I transitioned, and here’s what happened.. (my detransition story)

Thank you so much for watching!

This is a very condensed version of my transition and detransition story. As my channel grows, I’m looking forward to sharing more of this journey with you!

If you have any questions, feel free to ask them in the comments and I’ll do my best to get back with you.

See ya in the next video!

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[Faith.M]

The “girly girl-look” is just something society has created. We, women don’t have to look a certain way in order to feel like a real woman. Everyone is different.

[nonawolf]

Moms don't realise the damage they inflict on their daughters when they chastise them for not being "girly" enough. It plants seeds of doubt in a young mind... Please parents - just love you kids for who they are - not who you want them to be. Praying for you, Maddy. Thank you for sharing your story.

[craftwolzip]

What teenagers today aren’t being allowed to do is understand that almost all teenagers girls and boys, go through a difficult period when we are ‘transforming’ into adults! Some girls will never be ‘feminine’ in some ways and the same goes with boys and masculinity. That’s fine we figure it out as we go, as a teen I wasn’t a real tomboy but I wasn’t a ‘girly girl’ either but as the years went on I embraced my feminine traits. It takes years, decades to figure out who we are! I am 60 and still am 🤔.

[jamisonfawkes]

fellow detrans woman here, sending you so much love. religion had nothing to do with my detransition, but i’m happy you’ve found the path that’s right for you. congrats on becoming a mom!!

[BohemiAnnA]

I found you on IG last year. I’ve watched you becoming a beautiful mama bear. I’m also a follower of Jesus Christ, as you are. You’ve blessed me beyond belief with your courage and love. God bless you.

[suzanneclose]

Where do they get the ridiculous notion that real girls don't climb trees? We all climbed trees when we were kids. It is not a gender thing its a childhood thing. Same with arm wrestling , sublings, friends , , all genders. Wearing baggy clothes is not a gender thing either. She could have been saved from a lot of grief if her mother told her that she was beautiful. Did she? Anyone else? Kids need affirmation + reaffirmation that they are beautiful & smart etc. Too much negative and corrupt influence + not enough positive in young peoples lives.

[laurac]

I think I start to get this madness. So instead of fighting stereotypes we are destroying kids to reinforce the stereotypes.

[SamuraiXensei]

I’m currently transitioning and I’m being told to stop/de-transition. Thanks for sharing your story Maddy.

[plusminus_c]

Poor you girls of today. I was a girl in the 80s, I climbed trees, I collected rocks, spiders and bugs, and I hated skirts. I played with boys and loved the colors blue and red. So what. Nobody questioned my gender.
At 16 I wore skirts and felt very feminine. Now at 49 I wear pants, skirts, male underwear… so what. I am so glad I grew up in a quite „genderless“ time and without social media.

[marieparker]

There is no one 'correct' way to be a girl or woman. There is no one 'correct' way to be a boy or a man. There is nothing wrong with being a 'tomboy' or 'butch' girl. There is nothing wrong with being a 'camp' boy. There is nothing wrong with being L, G or B.

[et_vous_brute]

I'm a trans man, but thank you for sharing! I'm glad you seem to have figured out what's right for you :)

[Hope-zzeq]

being a tomboy does not mean that a girl wants to be a boy. Hearing you talk about your childhood is a similar story many girls have without ever wanting to occupy a man's body.

[FCLaney]

I always say how can you love a second version when you never loved the original. Congrats on your daughter and your new growing family, that’s a blessing! Bless you all and many more!

[Nspyrd]

I remember the first time my then young daughter came inside with tears as she had been called a "tomboy" and knew it was an insult but didn't know what it meant. That she hated dresses, dolls and "girly" things never occurred to me to reflect her gender identity. Instead, I explained to her that being a "tomboy" meant she was as fearless as a boy, unafraid of adventure. She went back outside and proudly proclaimed that "yes, she WAS a 'tomboy' and there was nothing they could do about it!" She's a grown woman now with children of her own and she STILL likes to fish, hunt, explore nature (bugs, critters, etc.)!

[christinee]

Thank goodness my childhood was years ago, because i was a tomboy and wanted to be just like my older brothers. Today i probably would have been encouraged to transition. Luckily i was left alone and puberty made me realise i was okay being a girl, but I've never been a girly girl. I only wear a dress if i feel i should! Jeans and shorts all the way. It's evil what youngsters are being encouraged to do now.

[DAJ]

I love how you kept bringing your questions to God and listening to hear the response. That's a good lesson to take to heart.

[MichaelaTrue]

Chills. Maddy thank you for sharing your story; It is so so needed in our world and culture today. I too transitioned and detransitioned but at a much younger age. Praying that many young women find your video and realize the solution to their pain and inner turmoil ISNT to transition. Praise God for His provision and unfailing love in our lives--- I'm sure Christ will contiue to work in the hearts of others through your story!

[shweefranglais]

A familiarly sad story. I'm glad you have realised that it is fine to be a female with masculine characteristics. Your story needs sharing. All detransitioner stories are helping to put this message out. I am not anti-trans as it works for some but for the majority it is not the answer as you have realised.

[siane]

Hi Maddy. That was interesting because you were exactly the same kind of young girl that i was. Not girly at all but feeling pressure to be feminine and lady-like.

The difference between us is that I had these problems over 40 years ago! There were no options, no solutions, and of course no internet to help me feel less alone.
In one way, I'm glad. If I had been faced with the opportunity to transition, I think I would also have chosen to do that. And it would have been the wrong option for me too.
I'm 57 now, I have 4 kids (some probably older than you!)
It's taken me my whole adult life to be ok with the kind of woman I am - a rather masculine one.
But the best part of my life has been having my kids, I would have been lost so many times without them.

Keep speaking out, please. Your courage and honesty is what some people need to hear right now.

[terryblais]

It is because pure souls like yours exist in this quarantine that we call Earth that makes the whole rollercoaster trip worth making. Keep being you little sister. Do your best. Shepherd the weak through this valley of darkness and remember to smell the flowers as you ride out this test. Nice job. Happy Trails!