Mistakes that will cost you when dating - Benjamin Zulu

Love is not a sprint. It’s a long slow walk. There are many stages of development necessary to build solid foundations. Too many couples rush into certain territories far too soon and negatively impact the direction and outcome of their relationships.
Most relationships never recover from these mistakes. On this episode, Benjamin Zulu outlines common and very costly mistakes that all dating couples should avoid
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[mayat]

"Dont fall in love with him before u get his assurance...dont be afraid to lose him or he will take u in on his own terms n not on ur own terms..DATE WITH PURPOSE, FOR WOMEN"-that hit me hard

[fionawitaba]

This dude is out here saving lives. What he's saying is so true.

[justmo]

I'm 32 yr old lady dating a 37 yr old....my career path came late in life at 29yrs feel like it's never late...love the show👏🔥👍

[CintiaMendesT]

Here is a summary of what has been mentioned :
1)Dating too soon, before 25
2)Dating for way too long (when it goes over 2 years, you’re wasting your time)
‼️The man pursues but the woman determines the standard‼️
3)Don’t commit too soon (eg.getting pregant)
4)Don’t involve so many people in your relationship

[lovejoy]

I just had a break up yesterday and trust me this talk really helped me big time . I feel like my spirit is free.

[ms_nduku]

24 and still confused. Benjamin you're so right about that age thing

[julzlebi]

"it's not the man or the woman you marry that gives you the greatest happiness, it's achieving your purpose in life!" those deep words need to be shouted much louder to a society obsessed with romanticized relationships and love while paying less attention to self care and self purpose. Thank you Benjamin! Love from Nigeria!

[elizakambua]

I got lost at 23 wow, ended up pregnant...these things i must teach my baby when she grows

[funnycatsandpetsvideos]

Am turning 21, and the point on 'don't get in love before assurance', this was for me for real😭, I'm now thinking of concentrating on my books, get my 1st class degree, build my life in this short 4years, thanks Benjamin for the talk, Girls hope tumeskia

[TechMaster]

This guy is special. Shout out from South Africa. One love

[candymutwari]

I feel like he is right am almost turning 26 and I discovered myself just when I turned 25 and knew the kind of people I want around...
Heeeh this guy I love this sanaa

[imanikemunto]

Thank you fully agree with what you’re saying....I made the same mistakes of Dating early when I was on the age of 19 to 25 and it never worked until I took time for myself to learn and understand who I really am as a person, my purpose in this world, having a personal relationship with Christ and knowing what I want and look for in a relationship or with a man ....And now at 27 am can say that with confidence that I found my other personal person he is 35 and we have built a very stronger bond and connection because we know who we are On our own and what we expect from each other and where we are going in short we have a common mindset and we have same endgoals which is marriage and building a home together and we are happy.

[nginawambua]

Am 23 and thanks to God I got this special advice after my breakup last night....but from now on words am a different person thanks to Zulu and it so much....

[ayanda_ndlovukazi_]

Watching all the way from South Africa, I'm Zimbabwean, I'm 27 and I think this man just saved my life, I wish I could have known him sooner. Best lessons ever.

[StevenSsamba]

I have told people that it's a lie to say that you are staying in a bad relationship for children. Children know when their parents don't love each other and it affects them badly. That is short term thinking....thank you Benjamin.

[NorisMaingey]

Wish I had this information before the mistakes I made in life...anyways...still learning..before planning to date or settle...amazing information

[sharonemordi]

Benjamin zulu a blessing to our world!!!!

[didiludaka]

Too true! I was lost at 23 am 26 now and its like i finally just woke up! Perspectives have shifted so much in such a short period of time and i will reclaim my shine!#its never too late.

[hazeljohnson]

I just started to watch Benjamin Zulu three days ago and to be honest I just can't stop he is an inspiration to young people we need more men thinking like him the topics are great love the program I am a jamaican by birth but now am an American citizen

[me_lyssa]

"Don't fall in love before Assurance''..🔥🔥🔥