What Are Your 6 Basic Human Needs? The Impact They Have on Relationships & Attachment Styles

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[LisaFreyMusic]

Hi Thais! I rarely comment but I just have to encourage you to keep doing these videos!! Holy crap I’ve learned more “tools” from you in the last two weeks than ALL of the “online therapy” I’ve been soaking up in the last two months. YES YES!!! break this down in future videos. I’m a Very introspective person, I’ve actually been to therapy and been told I already know my issues and I just need to work on them. But that’s the problem, I’ve been lost on recognizing practical ways, and especially implementing modalities to healing myself. Your conversation style really resonates with me and you give away information I think other coaches and therapists hoard in order to cull more clients. I have a track record of identifying new up-and-coming you tubers and I know that I know you’re definitely one of them, I’ve stumbled on absolute gold with you!!. Thank you so much for doing these videos, I’m not in a place I can afford coaching yet but I understand the law of reciprocity and karma and you’re contributing something so valuable most are not, it’s gonna come back to you 100 fold, please keep up the excellent work! I feel like I’m a pretty intelligent person, logical and such which blows my mind why I’ve not been able to apply such easy simple concepts to my relationships that you disseminate. I’m so excited to be breaking out of my anxious attachment style And finally identifying what the hell my needs really are, LOL. Thank you thank you thank you!!!

[denisejaydub]

I’m going to be going back to school for behavior science... I hope one day to be as smart as you ❤️

[gayleneflower]

Yes, ! This is very very helpful for me. Since I grew up in a dysfunctional family, I don’t even know what our healthy needs and how to make my unhealthy needs met. I have a tendency to always want to control others and I have had people complain about it, but I really didn’t acknowledge to myself that I do it. Thank you. Yes, please follow up one more.

[stevensantora]

Summary: 6 Basic Needs

1. Love and Connection
A. Animals, Friendships, Romantic Relationships
2.Certanity
A. Structure, Order, Clear Communication, Planning Safety, Security
3. Uncertainty
A. Travel, Try, Adrienne Junkie
4.Contribution
A. Giving, Love and Connection, Product, Service
5. Growth
A. Personal development, learning, self, and career
6. Significance

A. Meaning and Matter; fame, power, money, God, helping others

[JCMB]

Wow, again I am so amazed by how great you are in theses videos. I am fairly new viewer and am so in love with learning everything that you have to teach. in the past 24 hours through only watching 3 videos i have learned so much about myself. Your videos have brought me to the point of tears, but in a good way because now i am understanding myself and my behaviours better. I am so looking foward to watching more of your videos. I love how you break it all down and then give us homework to do on our own to explore and improve ourselves. Thank you so much. You are changing lives. So much love and respect for what you do.

[samanthaattridge]

You're brilliant, everything you say is so easy to grasp

[noemijoan]

Thank you! As always very informative and conscious and practical. I would love videos about unhealthy and healthy forms to express our needs. That would help me a lot.
Love and joy from Germany!

[tulip]

Thank you this has helped me a lot, I’ve been acting subconsciously unhealthily toward my friend bc I craved connection and felt that we were distant

[terri-louisearmstrong]

In terms of love would you talk about meeting our needs for love and connection within ourself, for example: as people, places and things are either not available or inconsistent.

[breneew]

This was awesime! Yes please add seperate videos of positive and negative ways people her each need met!

[katarinatrbojevic]

You have such a loving vibe, I feel like I understand more of myself because you're not like those other self-help motivators who play the blame game on you. You really sound like a supporter and someone who heals. Sending love to you <3 Thanks a lot

[mar.v]

Thank you so much for your videos! I find them really helpful! Also, I'd love to see some videos where you zoom into each of the 6 needs (like you suggested: where you could zoom into the healthy & unhealthy stradgedies people have, and how to update them) :)

[createliberate]

***I've been really questioning "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs" for a lot of years and this list of needs seems more realistic for where humanity is headed.. where we NEED to go evolutionarily speaking.***
~love & connection
~certainty
~uncertainty
~contribution
~growth
~significance
LOVE - THANK YOU!

[ineedtounwind]

Yes yes yes! I would looove if you do those 6 videos: healthy and unhealthy ways of meeting each of the 6 needs. You’re so smart and amazing! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and very useful tips!

[rishikajain]

It would be nice to hear how one can update the harmful ways in which we meet the needs. This was an insightful video. Thank you!!!

[pyosomemore]

If ur dismissive avoidant but u have this need for love and connection... painful. That aside my top 2 needs are contribution and siginificance

[halaali]

This was everything I was looking for all my life. Your approach is very useful. You are so gifted in what you do please keep doing these work that everyone needs. I am forever grateful for you

[val-idvi]

Can you do more examples on healthy ways to meet the needs for Significance please?? It’s really important for me 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[nd-pm]

Loved the practical application tip!! So helpful and I am excited to try it out. Thank you 😊

[Shaws]

I'm FA... disagreeing and arguing are very scary to me. Even listening to you talk about how people bicker to that find love and connection made me uncomfortable to listen to.