HOW TO MAKE A BIG DECISION When You’re TORN AF 😫

Learn the 5 steps I take to make hard decisions more clear by first figuring out my values, goals, and needs around the choice.

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Figuring out how to make a BIG decision when you’re seriously stuck between a rock and a hard place requires more than a quick trick or sorting out emotions vs logic. Sometimes the crossroads is gonna hurt either way. Sometimes even good things require painful sacrifices. How do you choose then?

There’s a process I use that goes beyond objectivity to make murky choices clearer and allows you to make better decisions (not to be confused with EASY decisions), without having to choose between your head and your heart. This is about aligning them BOTH by examining your values, goals, and needs.

So if you’re struggling to make the right choice?
Set some time aside for this one.

And if you think you don’t have time to set aside?
Just look at the time being siphoned away by your indecision and stress.

No, this isn’t a fluffy, “quick fix” answer.
(Sorry. I wish those existed too.)

There’s rarely one simple hack to make the best decision.
Unless your decision itself is simpler than you’re giving it credit.

Making hard decisions you won’t regret later means making time to sort through what ACTUALLY matters.

I’ll tell you what I tell myself: suck it up buttercup.

You can do this.

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[ubznonv]

“Crush your goals not your soul” I like that !

[starcatcher]

I am at a BIG crossroads and I find it very painful. I can't decide and driving others crazy as well.

[janay]

thank you so much for this concrete framework! <3

i'm at the biggest crossroads in my life and this decision has been weighing on my mind for years now and the underlying issue for i don't even know how long (as you mentioned in mentioned in the video, neither side is hell yes so that's why i feel so torn). anyway life has been especially challenging the past 2 years and my soul is very tired. i will try to follow your method to gain clarity and pull the trigger this year. i'm tired of living in limbo. hopefully i'll feel at peace one day with my decision and life will work out

[gabecox]

I love the idea of listing out our values and figuring out which decision best lines up with them. Once we make the decision, it’s important not to waver. We have to be ok with what we decide and continue living from there, especially when either decision would be just fine.

[Brenduh]

I wish someone would just make my decision for me and know that it's the best one.

[hafitalnmr]

Hey, such a great video, I just got started working on my own process to make a tough decision, yet I still don't know how much time I have, it's unbelievable challenging one. Thanks a lot you helped to begin a good start points, And don't forget people watching you all over. Hafit's here living in China.

[marystravellife]

This is a great video! I’m trying to make a decision between staying in Europe and study here or move back to the US and study there. Covid and the current political situation is what made me rethink the US plan and i’m trying to decide since days now... i’m feeling terrible but this video gave me hope! i’m taking my time now to do all of the steps.

[melissapinkgwinner]

I’m physically sick to my stomach from anxiety! I have a huge decision to make about my business but my gut tells me to cut my loses and go home!

[MarleyJaxx]

Than you for this and being so open to sharing your story!

[GabrielaLopez-cnqm]

What a great video! I'm in the middle of making an important work decision where I felt very confused and hesitant. Following your strategy has made me work on it differently. Thank you!

[deniseracine]

Very helpful video. We had a very similar decision to make as yours. We followed the steps and had a conclusion within an hour. I think we had been thinking so much that we just needed something to help us structure our thoughts. Thanks again!

[deeplyliving]

so helpful thank you! I ALWAYS have a difficult time making decisions, my anxiety always gets the best of me and its very overwhelming! I'm going to try these tips though, thank you!

[amelieg]

This was SO useful for me. I'm an expat who has spent more than 20+ years outside of my home country, and was stuck between the choice to keep living the expat life or go back home to be closer to my family and friends. Doing the board exercise and listing values, goals, options and needs was really insightful. To see it all written down especially helps. It also helped me to think a little outside the box, that there isn't just option A & option B but maybe other options.

Overall it helped me a lot in my decision process so thank you very much for sharing. Just discovered your channel and love your energy!

[nicolekatsikides]

This really helped us to make a major decision. We applied the method and were able to get to a decision. I’m very grateful for this. Thank you.

[whenearthspeaks]

Why does this not have more thumbs up!? Excellent process, I'm going to use right now with scratch paper. Thumbs up here, and new sub, looks like you have a lot of videos I will like. Thank you for this video, so very helpful!!

[sandrasevenstarsenterprise]

Use found your channel and subscribed!

[ricardodeguinon]

I love the idea OF clear but difficult. I truly appreciate you decision of empowering us. Keep it up . I truly appreciate it.

[jonash]

If only life were so simple we would all be rich

[whoisappie]

Thank you for sharing your personal story! I am on a point in my life where I need to make some hard choices... but in my situation I think it's more about letting go of fear and taking the risk, I think I know what I need to do... But obviously there are some desirable aspects to the other choice... this video is helpful :)

[elainecleosocorro]

I'm so glad I found this channel and this awesome video. Thanks Tara! I'm currently facing a tough career choice and this has been so helpful.