5 Common Habits That Make You Look BETA (INSTANT Attraction Killers)

Women are attracted to confident men for a reason. And it's typically because of the things they DON'T DO rather than the things they do. In this video Marni reveals 5 MAJOR things confident men would NEVER do and that you should avoid doing as well. If you realize you do any of these things, STOP doing them from this day on!! Marni will show you how.

Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

[svang]

1. They don't anticipate negative treatment
2. They don't compare
3. They don't obsess over their reputation
4. They don't attack themselves
5. They don't hide their interest

You're welcome

[alexflips]

Great video
1) not expecting to be treated well
2) comparing yourself to other guys
3) obsessing over your reputation / being affected by other people’s opinions
4) beating yourself up / blaming yourself
5) hiding your interest

[davidmace]

Confidence is knowing that whatever happens you will be alright.

[SkodaCoversFitnessReviews]

Be in a positive state, people’s expectations of you are irrelevant. YOU ARE AWESOME! 🙌

[drjcobra]

Finally a lady who understands that "Perfection" does not exist. ✌😎

[wsportsworld]

Shes a good sales woman, I'll give her that.

[derrickkeppler]

confidence leaves you real quick when your first experience with a woman is her kicking you in the nuts pretending she's going to kiss you

[budsticky]

I tried not hiding my interest once. Damn near got me arrested.

[matthewjuliandavis]

I will make my "broken, " self literally give it a whirl! Thank you Wing Girl.

[tiffthunderchocolate]

In addition to teaching us what's attractive to women and how to get them, what Marni is really teaching us is how to be better men with quality values, not just with the ladies but in life itself. Really appreciate you, Marni!

[neilcrowesongs]

Always offering ways to learn & grow. Marni is like friends I have who I always feel better about life after being around.

[jesperstoringgaard]

I consider myself a rather confident guy, and my own humble adition:
1: It's okay to anticipate negative treatment, if you know there's a reasonable chance it'll happen. But you ALSO know that even if whoever blows up at you, you either a) deserved it, or b) can handle it

2) Comparing is fine, use it to learn how to improve yourself. Compare yourself to your betters, and take inspiration. Compare yourself to your peers, and take pride in where you're at. And accept that no matter what, someone will be better than you, and that doesn't mean you shouldn't kick ass.

3) As long as you are true to your beliefs, and strive to be what you want to be, others opinion of you is either: Wrong, and thus of no use, or correct.

4)Know your weakness, and try to improve them. Or at least accept them. But don't beat yourself over it.

5) If you hide any part of yourself (not the same as having different social filters) you're an idiot.

[RaymondUpenieks]

People have to understand that if a person doesn't like themselves how can they expect others to like them. It's that simple and also positive mindset. Risk is another area that positive or negative determines the outcome. If a person fails to take a risk it's automatic failure but if a person takes the risk and fails it is a success. It might sound delusional but taking risk is the first success and everything after that are steps towards a goal. Excellent video and great points made.

[Em-feod]

They’re more nervous then we are. Js + real men chase goals not girls.

[freakctc]

So, in my 20's, and after my divorce, I did those things, whether genuine or 'fake it till you make it'. It never worked. I might not have been comparing myself to others, but the women certainly were.
By my early 30's, my self-confidence had been crushed, and it's been all downhill from there. in my early 40's now, and too set on negative mental behaviors. Trying to work on it, but it's a steep climb outta that hole.
I appreciate the info, and will keep it all in mind while working on myself. Thanks for the great vid.

[HAZIDEAD]

First time I actually agree enthusiastically with Marni. Especially about comparison being poison. Extremely important point for everyone: men and women.

[lincbond]

I've always had a very beta personality by nature. Fortunately I also have a stoic demeanor so most people usually don't cross me. At this point in my life, I'm happy with who I am and really don't care what other people think.

[rhlmcd]

Loved the video, I ended up rejecting the girl I wanted originally knowing that she would come back and she ended up asking me out 2 days later. The chemistry was there but I needed to make sure that it wasn’t just a moment. We spoke for hours and she ended up kissing me which was her breaking her rule of taking months to kiss someone.

[cptcurdlessdf]

comparison is an extremely effective way to improve upon almost anything, unless you are the absolute best at something. it can be very helpful and healthy to use, as long as its being done for improvement and not as a way of destroying your confidence/motivation.

[marketingking]

I like this you did a good job Marni! :) Love it. I dont normally SUB - but I did. Gentlemen she is right! As a man in sales - I can tell you 1) Always assume the close 2) stop over thinking like Nike - Just do it and 3) The moment you stop caring so much is the when you win!