The Simple Hack To Make The Best Decision | Mel Robbins

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Struggle with making decisions? Or is there a big choice that's keeping you up at night?

Today, I want to hand you a proven way to make better decisions. I'm going to teach you all about the power of objectivity.

It's usually easy for us to give advice to others. Without having a direct emotional tie, the decision-making process can be clear. And research backs this up–we make better decisions for others than we do for ourselves!

The solution? Take an objective, zoomed-out, third-party stance on the decision at hand.

Today, I'm asking "What can Mel do that's best for Mel?" and I want you to do the same.

Let me know in the comments how the power of objectivity can help you can view a current decision through a different lens.

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[bluecatblu]

I did this recently. I wanted to move but was worried about my brother. Then I thought to myself, what would my brother do if he had this opportunity. And guess what. He was already thinking about moving himself and not worrying about me. So I’m moving in a couple of months. Thanks Mel ❤️❤️❤️

[moritzschroder]

i love these rather short, but straight-forward advice videos! no fancy editing, no BS. that's the kind of content i like to watch and produce myself. keep it up, Mel! 🔥

[YorozuyaNeesan]

I literally discovered this by myself naturally over the years. These days when I am freaking out over something or have a problem, I look at it like it's not mine and think of how to tackle it as an outsider. Because yup, we are all amazing advice givers, but suck at following our own talk lol

[Celt_Downunder]

CPTSD makes decision making so hard because we don’t trust ourselves. My gosh that’s such a great tip. Saying your own name aloud like that is way better than saying ‘I need to do what is best for me’. Slam dunks it right home. Thank you Mel 🖐️

[diaradiallo]

So true. What is needed next is your video on being OK with disappointing other people.

[AgataZKurnatowic]

Decision making-the thing I struggle the most in my life! thank You Mel!

[mrakw]

It is important to take the advice you give others, that is what I tell myself when I have to make an important decision

[amitbisht]

You are motherly figure to me thank you sharing your precious wisdom with us.thank you☺️

[victoriousrg]

Wow another amazing piece of content!! Thank you for always putting out such valuable content all the time, you are awesome!!❤️🌻🌞

[ruth]

So I was struggling with a pretty stupid decision, and the first 10 seconds of your videos literally just solved it

[gemmadidit]

Yes! I often find that other people see more in me than I see in my self. So while I'm dithering about whether or not I can or should do something, a true friend will say YOU CAN ABSOLUTELY DO THIS! And I believe them. But if I have no one on my side, FEAR tends to keep me stagnant.

[malinkata]

I learnt to really take objective decision in the last six months. This changed my life!

[cherieminn]

Mel Robbin is the only motivator i subscribed to because she's so practical💯

[DesHerbert]

This info is like finding a gold nugget. Small bit of info, yet it’s so impactful and can be life changing. 👌🏾

[MandosChannel]

I’ve been thinking about how I’m going to tell my boss / upper management that I’m changing careers and I kept thinking about how it was going to impact them due to my “whisper from the universe” telling me its time for a change. I was nervous all day today! Now, I’m going to 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.... & do it!

Thank you Mel, thank you, thank you, thank you!

[bmwkY]

This is life changing advice. The video deserves to be higher up in the YouTube algorithm today. Thank you for the impact you make.

[victoriousseraphim]

thank you so much Mel Robbins your hacks are incredibly simple but effective as a big bucket full of cold water which makes anyone wake up. I'm so grateful for what you continuously share. Someday I would love to meet you, you are the kind of frienship everyone would love to have.

[game__growth]

Awesome! I do this for my friends; I ask them, If the situation were reversed, how would you advise me? And leave it up to them, whether they take their own advice or not. Time to take that one step further & ask it of myself. Thanks Mel & much Love

[sugarpump]

I have heard of and tried many other decision makeing tips but have never heard of this one. I think it's good enough to try. Thanks, Mel!

[sanne]

I watched three of your videos in a row. Short and clear. And after worrying for 2 weeks.. I already feel better and more confident about it, thank you