5 simple ways to be more attractive, according to science :)

Want to be more attractive? I got you

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction
00:05 - I. Optimism
01:44 - Insta poll
02:09 - 2. Reciprocal liking
03:35 - 3. Body language
04:50 - 4. Positive affective presence
06:27 - 5. We like what we understand

What I use to make my videos:

What I use for my daily journaling:

Books that shaped me:



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[LanaBlakely]

Hi besties ❤ Do you like the side-by-side editing in the beginning? Thoughts?

[Nabanita]

In today’s world, where people are more into giving a speech on how to be physically alluring, you are teaching us exactly how to be mentally attractive. We are grateful for having you as a mentor💞

[lindokuhleshandu]

Here's my second attractive list:

1. Kindness
2. Sense of humour
3. Empathy
4. Body language (eye contact, genuine smile, occassionally touchy, leaning in a bit when we're interacting)
5. Relatability (this one actually tops the charts)

I never heard of the term reciprocal liking before, until now, even though I've felt it a number of times before. So, thank you, Lana.

[Nvmd-pu]

1. Optimism
2. Reciprocal liking
3. Body language
4. Positive Effective Presence
5. We like what we understand

[aimeejane_writings]

Can’t believe I’ve been watching you for almost 3 years! The first video I watched of yours is the one where you explained how you stopped being judgemental. In fact, I’m pretty certain your video began my self-development journey. Thank you for being around. I love you ❤

[dearthofdoohickeys]

My advice would be: Don’t feed negative thoughts. Learn from mistakes, but don’t beat yourself up over them. Force yourself to see things you can be grateful for. Don’t focus on what you want people to do for you, focus on what you can do to help others.

Popularity and attractiveness should be a by-product of your efforts, not the end goal!

[glowup_guru]

i haven’t seen anyone with a more pure soul on youtube. you can tell she is the type of person that corrects her mistakes, gives really good hugs, and is so so sweet. you’re amazing Lana!!

[PhilosophyWithLilly]

"Outer beauty turns the head, but inner beauty turns the heart." I also made a video about this ❤

[Salim_Ahmed]

Loved the side-by-side at the start - felt like I was sitting in front of you as you were telling us the story and the imagery helped with that hahaha, but also helps seeing your facial expressions and hand movements etc. rather than just hearing your voice over the B roll

[Ilove-SE]

You are basically my Therapist at this point. Watching your vids make me pull myself together step by step each day.
You are an inspiration

[DTheHAge]

This example of optimism is beautiful. Because this kind of optimism is based on accepting what you can't change. Which si one of the best skills I learned in my 20s.

[simranbanga]

hi i just wanted to say that you're an amazing person and so is your channel. you have been changing my life for the better since the day i saw your first video in 2022. thank you for everything <3

[KaylaNoelle]

I struggle with eye contact because I am autistic but I do try to push myself when I can. Positive affective presence is HUGE though, even when I feel super depressed I’m always able to make people laugh and I’ve been told that people felt “energized” or “rejuvenated” by spending time with me. So even if you struggle with part of socializing you can compensate with one of your other strengths!

[reuxvento]

I was just trying to relax a little because my period pain was bad but i needed to study. Man this video was so calm and just gave a warm fuzzy feeling. you cured my pain omg

[ElysianEmperor]

00:28 😊 Optimism attracts, negativity repels. Positive outlook on life is attractive.
02:13 💑 Reciprocal liking is a concept where knowing someone is attracted to you makes you more likely to like them.
03:40 👁️ Nonverbal cues like eye contact can enhance attraction and connection with others.
04:57 😄 People with a positive "affective presence" who make others feel good tend to have more friends and romantic interests.
06:53 🤝 Being understood and sharing personal experiences can strengthen connections and attraction in relationships.

[minhtet]

I love her entrancing smile and the ways she coaches us.

[ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

The side to side editing was pretty cool, Lana! BTW, my dog does that too! 😅. Love the positivity in people also. You become the 5 people you hang around with so I totally understand why you wanted to be friends with this woman. Awesome video, Lana!

[anfalm]

What is a math exam when my fav YouTuber upload a video!

[claireannedacles-jove]

As a math teacher, students hate me by association. Extra efforts for them to unhate me is necessary. Your video is my lifesaver. Thanks so much! 🤓🙏

[ravaiiiii]

Thank you so much for your videos!
I think I just realized what was missing and what I do wrong when I'm dating, because I am usually such an extroverted, uplifting and energized person, but when I'm around the people I'm interested, I get completely quiet and start being and observer only.
In addition to making it difficult to talk to them and making me less sympathetic, and I definitely wasn't being myself!