r/TrueOffMyChest - Married to a 'Mommy Vlogger'

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[TheClick]

Slightly different video than usual, let me know what you think! <3

[tiptip]

I've read a marriage councilor post that said one of the most shocking marriage saving advice can be sleeping in separate beds or even separate rooms. Be it snoring, tossing and turning, one person sleeps better with a pet or sound machine, or literally any issue with sleeping. Basically people are happier when they get a full night sleep. So separate sleeping areas isn't a sign of a bad marriage, it's just a sign you accept your spouses comfort while sleeping.

[heather]

I have a 1 year old son. That "son forcing himself" story was such a slap in the face cause I can't imagine being faced with that. I can't believe she's making excuses for him. I can't believe "he was drunk" is something people still try to say to excuse disgusting behavior. His mother's reaction makes me feel like I can see where his entitlement comes from.

[Comrade_mommy]

My 18 yr old niece is a nanny. She started working for this family at 13 as a mother’s helper, then babysitter, then a (non live in) nanny. The babies love her and the parents even took her on vacation with them. But that’s when the sht started. My niece is drop dead gorgeous, tall, leggy, blonde, & insanely sweet and incredibly goofy. The dad caught feelings for her and thought it was appropriate to tell a barely 18 yr old grl who he’s watched grow up that he had feelings for her. It’s really messed her up. She felt guilty like she led him on even though her mom and me both told her she is in no way responsible for this grown a$$ man’s stupid fcking actions. She put in her 2 week notice but is devestaed bc the 3 yr old was crying and saying he loved her. She’s only stayed as long as she has bc the parents kind of suck at parenting and she felt like the kids needed her. I mean she had to teach the parents that yelling at and hitting their toddler was counterproductive. (Besides being a shtty thing to do.) Most nanny’s & babysitters don’t reciprocate when a parent hits on them. And even when they do it’s usually a case of a huge power disparity and the majority of the blame should fall on the parent. Most nanny’s/babysitters are under 25.

[valyair]

"Don't sacrifice your reality for a fantasy" is a beautiful piece of advice

[theclockworktempest]

For the married man who lost his old high school sweetheart and had a very supportive wife, it is possible to love multiple people in your life and to hold on to loves. Emotional intelligence for the win here.

[BipolarJack]

Unconditional love? Sure. Unconditional trust or unconditionally excusing and forgiving anything? Absolutely not. It doesn't mean people are beyond help or deserve to suffer constantly for the rest of their life. But you hold people accountable even if you love them.

[ivorynk]

That one where the French/Italian chef started using cheaper ingredients rather than the authentic ones because people liked it better made me remember something I was once told. A large part of our taste preferences are shaped by what we are used to, so a lot of people might not like the fancy authentic stuff because they don't usually eat it.

[whiterabbit]

My grandma kept sending me grifter and debunked conspiracy theory videos from Facebook, I got her to stop by spamming her with peer reviewed studies /articles that said the opposite of what ever the claim of the day was until she realized she can't win an argument against me without science on her side

[silvsevie]

Unconditional love doesn't mean not holding someone accountable. Unconditional love means that you hold them accountable, make sure they learn their lesson so they will never repeat that behavior and push them to make reparations, whereas that means jail or at the *very least* apologizing to his victim. unconditional love means you love them despite their flaws not that you will encourage their bad behavior, because behavior like that escalates. That woman does not love her son, she probably just doesn't want the public knowing what he did.

[dedhampster]

RE: the cook making cheap versions of food: The "authentic" version of any culture's or region's food if often the cheap version made with simple, affordable and accessible ingredients. Most people's tastes are fairly simple too and cant really experience the nuances in complex foods like high end wine or complicated fermentation. Sometimes those flavors are even interpreted by our brains as "bad" because the level of nitrates, tanins, fungus etc may be harmful to our liver and general health in abundance.

[bookishnewt]

That mood whiplash between the first two posts.

[mosaic.owl.studios]

I came on here for the "Married to a Mommy Vlogger" story--and you give the sweetest, most wholesome story right off the bat. That cat toy story was adorable.

[disasterbanoodle]

I also wonder for the chef, how many of those tourist trips are spent at real authentic places. Typically the super bougie, touristy, or "authetic" shops are more tailored to American tastes (aka more sugar and salt) or are not anywhere near as authentic as the menus not in English or small mom and pop shops. Folks in other countries know we're easy to fool, so they may just be used to that kind of cooking tbh.

[trishnjasperCarnivorePack]

love it when your response to toxic family is so perfect that you "break" your therapist. that last one was perfect.

[purplesam]

I 100% agree with the mommy blog husband. Forcing your kid to fit your """aesthetic""" is a few steps away from abuse in my opinion. On it's own, it's not, but keeping your kid from having toys that don't match what YOU like in THIER own room or playroom?? That's so bad. That controlling behavior *is* abusive and that woman needs help and that kid needs out of there.

[arturiapendragon]

Remember this: while yes, family is family, toxic is toxic. Just because you married/are related to someone doesn’t give them the right to treat you like shit, or mean that you have to put up with their shit.

[grandmothergoose]

I'm a mother of adult sons, and I can't imagine them ever doing anything like in the story about the mother siding with her son over that terrible thing he did. I love my sons more than anything in this world. I think that's a normal way for a mother to feel. But that being said, if I ever found out that any of my boys ever did something like that to anyone, I'd be making damn sure they could never do it again.

[crimsonshadow]

The story where she wanted to nuke her cheating fiance's life is a great example of why you don't pre-post, even with a throw away you can still get found out...always wait till you have done the deed and just provide receipts for proof you did it

[Amielle-in-Ami-Helle]

The story about the girl who was okay with her husband trying to spend time with his ex and make the most of her final days is definitely one of the best stories I’ve ever heard, if not THE best.