Stop dating broke guys...

Seeking for security and wanting a man that can provide is not being a gold digger, society has made women believe being a house wife is lazy and wrong, yes the world has gone sh*t and relationships are falling apart, does that mean you settle for less absolutely not, this when u even raise your tax and value.

[ellenthwala]

Men can reset, it's not always possible for women. Be honest with urself and never settle for less

[BrittanyCocchino]

This wise man sounds like the competent father of many daughters. I hope they are listening.

[keejackson]

Thank you! This message is so true. We need to stop adopting this lackluster mindset. I agree with your message 💯

[isojosi]

It's not that women just want to have fun, it's that we are guilted constantly into valuing men who have nothing, as if the poorer a man is the more romantic our lives will be. And if we look at what he can provide then we are selfish and we are shallow. This is done in every single Hollywood movie, which romanticizes the the rich girl who falls uncontrollably in love with the poor pauper (Titanic, The Notebook). This is a great video.

[inezfinley]

Years ago a brother told me something he'd told his daughters "all good feelings ain't love". In essence, forget your feelings, live with intention. We have to know that we are worthy of more. Thank you for sharing.

[dragongamerboi]

THANK HE SPEAKS THE TRUTH!!!! And I lived the previous girl life, I effed around and found out the hard way.

[Arizona_lilly]

Some people don’t even have a cottage or a room etc they wanna be homeless n live off woman

[iamme]

I had to play this 5 times. Thank you so much!!! I don’t have an older brother to tell me this and I am so glad I heard your message today. Thank you!!

[kalista]

Take notes ladies, this is what a REAL ONE SOUNDS LIKE!!!

[AK]

Great message to all women good to see a brother has our back much love 👏🏾

[chillchill]

Thank you Uncle P.. I’m already 32. I’m a bit anxious what if I never find a responsible man. But maybe it’s way better than being stuck and old and a single mother with 5 kids

[kyliemari]

🤯 that "something came out of dere" took me out 😂

[adnamahad]

This is why i will stay single for life aint got time for man or kids i recently got in shape and i don't want to lose it for any nonsensical man.

[zaphenath]

Dusty men should stay single until he gets himself together emotionally, and financially, period. Men need to learn how to lead, and tap into their personal purpose, and family purpose before getting married.

[lmusima]

I found myself liking a guy who’s in his forties, only rents rooms in shared houses, isn’t interested in getting a permanent job, relies on government assistance from time to time. He puts his status as self employed but open to work, and I thought really? He used to reach out to me with messages or a phone call every now and then. Then I noticed for a certain period of time I was the one initiating contact. I’ve since stopped contacting him six months ago. Now after so much thought and based on what I’ve listened to, I’ve decided to cut him off and call it a day.

[tajthegreatone]

*I agree with everything you said. No matter what men think or say, women need to be more deliberate in the type of men they let in their lives and why.*

[Rice]

Black men be literally telling women, "Don't waste your time with me". When are y'all going to listen Lol. He's telling you, I can't provide, I'm not husband material.

[amandasmith]

This is something that needs to spread and share like wild fire! Thank you for sharing this.

[Parfumchloe]

I appreciate your honesty and advice! 👏🏾 Thank you!

[Arizona_lilly]

I’m 35 I’m scared I want a man but I never trust a man to be a father or help I buy my own house just in case one day I necome a single parent my child has a home that’s alll I can do