5 Signs That Make You A SIGMA INFJ, The Rarest Among Rarest Personality Type

The INFJ is known for being incredibly intuitive and sensitive, which makes them good communicators and compassionate people. They value order and predictability in their outer world, but they also rely on their intuition to make decisions when alone. This time, we're going to specifically talk about sigma INFJs, and how they're different from INFJ empaths.

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0:00 - Intro
0:07 - Opening
1:19 - Sigma INFJs prefer privacy and staying invisible; they don't want their progress to be disturbed
2:32 - Sigma INFJs are vocal about their ideas
3:29 - Sigma INFJs need alone time differently than INFJ empaths
4:21 - Sigma INFJs are narcissists' nightmares
5:15 - Sigma INFJs are self-sufficient; they're fine on their own
6:03 - Ending
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[christinemerritt]

An INFJ Empath is STILL part of a Sigma INFJ, because a SIGMA INFJ is nothing more than a matured, and wiser, and older INFJ Empath. We didn’t lose our sweet and trusting qualities, they are still there. But we GUARD THOSE INNOCENT AND TRUSTING PORTIONS OF OURSELVES WITH OUR LIVES.!!

[mirtzi.]

For many many years I was an INFJ empath but due to narcissistic abuse and my journey towards self-care and self-awareness I have transformed into a Sigma INFJ. As others pointed out here so beautifully, Sigma is just maturity!! Have a great and bright day all of you!

[LordBrittish]

When I was a young child I think I just assumed everyone was like me. I was so wrong.

[VickiWells]

A sigma is just maturity, thank you for a concise explaination.

[brianatippens]

Definitely a sigma. I agree that the more you experience life, and grow, and mature, the more you become a sigma.

[sifvicious]

I was so an infj empath growing up, as life hit again and again it turned me into a sigma infj Or a slightly darker infj empath that takes himself more serious after years of different fuckery

[DaveRod]

Concerning narcisist, I believe life's lessons are making me metamorph from an INFJ empath to an INFJ sigma. I've suffered through pain, but I've changed, and now I'm cutting people off at the quick before they get a narcisistic word in edgewise.

[mypov]

"If you can't help others, what good are you?" was my motto until I realized many of those I helped are just users. So now I am much more selective on who I help. Perhaps with experience/time INFJs become more "sigma" like? That certainly is the case with me.

[goldglamour]

Sigma infjs are the polar opposite of toxic narcissists. Sigma infjs are natural leaders and lone rangers, not weak followers. What a great thing, but it's a tough life sometimes, especially when it comes to choosing careers.

[RachelW-ujtt]

Under 30 year old me would probably say I was an empath INFJ. Being used and taken advantage of, stolen from and let down by all that I've tried to help....well, now I'm definitely a Sigma INFJ at 42.

[sheliajack]

The naricisst triggered me into sigma and for that we should be grateful to them for teaching us what we don't want want. Stay positive and set boundaries they hate that but hopefully they can learn also.

[matthewvoorhies]

It's like you're describing the old me versus the new me 🤔 I'm not full blown sigma yet but it looks like that's the direction I'm headed.

[ashleylarsen]

I truly believe I was a stark INFJ empath for many years, relating to all these points but after so many times getting used, abused and burned I really believe I have evolved into a Sigma INFJ. I can sense a narcissist almost instantly now and have boundaries I never would have set before. I’ve gone from wanting to help everyone, even very toxic people who drained me to only wanting to help those who want the help. Remember empaths, some people don’t want to be saved..they prefer their victimhood over progress anyday.

[askagain]

As a born INFJ, i will tell you somethinfg a bit controversial...humans are born as blank slates, and start with experiencing life through senses, thus emotions, that makes them the Empath...as they grow, experience things and face hardships, they evolve, being deep thinkers means they often come to conclussion that alot of what they used to do in the past, is pointless, as they grow, they begin descarding emotion in favor of rational logic and let emotions only tag along or pair them with rational achievements and so, the Sigma is born... these 2 types are not distinct but an evolutuion of the same character in different stages of life.
Good luck fellow "ugly ducklings", won't be easy but damn worth the struggle.

[emmangendo]

Well I've had experiences that encompass both. This has turned me into sigma empath. I think the environment in which one grows up in and the experiences can lead to a complex eventuality for the infj personality.

[pamelastorer]

I think you explained it well, and highlighted where the differences are. I found being targetted by narcissists and the selfish was what matured me into the sigma I am now. I was too uninformed and idealistic to realise such people existed before. There is an inner part of INFJ's which remains the same from childhood, we keep being the child we were in some ways, I believe. Apart from this, I recognised the signs and can confirm them.

[adrienne]

Hello I recognise both of these signs. I love my solitude, and even when raising my family when younger, I loved the idea of solitude. I do care deeply about people, and far more than they ever do about myself. I've learned to accept this over the years though. I found it to be true that the INFJ has to be hurt by others several times before withdrawing from that company. Its not that I cannot see it happening, its just I like to see if the person is going to have an attitude change before walking away! I don't mind voicing an opinion if it means something to me, enough to do so...and generally do not care what the world thinks about my having done so! These days I fit the role of both perfectly. I kept a small handful of friends close and had many acquaintances, of which now I do not have. It would be great to have contact with someone whom truly understood me, but not met anyone on that level yet. I don't know if I'm either/or one of these two patterns, but I recognise self in both of them...thank you for sharing ❤ x

[amyj.]

I don't car about being the "rarest" I just appreciate existing

[jnetcl]

I am definitely a sigma infj. Narcissist can't victimize me.

[sirphil]

This video does an excellent, astute job in contrasting either the young INFJs whose deeply ingrained love of harmony makes them alien to the concept of boundary function because in the Garden of Eden there's no need to say "no" to others (because every creature in the Garden is in harmony with each other) but becomes a target for the abusers (Satan - the ultimate narcissist) vs. the mature INFJ that finally realized that malignant narcissists do exists in the world and are not going away, in fact been in humanity since the dawn of man, not everyone we meet are safe people, that Cluster B personality disordered people are selfishly driven, their shadow is always on the surface, therefore these wolves in sheep's clothing embraces corruption (they like to corrupt the innocence and loves to be corrupted) or the video is contrasting the INFJ-Ts vs. the INFJ-As.

Mature INFJs thru multiple life trials learn the hard way that we do not live in the Garden of Eden, that the opposite of harmony is corruption, and goes thru multiple character spurt growths, finally reaches a point that being someone's sacrificial lambs doesn't do them or the sinner any good, that it is the malignant narcissists that teach the young INFJs that their next evolution is to learn, to enforce, and to promote healthy boundary functions (comfortable saying "no" to toxic people, toxic environments, to toxic bad habits by saying "no".. saying "no" to yourself is self-discipline). That resurrection changes the INFJ to be "the protector" of harmony from corruption's influences. Think MLK's modus operandi.

Since INFJs own the highest EQ (counselor types), tend to have higher that average IQs, a healthy moral working compass, and are protected by their ESTP shadow (extroverted fighter that protects the INFJ from harm)...a mature INFJ transforms into the higher educated fighter-class in society called the Paladins, the defenders of the Garden of Eden. A Paladin is the only one in a crowd that witnessing a bully hurting someone will step up and stops the bully (a narcissist) from hurting the innocence, out of all the 8 introvert types, the INFJ hates the bully/abuser the most, and have a passion to stop that bully by being the justice for the victim (the underdogs). Paladins out of all the other fighter class are very rare, like the INFJs. INFJs are known to hate bullies, defend the underdogs, and the "doers, " not just the dreamers (doers are proactive, INFJs are the introverts mostly likely to found in the extrovert's world not being passive looking at a screen all day). INFJs traits out of all the other MBTI types are hardwired to spot fake people (the wolves in sheep's clothing) before any other types begin to have a clue...INFJs are the light triads and is the dark triads' worst enemies (remember, nature always creates a balance in the universe, the dark triad's, even though they love to believe it...are not the only game in town), even the INFJ traits have natural defenses that protects us from the dark triads' usual modus operandi. INFJs are also often compared to a Master Jedi, the dark traids are the Sith Lords.

INFJs paradox (counselors and advocates) also labels the INFJs as "the protector" too.

Paladins most certainly fits the descriptions of a sigma...any mistypes that can't accept that label hasn't lived as an INFJ, therefore can't identify as what it is to be a sigma...
INFJ sigmas are real.

Having a Paladin mentality also explains why male INFJs are so picky on who we mate with, we are holding out for that high quality Lady to pair bond with...quality over quantity is how we INFj's roll in the sack... I am done dating with BPD women (even though they are fantastic in bed, teaches Paladins how to make love like a pro), BPD's can mimic that Lady-like presence (the damsel in distress) in the beginning to trap Paladins onto their toxic poison, web (they know exactly what they are doing from the very start). INFj men are their ultimate narc supply (BPDs always light up like a Christmas tree in my presence) that they can feed off for the longest time, to them crossing paths with an ultra-rare INFJ man is like finding a huge lotto winning jackpot ticket....until we wise up. INFj women, if you think it's lame always being targeted by toxic narcissist men all the time, try living in an INFJ male's shoes - with us being targeted by the apex predators of the borderline personality disorder super cute looking girls (Lucifer's Daughters), that can easily dance circles around your narcissist's men, see which traumas builds the most solid character. Do you know the holy power that's unleashed when a Paladin finally wakes up and breaks free of a BPD's super-charm's deep slumber, and sees her for what she really is? (to be fair for the BPD's out there, we aren't entirely asleep by your charms, we are recording EVERYTHING inside our heads, even the stuff we read between the lines...that's the evidence we will present to you right before our INFJ's door-slam). We knew about you during the love bombing stage, we heard you under your breath that it was you that clued us in to your inner psychology, we just wanted to put a band-aid on you to stop your bleeding, and protect your wounded inner child, and be in your corner when you were ready to face your own demons, that's the main reason we stayed, the discard phase is what woke the Paladin up when being confronted and targeted by your secondary psychopathic nature.
...i.e the sigma males.

Man, I can really feel Johnny Depp's pain right now, and I knows exactly what the hell he is dealing with...I'm praying for him.

This is an excellent videos that non-mistype INFJs can identify with, thank you, YouTuber! Any INFJ videos that mentions the narcissists is coming from a real INFJ or an astute MBTI profiler. I think this video is more related to the male INFJs more than to our sister INFJs.

EDIT:
Out of all the Knights in King Arthur's court, I identified the most with Sir Galahad. He is the paradoxical Knight of the Round Table, the bad boy turned into a Knight. He walked among the narcissists once, knows their M.O. better than the other Knights, and can fight evil with evil (bends the rules...like Obi Wan Kenobi does if he has to)... for the common good.