DANGEROUS TRUTH Of ARROGANCE And Toxic Family Dynamics

Arrogant people can sometimes be the most difficult people to deal with.
They are often condescending, prideful, and haughty.

Individuals who come from toxic family dynamics often find themselves developing into very arrogant but insecure adults.

Toxic family dynamics may also include growing up under arrogant and highly self-centered parents.

The damage this can cause you can take a toll for many years.

In this video, I discuss the psychology of arrogant know-it-alls.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
7:17 poor relationships and drama
9:02 self-aggrandizement/disillusionment
9:23 delusional thinking & grandiose attitude
11:14 a lack of affective empathy
11:42 defense mechanisms
12:22 TYPES OF ARROGANCE
14:23 HOW THESE PEOPLE CAN AFFECT YOU

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Mentioned In The Video:
1. Cowan N, Adams EJ, Bhangal S, Corcoran M, Decker R, Dockter CE, Eubank AT, Gann CL, Greene NR, Helle AC, Lee N, Nguyen AT, Ripley KR, Scofield JE, Tapia MA, Threlkeld KL, Watts AL. Foundations of Arrogance: A Broad Survey and Framework for Research. Rev Gen Psychol. 2019 Dec 1;23(4):425-443. doi: 10.1177/1089268019877138. Epub 2019 Sep 19. PMID: 33967573; PMCID: PMC8101990.

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[justinkevish]

Arrogant people seem to minimize everyone's experiences besides their own.

[Lore]

They are resistant to any feedback, hearing criticism or suggestions for improvement. 🙄

[thistlespiritcreations]

I've been accused of being arrogant for showing confidence around insecure people. It took a long time for me to gain that confidence in the areas I've mastered. I don't say things like I'm better than. It's almost like I'm not allowed to be self-assured around certain people.

[GrandAirTrineAstro]

I’ve been called grandiose by someone who belittles all my achievements in education, competitive sport and some specific systems I mastered with diligent long term study. I’m neurodivergent and only comment on things I feel I’m an expert in. I had my ideas taken throughout my life and I was never benefiting. So now I keep to myself. I was very naive, trusting and open with sharing my knowledge. Learned the hard way.

[BAsed_AFro]

Delusions of infallibly and superiority

[rubberbiscuit]

It's disturbing how arrogance and associated behaviors are like a manifestation of a virus, repeating and repeating. Like this virus causes specific distorted false beliefs, and dysfunctional behavior patterns. Very destructive, like a virus is.

[ppll]

I was born into the narc ness. They all are arrogant. People on my narc mom are beautiful, really beautiful so they can't stop bragging about it and look down on others. Im ok looking. Im not as beautiful as they r and im the Empath. So they mocked me, belittled me daily. I know they r jealous and envious of my personality, kind, caring and courageous!!

[JNYC]

You hit it spot on.... so exhausting and they are delusional. They never want to hear the truth...let alone, accept it.

[truthutoda]

Arrogant people are tiring😢. I'm with you. It is not attractive at all. My hubby was so humble which is why we're together. 😅 otherwise, no way. It can be embarrassing too. Like when my Arrogant father made a fool out of himself when he would get drunk and angry.

[Dmitrij-nlsc]

It's a coping strategy for those who were badly humiliated by others and punished for their mistakes instead of being helped or offered compassion.

[sumedw]

‘arrogance is a smokescreen’
YES !!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[DAJ-yl]

9:34 it actually sounds like the way my family & most relatives looked down on me I feel because I refuse to be manipulated and controlled by the narcissistic Brothers I was a free spirit and I fought back and I will always fight back 💯💯💯🔥🔥🐝🐐🐝🐐

[alimccreery]

I met a guy who had this exact personality and after I listened to him I had anxieties for a week. Now I’m apprehensive about going back to that restaurant because he lives in an apartment upstairs 😳

[CamGoesCamping]

You are way too nice with all these videos lately! Thank you for taking time out of your day for us!

[seameology]

I had a friend who was arrogant because she just obtained a Masters degree. She was very arrogant about it because I just had a two year degree. And she had a 4.0. But, she avoided math and science courses because they were "too hard". My education is strictly math and science. Pretty sure that got under her skin. Competitive. The operative word here is HAD. We got into a discussion about science and of course she knew everything. I'd already moved away so all I needed to do was block her.

[Lore]

They are resistant to any feedback, hearing criticism, or suggestions for improvement.🙄

[susansourby]

Thank you for the clarification of arrrogance vs narcissism. Wonderful presentation.

[halfthebattleknowingis]

I feel like everybody "knows" everything now-a-days. Its a lot of information out there now. The amount of information consumed could definitely bring forth arrogant personality traits; the know it all personality. Everybody's a star. The ability to control perhaps these developing personality traits is important. Confidence, however, is often frowned upon and mischaracterized as arrogance. To differentiate between the two is a great skill.

[CastAwayKayaker]

Also, when people are baggers and only talk about themselves, it is a dead giveaway. Stay away from these people.

[nadiaconseillant]

Glad you said that. I have been accused of such nonsense. I have never been arrogant in my life. But I feel sorry for others who down someone because they can't lasso them down. If someone is waiting for me to oblige that will never happen Get rid of the jealousy trait