5 Signs Someone is Attracted to You

This video answers the questions: What are the signs that someone is attracted to another person? How can signs of attraction be interpreted?

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[AaronDunlaphouston]

I require them to be actually holding a sign that reads, "I am attracted to you."

[armara]

Don’t forget sportflirting. Some people will just flirt for the ego boost, or they’re just bored.

[EnjoyingLifeMelanie]

I've found the following to be true:
They give me a head bump
They rub their body against my ankles
They give me a slow blink
They snuggle up against me on the sofa and start to bathe
They purr when I touch them

[cmvamerica]

I met a girl who kept starring at me and I thought she was attracted to me until I looked in a mirror and realized I was bleeding from a shaving cut.

[hikkipedia]

Guys, also note that none of these apply to the barista. They're just being polite.

[jaymata]

Just follow the two rules of dating:
1) Be attractive.
2) Don't be unattractive.

[alldayeverydayable]

In 7th grade, I had a classmate with really bad acne and I was staring at it one day. About 15 years later, I ran into him and he asked me, remember when u had a crush on me? I was baffled and asked him what he meant. He said, you used to stare at me a lot. I just left it at that. No need to bring up his acne

[valhalla]

In addition: Person A knows about these signs, panicks at the thought of being too obvious and overcompensates by avoiding to show them (avoids physical or eye contact, doesn't ask you out, doesn't really talk much at all and dies alone).

[the_moooon]

"5 things ive never had happen to me"

[sammysoppy]

How to tell if someone is attracted to you? Step 1: be attractive

Thanks for this groundbreaking piece of info 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[edwarddodge]

“If you’re on a date with somebody, there’s a fair chance that they’re attracted to you.” 🤔

[umeng]

So a restraining order isn't just playing hard to get 😂

[celloafterdark]

Sees title: “Dr. Grande, are you hitting on me??” 😂😂😂

[charlottemarx]

Possible signs:
1. Physical attractiveness.
2. Volume and content of conversation (Personal information)
3. Somebody says they are attracted
they say they are single,
they compare you to an celebrizy, person they like
4. Laughing and smiling, forward body leaning, touch
5. Longer eye contact than normal, somebody is looking at your face when you are looking away.

[kunstwert]

I really hope person A gets person B and the marry and have a lot of kids and name them kid C, kid D and kid E

[AA-uuik]

It’s weird because I laugh at my own jokes so I’m not sure if this means I have a crush on myself. I’m so confused

[annm.]

“They should be called 12 made up signs...” 😂
Dr. Grande’s deadpan low key throwdowns give me liiife

[wmluna]

I have been accused of flirting so many times when I was absolutely not trying to do that. Sometimes just being an active, personable data-centered listener can get you in situations you don't want to be in.

[kathydove]

Great video Dr. Grande 👍. As a single woman on the dating scene, I have to agree with your analysis. Eye contact, laughing, smiling and actually asking for a date are strong signs that someone is attracted to you. Sadly, the superficiality of all this will NOT lead to a fulfilling relationship because shared values and commitment are required to build lasting love 💘

[janakakumara]

Dr Todd, You really need to make a merch t-shirt with "Person A and Person B"