STOP DATING MEN WITH 'POTENTIAL'?

SHOULD YOU DATE A MAN WITH POTENTIAL? COMMENT BELOW AND SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES!

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[abirsbr]

"The red flags you ignore in the beginning are gonna be the reason of why you leave in the end." oh my-

[skiphopflipflopdripdrop]

You shouldn’t date a man who has “loads of potential” because you’re idealising what he possibly *could* be rather than what he actually is.

[YooTooLoB]

Men never marry or data potential, only women have been conditioned to do so. A man will never say "Oh look! There's a woman that's not in shape and is not my type physically but I'm gonna get with her because she has potential to get fit and become attractive to me, and I'm gonna make sure I pay for her gym membership, her diet, and doctors appointment to hold her down", that has never happened because men aren't shamed for sticking to their standards and dating who they truly want. Atop being desperate and raise your standards, the right man will not have to make you compromise and in turn, decrease your quality of life. We need to do better ladies.

[fifi]

Fall in love with the man in front of you - his current standards, not his potential (it's not guaranteed).

[FlexNFly]

Potential has broken my heart more times than just me accepting people where they are. I realized quickly that I was a gallon that was constantly filling time with pint size potentials. Ladies don't let your ego and nurturing ways keep you with pint size individuals when you're a gallon! Don't just Keep your standards. Honor them! The right one will step up!

[elisemartin]

The worst thing about datiing a man with 'potential' is that your standards for yourself will lower until you have no self esteem or energy to follow your own goals.

[jaxx-inspiregrowcreate]

Success is not found in their level of inspiration or motivation but found in their daily habits.

Something to look for in a partner

[simplymaraxo]

Ladies don’t do it. I had to learn the hard way. All I have to say is that when a person shows you who they are believe them, please.

[stefa]

Stability is the most important thing in every part of life!!

[himariana_]

"But you have to be okay with the person you're seeing in front of you like they'll never change. You gotta fully accept someone for who they are RIGHT now." PREACH!

[najickle]

Men date off face value‼️ do the same sis don’t date on potential💯✨

[ladygreensleeves]

This is why I’m single now because I’ve dated a few guys who can’t hold a job for more than two weeks. These guys didn’t only drain me mentally but financially

[francesca]

Dating "potential" lead me to the biggest mental breakdown I have ever experienced in my whole life. Wish I saw this video before...

[riagreen]

I feel that sometimes we use the promise of potential to blind ourselves

[zaraXspiritualhipster]

"one day I'm fixing
"one day I'm finna

"What are you doing TODAY"
🙄🙄🙄
😂😂😂♥️

[degraciangubane]

We need to stop being sold on the dream of who our partner will become.Your partner shouldn't be your project.

[dianakiny]

Glad I watched this. Being unequally yoked is dangerous. Everyone deserves to be with someone on their level.

[maggiescube]

"You can not build your life on what he could be" .... that really spoke to me

[NinaAnthonyVlogs]

From experience, I will say No! Date what you see, not what you hope to see. Also from the guy's character and habits, you can tell if this is a serious guy with a vison. Even at that, does he have a clear plan on how he is going to achieve his goals? The times when I've actually dated 'just potential ' I ended up wasting my time and I realized it's ok to actually just keep to my standards. Girls don't let any guy make you feel guilty for having your standards. Men don't date potential, so why should you? Most times when girls date 'potential ' it's all a 'fantasy'. If that guy is not ready or where he needs to be, don't rush into anything, let him go and sort himself out, you as the girl, also use that time to focus on yourself. There is no point of joining with someone who isn't even complete. Let the two of you be whole first, before coming together. I hope this comment helps someone.

[princessgigiking]

My ex couldn't even keep a job and gave up starting his business! For 2 years He used me. 🎯 Men with potential will string you along, he didn't want to be married, he wanted the benefits of a marriage. 🎯