Never Date A Broke Man???

#unapologetic #amalaekpunobi #prageru

[thrawncaedusl]

If they’re bad with money, then yeah, you probably don’t want to date them (men or women).

[Straykids_OatMilk]

I disagree that mans value equates to his financial status, but dating a man that has no ambitions and won’t work is like dating a child. Please don’t.

[TorviCrow]

You can't blame your predicament on someone else if you're choosing to stay

[jillianmaher]

The key word missing in all of these types of posts is...integrity. Choose a man with integrity.

[lydiaboswell]

I really believe what Dr. Jordan Peterson said: Women really want a man who is COMPETENT, who can take care of and protect his partner. This is a biological instinct...when a woman is pregnant and vulnerable.

[mandiemoore]

When I met my husband he was literally living on his sister's couch collecting a welfare check for his two sons. Now how many people look at that and say oh no thank you I'll pass? But here's the thing he had just left an abusive relationship and took his sons with him that were not hers. When he left heard he also left his job because he was a manager and maintenance man at a trailer park where his ex's mother was dating the owner. He had been working there for five years with nothing but Domino's before that so he had absolutely no experience. But here's something about Good Men usually all they need is a good partner to remind them how to be good men. Within six weeks of meeting he was enrolled in college where he graduated and now has an amazing job and he makes sure i dont have to work. I met a man with the intention of getting to know a man and then fell in love with a man with no presets on what he must be what he must make how he must act the only thing that mattered was how he took care of his boys, how he loved me and how he respected himself. You want a good man love him for who he is and he'll become something amazing

[dikeledimusi]

What that woman is saying makes perfect sense. Problem is, women forget about the other side of the coin. When he has a job, and when she has to cook and clean, suddenly "gender roles are a social construct"

[bonjourx]

If a man wants a wife who follows traditional roles like cooking and cleaning, he has no right to blame one for looking at his finances.

[twincambr]

It's one thing to not get paid millions but no job at all gets the buzzer

[sherlock]

I don’t care too much about finances, except be careful of debt. But if you have been together for 4 years and he still doesn’t know if he wants to marry you, then its a no. Face reality, he is keeping you round for the sex.

[claudiag.]

You just need to really know the person bc you could be a ride or die, sacrifice, and hold it down while he works towards a goal, but then once he gets there he could get big headed & have an affair (happened to my mom with her first marriage). She gave up on her dreams so that he could go to law school, and held it down at home. Then once he started making money, he bounced. Make sure you both are committed to one another completely before you cash in all your chips, ladies and gents.

[girl_you_sure]

Hot take but If women don't want to be "stuck" with "no ring" then don't move in with someone until you're married

[jacobsitton]

From what I watched of this, she doesn't seem to be avoiding a man's value to his assets. She was merely complaining that in the 4 years of their relationship. She doesn't feel like he has invested money or time in her and we're finding a job while living with someone like that is annoying I kind. Of feel like. Everybody should get a job if they can

[xyNova]

I mean that man doesnt even sound like he tryna get himself together wth

[ZT-vrwz]

Yeah but if the woman also has no job and no desire to work even at home, then why be her? This logic goes both ways.

[trollerwtf]

Exactly 4 years no goals no ambition no drive, no job.

And men be like women are gold diggers for rejecting them .. smh

[Bae.]

The more i see these debates between men and women the more i realize the Western society is so fkd up.. Cuz where i live.. We live a peaceful life

[erinszarban]

It comes down to both parties actively contributing towards the relationship and working together to build something, and how each partner is doing that doesn't matter as long as it's working for the couple and they are supportive of each other.

[spzaruba]

If you get in a relationship with anyone who doesn't care, you are a babysitter. And they will leach off you until you send them home.

[stephaniezinone]

I dont agree. It should be rephrased to dont date a man that has no job that can support himself. I don’t think many people aspires to be a bus driver but at least it’s a decent living and can sustain a modest lifestyle for himself and with a spouse that also works. Sometimes living the simple life is the best.