me feel weak and stupid and undermined.