What A Man Is Thinking When He Ignores You (SHOCKER)

When a guy you’re interested in starts ignoring you it can feel like the end of the world. You start questioning why, and may even trace back through your every move to see where it is that you went wrong. Unfortunately for us women, it’s not an easy task to pinpoint the reason why your man gives you the cold shoulder.

That said, what if I told you that you could prevent this from happening by knowing what a man is thinking when he ignores you? Well, that is exactly what I’m about to share here today.

Hey ladies, my name is Amy North, I’m a relationship coach from western Canada, and today I’m going to share with you the three most common thoughts a man has when he ignores you.

Now before I jump into these I just want to quickly ask that if you like this video then please show your support by subscribing to my YouTube channel. There you’ll find a ton of my other dating advice videos, and if there’s a topic you’d like me to cover then feel free to share it in the comments section below.

Okay, so let’s get started.

The first popular thought a man has when he starts to ignore you is simple: he never meant to show interested in you in the first place.

When it comes to expressing interest in someone it sounds like a straightforward task, however, it’s not hard to send mixed messages. For instance, a man could tell you that you look beautiful, or that you’re fun to be around, and that doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to have a relationship with you.

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[Daintyangelx]

Y'all I'm just watching this even tho I don't have a man.

[claredesiree]

oh my gosh I'm so sick of dating :(

[benstone]

For all you lovely independent women out there my strong opinion to you girls is chase your dreams not men and the mysterious attractive man will eventually come to you

[christicrenshaw]

This is what I don't understand. They like you but if you show you like them. They stop liking you. So in other words if a guy likes you pretend you don't like him because if you don't he will ignore you. Now for real does that make sense.

[Amyehme]

If you have made it clear to a male that you are interested/care about him, and he starts deliberately ignoring you, the best thing to do (regarding him) for yourself, is absolutely nothing.
Don’t get worried or upset about why he’s now ignoring you, however much you think he means to you at the time, for it will pass.
Why let yourself get upset over one male? If you mean anything to him, he won’t treat you like you’re unimportant.
Besides, if you’re letting yourself focus on one male who doesn’t appreciate you, you’re missing out on finding out more about other males who have better characters, and who will have a positive effect on you!
I believe if something’s meant to be, it will be.
Don’t waste your tears or energy on someone that doesn’t deserve you.

[mrfrosty]

If he is ignoring you, he isn't thinking about you at all, otherwise he isn't ignoring you.

[hemakhadun]

A man may also ignore of he feels he is gonna fall in love with you (and he came from a bad relationship/marriage). He is scared to feel love again!

[NRLJAY]

A guy who says he likes you, then dates you an checks on you gets ignored for the guy ignoring her. just saw a video from a man saying ignore women to make them want you then i see this saying we ignore cause we dont want you. I JUST WANT LOVE‼️ These mind games are annoying.

[Paula-zlzn]

Men who ignore you especially in the early stages are playing mind games and you should run for the hills, they are immature, lack communication skills and are just not that interested! Move on and find someone who is emotionally mature and who does not play games. A relationship shouldn't be a game.

[Sippy]

No one cares. I came, I listened, and all I can advise people is, if a guy is ignoring you, or you have a gut feeling he's not genuine(there are signs) get the hell out of that situation immediately and get that false idea out of your head. The universe is trying to tell you, he's not for you. If a guy is truly into you, there is no effort, trust me. You will know it. He will try so hard and will always want to be by your side. Someone else will come along that's better eventually, and if that fails, don't give up. All these failed ones will lead you to the one you were meant to be with. Don't chase or try, it should come effortlessly. It should be looked upon as a gift. If it doesn't, and you force it, look out, trouble ahead. Don't do that to yourselves. Your better than that.

[richverreault]

Not all men like to chase women as she depicts in this video. Games are for children.

[legslipsandlashes]

My suggestion to all ladies is to focus on yourself. Make yourself and the things that you like to do a priority. This does not mean that you bash him or that you treat him like a f-boy. But it does mean that you should continue to live your life. Be with your girls, do things by yourself. Be more into yourself without being hateful. You're a great person. Enhance the relationship that you have with YOURSELF. Take a cooking class or a dance class. Learn to olay an instrument. Volunteer. Fuck it! Do something other than being available for his ass all the time. Don't answer the phone so much. Don't call so much. Don't say yes all the gotdamn time. It's hard at first because you like him and you want him to like you too. But if he likes YOU, he likes YOU.

[Nekole]

Wondering what he is thinking is not my concern. You ignore me and I keep it moving. I dont like to do the back and forth. Not worth the stress for me.

[jamessigrist]

As a man I actually start ignoring girls when they make me do too much chasing. I completely understand working hard but if you hold it for too long it can start to be interpreted as rejection and a good man will respect it and leave. Be careful ladies! We love you.

[sofiagonzalez]

ladies, it happened to me & gotta say it hurts but best thing i learned to do is move on w your life . i had this guy say he liked me & yk i told him i liked him too. we went to the same school so i saw him almost every day & we texted each other every day. one day out of no where he left me on read & yk i was like maybe he is busy or he doesnt wanna talk rn . 2 days went by & i texted him if everything was okay, got left on read again. i never texted him again after that but trust me it hurted . i really really liked him, & yk some of the things that he said to me were like music to my ears . 3 weeks later he texted me saying he was sorry, that he didnt have an excuse for his actions but that he was sorry . & i was like wait what? . 2 days later i texted him saying that i still wanted to know why & again he told me that he had no good explanation . & yk after that i never responded . the moral of the story is that guys will fight for the girl they want . they arent idiots & they know perfectly what they are doing . dont let yourself break down as bad as i did for a guy who is just playing games . move on w your life, be happy, & stay single until you are accepted, respected & appreciated .

[JM-iphf]

As a man, if I ignore a woman is not because I am trying to be disrespectful to her its simply because I have a lot on my mind and I’m not thinking about women or sex 24/7. I have a business with employees and other ventures that take up a lot of my time. If the the men you know are only thinking about their next lay or more interested in looking at other women then you are not with a man but a boy.

[markoperic]

From my perspective, Ive ignored a girl, and there was 3 diferent situations and reasons I did.
1 I was obsessed with her, but she held back and ignored me, so I tried my best to move on.
2 I was scared of her, because of the pain she brought me.
3 while in pain, some girl showed interest and I was scared that she would feel my pain, so I held back. It was the most painfull, cause she was a hero to me, came to me when I was in the lowest part of my life. And I wish I could have opened up to her. But the pain didnt let me

[kazesensei]

As a man when I ignore a woman it means I'm no longer interested

[TheMrTTT]

Good advice but you missed a key reason men pull back from a relationship and fall silent. As a man, the most common reason I've seen is that he's falling in love with you and he terrified that he's about to lose his freedom. My advice on this and on all of the circumstances in the video is to get real, then step back, then move on. "I sense you pulling away. To be honest I'm really beginning to like you and I wonder if a deeper relationship is possible. I know however, that me being pushy or a pest is the wrong way to handle it if you aren't in to me. So I'll step back and leave it to you if you want to continue the relationship in a time frame that works for both of us. If the time works for both of us then I'd love to hear from you again. Good luck." No drama just reality. Then step back and move on. If he's healthy and available then he'll find this irresistible. If you hear from him again then it's your decision if the time frame works for you. Expect no contact and be genuinely happy to see him if that happens accidentally, but make no additional request that he contact you.

[nexxuzzs]

Men might ignore you because they like you. Because they might be too shy or they might not know how to respond to whatever you say or do.