I Won’t Apologize To Be Adopted 😒💔 Reddit Stories

[Fxr_Alxne]

if the op doesn't have any problem and neither do his parents have any problem, why is she bringing this up in every conversation ?

[lrdapophis]

People's inability to read a room and pick good timing never cease to amaze me. Like maybe you shouldn't be telling your soon-to-be sister-in-law that her adoptive parents basically kidnapped her and brainwashed her...IN FRONT of the same parents at THEIR house 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[breannaxoxo]

That’s so disrespectful to the parents…in their own home. The brother better collect her

[LaVonneOfficial]

Matt should be offended by Evelyn's assertions. She's talking about his parents too.

[scottibrown]

Does Evelyn not realize that the person she is marrying is one of five kids, 3 of whom are adopted?

[CoraErickson-czzp]

Evelyn should find her bio parents if she wants to. She's an adult who can make her own choices

[hopeausbyn]

You are right. She is interfering with "your" peace. ✌️ Evelyn can talk to a therapist, but get up and walk away from Evelyn each and everytime she disturbes your peace.

[marchellewilliams]

The brother needs to drop this traumatized woman or make her ger help. She will Tru to break him down too and turn him against his family

[michellealjunaidi]

Some adoptions go well and some don't. You have to live in the now and not live in back then. Sounds like the other person cannot move on or past their prior situation. That is very sad considering there is so much worth wild life to still live.

[lamoskgr]

Evelyn needs therapy. Shes the type of woman who would think all men are cheaters because she got cheated on

[PatrickCauler]

I am adopted to this is the same reason me and my brother got taken from our biological mom my biological father is still in contact with me. He just didn’t have enough money to take care of me and my brother when we were younger.

[rebekah.]

If she doesn't want OP "rubbing their good adoption experience" in her face, then she should just shut up about it. She's the one initiating the conversations about it. I'm sorry she had a bad experience, but insisting that ALL adopted kids are as hurt and upset as she is, but just don't know it, is obnoxious.

[InspireHope.NotHate]

As a fellow Evelyn, we no longer accept her as part of the Evelyn community.

[bethbuzzanco]

Her parents are ridiculous, what are they afraid of about telling her the truth! You are lucky to have a good adopted family!She needs to be open minded, unfortunately she is like her adopted family

[karenborley]

Sounds like shes bitter and jealous that he/shehad a better adopted family than she did.

[sammywilliam]

She has the right to think that way because of her, Trauma and past experience she has every right to have opinions like that what she doesn't have the right to do it's forced her trauma and opinion on you I have several friends that are adopted who's biological parents probably what are sold them for a bag of ladies potato chips

[TwiinArmagedons]

She understands what she was saying. But in her eyes all families are evil, even adoptive ones. Which is hypocritical and ironic. If her argument was thrown back in her face, she'd easily get mad. People like this always get mad/shocked when their argument is thrown back at them. "Oh so your adoptive parents were horrible to you, well maybe you should find your REAL parents then. If youre so adamant adoptive parents are all evil, and kids adopted are nothing but items to be bought and used. But you would know that, since youre adopted."

[samuelmcloving]

Does that girl understand she insult her parents in law?

[leebianco]

You are right to be pissed at her and I understand what she’s gone through was terrible awful but she needs to realize everybody’s experiences are different and not the same people shouldn’t have kids, but unfortunately, a lot of people do when they’re not supposed to because of how badly and awful they treat the kids and there are times I wish I would’ve gotten a different family and it’s disgusting that she’s acting like everybody’s experiences is the same when they’re not, and she needs to realize there’s a lot of blood related parents terrible and awful just like her adopted parents

[wj]

So she is disrespecting the OP and the Parents of her future husband.
I think the Matt needs to walk away from that broken woman. She is disrestpecting his family.