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How To Attract Men With MINIMAL Effort… 7 Tips

Yeah, if there’s a superpower to be had, I’m betting you’d like this one – Knowing exactly how to attract men.

And with almost no effort.

Sound interesting?

I’m sure it does. After all, it’s the holy grail of relationship freedom. You could literally choose the kind of man you want and make him yours.

Even if he’s out of your league!

Well, that’s what we’re going to discuss here today.

It all comes down to science, really. There’s no magic to it. You just have to know what men are looking for and then give it to ’em!

And no, I’m not talking about jumping into bed with him. In reality, that doesn’t make a man attracted to you. I’ll explain more about why in just a bit.

It all really comes down to evolutionary science – the ways that we evolved to suit the needs of our environment.

So if you want to know how to attract men with minimal effort, I think I’ve got what you’re looking for.

Let’s get started with some basics…

What You Don’t Know About How To Attract Men

First, men feel TWO kinds of attraction:

Sexual
Spiritual

It’s true. Men have these two distinct ways that they feel attraction to a woman, and most women think it’s all about the appearance.

Sure, a man does need to feel that chemistry with you, but he also needs to feel something more powerful in his CORE to really fall in love.

Sexual attraction is what a guy feels when he finds your appearance sexually appealing. This is what guys mean when they say you’re “hot.”

Guys are pre-programmed to see certain parts of a woman.

He looks at her chest because that tells him if she could nourish a baby – and that she’s of the right age…

He looks at her hips and butt because that tells him if she could bear children without a risk to her health – and again, if she’s of age…

He looks at her hair to see if she’s healthy (the sheen of your hair is a strong indicator of your health)

There are a ton more indicators like this – visual indications – and he looks at all of them to see if you would be a great prospect as a “mom.”

Betcha didn’t know this was going on behind the scenes, right?

Okay now –

Spiritual attraction is what a guy feels when he feels like you might be “The One” for him. He feels like you could be his soulmate.

Now before you go bonkers thinking that guys don’t think this way – think again!

Men are actually MORE likely to consider a woman a potential soulmate than she would. He’s quicker to assume a certain woman is “The One” for him. Women take a lot more time to make this decision.

He’s looking at a lot of subtle other indications that you are going to meet some of the psychological qualities he needs. Like loyalty, resilience, and stability.

He needs to know you’ve got good character – and that you will still be able to nurture HIM at the end of the day, after he’s done hunting mammoths.

Well, okay- guys don’t have to do THAT anymore, but you see where the behavior got started.

Okay, now it’s on to my –

7 Tips for How To Attract Men – with little to NO effort…

How To Attract Men – Tip #1: Be as Girly As You Can…

I have a feeling this will be one of the most controversial tips I can offer you. But it’s also the most TRUE.

The more manly a man is, the more he’s attracted to what we think of as “Feminine” traits. The more testosterone he’s got going on his system, the more he’s going to look for a girly girl to counter it and compliment it.

You may have even noticed this in the real world, in the opposite way. If a guy is a bit on the “soft” and dainty side, he tends to fall towards a woman that most matches his opposite. So he winds up with a woman who is more dominating, more controlling, and less feminine.

Fortunately, this is only a small percentage of the population. But if you were to compare today to 30 years ago, the difference in men’s (and women’s) behavior would probably startle you.

Let me say this another way, and I’ll be more direct:

Men are attracted to ...

To find out - watch the video!

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1) Be as girly as you can
- Cute and shy
- Needs his help occasionally
- Let’s him lead
2) Level up
3) Use what you have - intelligence, a smile, advice, a desire for more
4) Get chilled - be relaxed in yourself
5) Maximise the wow - clothes that compliment your body, classy haircut
6) Flirt like your life depends on it
7) Stop with the tricks

t.
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I love watching your videos Carlos. Your honest and give great advice. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us.

bryrayne
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Carlos the problem nowadays is that many folks just want to play games so it's not that simple finding someone.... If there is one thing I really hate is people taking my valuable time. I just don't have time for the games and if that's the case I rather stay single. It's called self love!

dulcepadilla
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As a 46yo male I find that what men need more of is a hint or flirt to know you are attracted. Most men will not approach someone unless they are pretty sure that interest is shown and even then some men may need a little more to get the hint.

vapeking
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Wow that's how I got my man before any YouTube! We are ourselves & feel naturally together & quite comfortable! I got him super easy & he's an incredible man!

boorat
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The all thing is just ridiculous men want too much from women and don't give much in return.
It is like walking in egg shell's dealing with guys nowdays. Don't do this don't say that so much for the strong species.

ligiaharris
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I love all of your videos and I always literally take notes.
Thank you so much, Carlos!

TheSandrafabian
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I would love to see videos for women who are older and finding it hard to date after 40.

MicheleHerrmann
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I attract mostly of men in nursing and rehab bec.I don't frown I greeted them with 😃 smile.Lots of healthcare workers here face are so serious( forgot to smile).As if the whole world fell upon them.Hehehe..And I have feel a compassion with these elderly here.These elderly people loves me.And even kiss my hands bec.I'm there listening to their emotional pain.And these guys likes me.And there is this Guy who really likes me and flirted on me.First, I thought it's just a friendship but later on I noticed he likes me.And looking for me everytime he check on the Elderly's in the dining room.Bec.he is Supervisor in the Kitchen .And later on I noticed he is charming and good looking.Graham is his name.He holds my hands one time when we saw each other.But respectful.And I have this butterflies in my heart.hehehe..

victoriadaoana
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"feel the fear & do it anyway!" 🙌 YOLO

fragrancememoir
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This sounds like a lot of effort to me. I attract all kinds of cool guys by just bopping along being myself, and in love with my life. Will that work for you? I don't know....it works for me!

georgiaconti
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This helped me a lot, thank you Carlos! ☺️ I’m putting these tips to practice

inhishandsz
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I like your presentation thank you so much for your advice

jeneviebrown
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First of all being sexist and not trying to understand men will get you no where, you have to think like a man and educate yourself on how they work before you will be successful with them. Second, you may be ignorant to your own self and not see what your doing wrong. It takes two but you have to be open minded and soak up all the knowledge out there that you possibly can about not only men but yourself as a woman. I've learned things about myself that I wasn't aware of by watching these videos and now i have the knowledge to take the steps to improve and fix myself for my husband. I'm not saying im in the wrong completely, he has his issues but learning all you can about men then taking the necessary steps is the way to go for a healthy, successful relationship.

bryrayne
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Hi @Carlos, what if “Flirting like your life depends on it” feels like performing TRICKS??? 🙁 What if overtly flirting feels like. chasing. Feels very unfeminine...just sexualizing to get attention... Not spiritual. Your insight is so appreciated.

aviary
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You're the only one I listen to & best!

boorat
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What about trying to reach retract somebody that you dated in the past who you really want to rekindle things with ?

allisonbrown
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hola carlos, muchas gracias - muy impresionante (& divertido)... saludos, ric

ricardabetzing
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How to attract a guy on social media but were not friends on Twitter or Facebook but i starting to like his page and commenting there, do i have to send him a friend request? Teach me please this is my first time to follow a famous guy please and advance thanks if you could atlist give me some advice 🙇

mca.
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Great video ...Please video of how to be more femenine,

erikaerika