How guys feel during no contact 

How guys feel during no contact. No contact is for you to self-regulate and get back into connection with your support system, hobbies, life events, and things you enjoy. Take the time to work on building a secure attachment style.

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They don’t miss you… they missing using you!

[mondo]

How about, just don’t acknowledge them. Single life is truly underrated. No drama, no having to be concerned with anyone’s happiness but your own.

[coyotegaxiola]

Once I block someone, they are NEVER unblocked. I am in my 50s and way too old for anyone who mistreated me to have even one second of access to me.

[GDJSHS]

It’s very simple! No contact rule #1: go forward do not look back. They did you a favor guys. I promise you, what is ahead is better than what you left behind. You’re welcome!

[Missybella]

He discarded me.
Tired of being taken for granted. Tired of his silent treatments, inconsistency, and constant hot/cold behavior.
Though I love him dearly I need to put my pride/myself first as he ALWAYS does.

[MrJBest]

It’s like Tyler Perry’s alter ego Madea once said “if someone wants to walk out of your life, LET THEM GO!!!!” “No matter how much it hurts, things will get easier.” You have better things to do than waste your time with someone who doesn’t give a sh 💩about you or friends that are friends out of convenience. If it’s not genuine, you both are not getting value out of anything from each other, MOVE ON!!!!

[KK-tlks]

genius title. it got me and you called me out so hard hard. every point hit home. this was the wakeup call i needed. i was doing a lot better until we started talking again and i think this made me realize i need to refocus on myself because i didnt realize how much energy i was putting into this now that we reconnected and hes probably not thinking about it at all. thanks random dude

[Laidbacklady]

No contact is the best if you are truly being abused by a narcissist…Ladies stop being an option to all these assholes! You are worthy take care of yourself first when you feel love alone then you have love to give to another!

[sari]

Randomly came across this and I’m now ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY sure I just heard from God!!!😂🤣😂. I’m 6 years out from a no contact relationship and I’ve never heard something so profound in my life!
GIRLS IN THE BACK……LISTEN UP‼️✌🏼❤️

[samia]

It hurts sooo bad to see them move on (or know they are dating, seeing other people, sleeping, etc) when all you want is the interest they are giving to them now. That is the hardest part. Seeing/knowing they easily move on while you struggling to not reach out. What a sad life it is.

[simobonev]

It’s really impressive how you condensed so much information in a small video. Thank you for creating and sharing this.

[yvonnebaur]

So true. I was avoiding a man because I was afraid to be hurt. Then, I realized that if you care about someone, you won't let them spend one night thinking you don't love them. I ran back to him.

[srezzy]

As Teddy Swims song said, “I saved my life when I showed you the door”! Thank you for your insight.

[BennySa-wk]

Fellas please learn from my mistake… WHEN they reach out, maintain an attitude of indifference. Because this guy called it to a T. They reach out to see if they still have you and then they pullback again. I made the mistake of letting her know I still wanted to work it out and now she’s gone cold again and I’m struggling all over again.

[lesliekupchanko]

"Let your nays be nay, and your yays be yay"
(Bible)
I wrote this down for myself.
I'm breaking up.
It's Bern happening for 8 years.

[novaluna]

I never needed a walk with a no nonsense sarcastic little brother so much in my life. ✌️😊❤
Thanks, Love Sis

[pattialtuchow]

Great explanation of dismissive and anxious avoidants. Thank you!

[slosh]

🥰 I didn't have any expectations when clicking on this, but I very much enjoyed the reminder that I deserve better! Ladies, learn your boundaries and stick with them. If they haven't changed anything about themselves when they come back than you have to change your boundaries to get them back. Don't do that.

[ellachallas]

2:53 Yes, change their name and, be intentional about it. Whatever it is that you need to remember about this person (if they’re not good for you/you for them), use that as their contact name. I personally use phrases, like- Don’t You Dare Betray Yourself and It’s Not Even Cute Anymore, You’re Too Old For This Ish, lol.

Trust me, it works very well with anyone that you are having a difficult time letting go of. I’m also finding it helpful to do this with those that I need to have stronger boundaries with. I don’t change their contact name, but I add the phrase that I need underneath it 🤍. Just sharing this for the rest of the recovering over givers/people pleasers out there ☮️.

[neftalitran]

I feel like this guy was spying on me.😂