How to get over a Narcissist or how to move past a narcissistic person

How to get over a Narcissist or how to move past a narcissistic person

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[phoenixrising]

Two of your famous quotes:
1. What triggers you controls you
2. Abuse is on them, but the healing is on you.

[robz]

The key for me is zero contact, no looking at social media, no reading texts or emails (all blocked), nothing. I've made that mistake before (got sucked back in). Not this time. Grief is slowly being replaced with relief.

[blackjag]

Every time a think about my narc and the “good times” I think about the horrible crap I went through and that keeps me from going back.

[missmysanity]

No contact allows you to heal from the massive car wreck you went through!

[WhyYouAskinAllTheseQuestions]

Be you. Be who you are because that is what they envied the most and that is why they couldn't handle, and that is why they effed up with you because of their own self-destructive nature.

[LifeofSparklyPopsicle]

I think to me “winning” would be not giving a shit about him. Truly not caring. If someone mentioned his name I’d be like “who?” Because I had forgotten about him.

[finetrue]

More into no contact I am more clear about my feelings. I may still love the narcs and they still may be able to trigger me. But I finally learned to love and respect myself enough to walk away and heal. I do not blame them or myself for the damage and pain anymore. I simply accept that they can not change and I can not allow them to hurt me anymore.

[SsjDeBusk]

i was super upset over some bs with a narcissist and this really calmed me down and help me im going to go for a walk instead of dwell and be sad and continue to thrive thank you 😘😘😘😘

[lynnwashington]

It's not over til I win? NO, it's over when I walk away. Winning is for competition and contests, Revenge is childish I wanted revenge too until I woke up and realized my revenge was forgiveness without re-entry.

[mattwest]

I was dealing in a narcissistic relationship for almost 2 years didn't even now what that meant tell i meet them and i felt trapped i felt crazy i felt so many things i cant even described it missed with me mentally physically and emotionally and im so hapoy now that im out of it that i haven't felt this happy in a long time i may have lost everything to get away from that narcissistic person but i never felt so much happier id rather live under a bridge then be with that person any more in my life

[onelove]

I appreciate every single video you do, Lee. You like the big brother I never had 😅

[stassisspace]

Because of you I started therapy and this journey is well worth it

[Mzshonndale]

I'm feeling really hurt tonight. I foolishly let the narcissist back in my life trying to give him the benefit of doubt knowing that it was a possibility he would hurt me again and he did without remorse just didn't care at all. I feel defeated, I feel like a joke and I'm humiliated. He hurt me for his own enjoyment. I feel so stupid because I let him back in. Smh

[mikz]

"i am watching your videos like im doing movie marathon"! ☺️🍿🎥

[sonnenschein]

"Healing is not a destination. Is is a journey." Thank you so much, Lee - with this you helped me to finally let go of pushing myself too hard. You are really doing such great work here. Really. Thank you.

[earlofmar]

For me, it is like solving a murder mystery. My narc, love bombed me, introduced me to all his friends & family, then married me & hit me the next day. It shattered my love & my trust for him. Then he began devaluing everything about me. I asked him, "Why did you marry me then"? He looked shocked? We were divorced within 3 months. But he stayed in my life and wanted to get back together during a course of 6 years. I knew in my spirit, that he was with other women all that time. And I didn't care what or where he was. I NEVER went back. But I still have these nagging questions "why" he cont. to call? And did he ever love me? Or was it all just a game to him?

[glcollins]

Lee, I appreciate all the hard work you do to help people..and information you give from your perspective. 💕

[donnahale]

I don't need 2 seek revenge cuz they will get their karma...just bcuz of who they r which r mean heartless individuals they will get theirs...Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord...he will repay...It's bout me now...Just not having 2 deal with the narc is a GREAT RELIEF!!!! My life is much happier now!!!!

[lindastoves]

Congrats going to UK 👍 helping more people❤️good job Lee☺️

[joycox]

Your videos are a REAL blessing and LIFESAVER! I was married for 32 years to this type of man...that left me last Christmas and it has been a devastating experience. Your videos are so helpful!!!!