Why Avoidants Are ADDICTED To You After No Contact

Is your ex an avoidant? If so, you'll almost certainly want to go NO CONTACT on them as soon as possible, because despite what others may tell you, it has a profound impact on avoidants... in fact, it can make them ADDICTED to you.

This doesn’t make sense, logically. You're giving the avoidant exactly what they think they want: space and freedom. But by doing so, you're also triggering a psychological response that makes them start to miss you intensely.

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0:00 - Intro & Background
2:42 - Tactic 1
3:49 - Tactic 2
5:19 - Tactic 3
7:30 - Tactic 4
8:59 - Tactic 5
10:00 - Tactic 6
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#breakup #exback #relationships

[feelsbreals_]

Bro just ignore them and move on with your life. I was abandoned by someone I loved. They don’t give a shit. They’re probably with the next guy/girl. Move on!

I have someone in my life now that wants to be there. I spent months of my life trying to look up these videos and waiting to get an avoidant back. Just move on. Trust me it will get better.

[Heather-bn]

This is cowardly behavior and they need to go get help with it and stay away. Be a grown up and go get help with your issues . Take responsibility and accountability for yourself and leave relationships alone until you do.

[MeEvidence]

I'm glad you confirmed my thoughts in this video. I only put the energy into my relationship that the other person does. When they pulled back I pulled back and suddenly they are texting me more but I would delay. If they didn't respond for two weeks I wouldn't respond for two weeks. It's not vengeance. It's healing and boundaries. It's sad that it has to be that way because as an empath I would never do this by choice. Yet if one is in a relationship with an avoidant, this is the way it works like it or not.

[ЛичныйТелефон]

Just find another healthy (!!!) person during no contact.

[danilove]

We can all do what we can do to the limit we have but at the end of the day everyone is responsible for their own healing. Your wound is not your fault but your healing is YOUR responsibility. The healthy person shouldn't have to sacrifice themselves to no end and in the end to their detriment in something that might fail in the end and you are not only drained and damaged from that relationship and now in situation where you are needing psychological help from years of trying and wasted time. People be prepared to have that conversation and make the best decision for yourself AND when you do this you must have had some time apart and healing done so you can take those feelings/emotions out of it to be able to be more rational.

[cherylyoung]

Thank You for your knowledge I don’t feel like I was going anymore couldn’t understand why he would just pull away all of a sudden or get really belligerent and competitive and sarcastic remarks, and even started to make comments about my body. Then yelled at me and told me he was done with me then I’d go to bed and he would hold me I figured maybe I had done something or said something for him to all of a sudden snap and be that way go back and try to think what did I say? Then I started realizing it’s not me and with the relationships he’s had before. Maybe this is why they didn’t work out and I even said to him are you starting to show me your true colours cause I want the man I met from the start of our relationship. I don’t know who this person is right now and then it was like I’m going crazy. What are you talking about? I haven’t changed. I’m the same way. I was then and I said no you’re not you’re different. I tried to accept it. Tried to put up with it but yet still try to stand my ground and then things came to an end. We’ve been separated for eight months I love him dearly. I still want to be with him, but I let him know that I had to let him go that I don’t wanna smother him or suffocate him. He has all the space he wants and I have boundaries and I have to let you go and it’s been three weeks and I haven’t heard from him since and that was the first time we hooked up in the eight months that we were separated for, and I’m just trying to be patient. It’s hard.

[CobaltLobo]

He broke up with me for the 3rd time and told me he doesn’t love me anymore, doesn’t want me to love him and wants to be alone. He told me he doesn’t want to be around anyone anymore. Practically a husk, a ghost.

[Lt_TuckPendleton]

Why would want them back? You keep saying it, but its best for your mental health to find someone who is emotionally available.

[SK]

Sounds to me like a dismissive avoidant is a polite way of describing a selfish person who doesn’t want to change for anyone or commit. It’s all about them and the second someone wants them to communicate it gets to be too much for them because they might have to sacrifice or make a change.

[sferswarriorsgiantsgumba]

Destroyed!!😂😂 My avoidant ex is enjoying the time of her life!! No contact and ghosting me, is Gods way saving me from a world of pain! Moved on and enjoying life with friends and family!! Let it go guys, time will heal you. And if they ever contact you, don’t fall for it!

[hansfiedeldeij-vxjl]

If you don’t love yourself.
Love an avoident. It is all about them. Hidden agendas, silence, arrogant undertone, no sharing.
Don’t give advice how to make things work. Ist is going to destroy the happiness of many a good soul.
Rather get to the root of this. How do we and our Society treat Children, that needs to be changed all together.

[Justin]

What if you were dating an avoidant that’s highly extraverted? I’m thinking she’s probably distracting herself so much that she won’t be coming back. She was obsessed with me, but it seemed so easy for her to break up with me.

[dundermifflin]

Yeah, my girlfriend is doing this. We haven't ever broken up per say but sometimes it feels like she isn't even my girlfriend. I thought she was doing this because there was something wrong making her depressed or something but she very clearly is doing fine and that just makes me even more upset. She does this thing where she won't speak to me for like two or three weeks then acts like nothing ever happened and when it's about to happen again she just seems so aggressive for no reason, especially when I try to fix it or ask her what's wrong. I mean seriously just tell me you need some space and you're getting a little bored of it, I WOULD UNDERSTAND. And the way she talks to me when I'm just wondering what the issue is makes me feel like I'm the asshole somehow. I hate it. I think about breaking up with her all the time because of it but I can't because I really do like her that much and I feel like I'm subconsciously choosing to love her despite her stupid ass behavior. I really want it to work and I'm just scared of how devastated I'd be if I lost her.

[EternalxFrost]

And what if YOU dump the avoidant because of how they actually treat you by trying to protect themselves ? I'd love a video on this topic (if it doesn't already exists)

[channel-th]

After watching the full video, was there explanations or just examples cases?

[imnothere]

Question: is removing them from social media considered a no contact? I've been dealing this a FA lately

[kylesantos]

I'm going to my second month of no contact. Her 30th birthday is coming and I don't know if I had to sent her a text.

[Jimbeams]

Is it a bad idea to send her a quick text to wish her well because she is going in hospital for surgery?

[cameliachattopadhyay]

What if avoidant man knows I am dating or can date other guys? Is there any change?

[JohnSzwed]

Never ever get involved. Go slow and observe all actions. Once your gut gets a hit. Run!!!!