The Most Important Element of a Relationship

👉 Who Is Teal Swan?
Teal Swan is a New Thought Leader, Bestselling Author, and Speaker. She was born with a range of extrasensory abilities and is a survivor of severe childhood abuse. Today she uses her gifts as well as her own harrowing life experience to inspire millions of people towards authenticity, freedom, and joy and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual pain.

The result when people are restored to wholeness is that the world will be restored to wholeness. Teal Swan's teachings invite people to step fully into their authenticity, knowing that this will bring about the positive change that we want to see in the world.

[thelordismyshepherd]

It takes time to get to know those values. Sometimes you aren’t even aware of them yourself until someone reflects them out to you. I think people don’t take time to get to know each other these days.

[invisiblespirit]

Unfortunately I learned this a little too late.
I NEED physical touch and affection, and my husband is actually quite uncomfortable with it. I thought I loved him enough to get by without it, but as time wears on, the resentment builds.
I daydream all the time about what it would be like to be loved the way I want. 😢

[thepuzzlemaker]

"Find your deal-breakers and don't compromise on those."

[LaboriousCretin]

I couldn't agree more. Compatability is very important.

[elvalopez]

I adore your honest communication ❤️ thank you! Truth!

[markorton-]

I didn't think about that. I was just grateful to have someone who loved me.
However if I were starting from now then yeah I would think about compatabilty

[annikabirgittanordlander]

Meeting physical, mental, emotional needs, desires is the most important thing for me, and preferably consciously and in healthy ways. Thank you Teal.

[donniemchone]

This is so true and sadly isn't a constant reality because of misperceptions and first impressions and limitations and boundaries that reduce a person to sometimes nothing.

[peteduch]

This is something you find out on the first date be direct about it if the other one plays games of deception walk away and move on

[whiskeywater]

It's unbelievably positive the help you send, Thanks Teal👑

[danish]

No one will be 100% compatible with anyone in this world. It is all about respect, trust and loving someone truly that helps establish a relationship. Modern society have destroyed relationships and marriages as both men and women are independent and nobody is willing to commit anymore, because everyone thinks what if they get a better deal in the future. Also modern life is very uncertain people lose their livelihood and have lots of ups and downs in their lives. No one will stick around during a person's bad times. Be it a man or women everyone will face bad times in their life in today's world.

[ForgedSigma]

After 27 years I can tell you this is very true. We’ve found you both need your base goals to align even if others don’t. For us, we both wanted to be married to a pleasant person and raise a family. That’s it! The rest we said we could work out, and we have because the original goal we both had was what we always fell back to when times got tough. With this mindset it was easy for both of us to make the necessary compromises. Which, for you feminists out there, means you can’t have it all. There are other things that help, like having the same attitude about commitment and fidelity and both being realistic about what’s possible, but the original foundation is what makes it work.

[Det_]

So true... The values must align.
This will override history and even your love for each other.
I got a crash course in this lesson during the pandemic with regards to the 💉...

[remnantresurrected]

Most people would say that this is backwards. As a former christian I felt that way. As i've walked through my own journey of healing, i have discovered that what you said is true. How can we forgive someone that is still hurting us or we are still allowing to hurt us? I found myself having to re forgive. That's not true forgiveness. As i went thru the last 5 years of healing and my new husband loving me unconditionally in assistance with that healing, I can now say that I have forgiven. It no longer has this same disruption in my spirit. I am jewish and have now clung to judaism. However I know that religion is just a conduit to get closer to God. So I would call myself spiritual with some adherence to judaism because of its beautiful relationship focus and just so many other things.

[basicbase]

Anxious/avoidant both want one thing: safety! but both feel unsafe with each other, thus conflicts. It's never gonna work unless the one in control(mostly avoidant) learns to understand that all anxious wants is safety assurance, and after it becomes the usual, it will calm down anxious person's nervous system, even change their stress responses. Both feeling safe will be their compatibility factor.

[MonĖBonĖ-mm]

Lots of Love ❤️💜❤️ yes I can see sometimes I feel hurt when I am trying to give something I simply do not have ❤️💜☺️💐🙏

[patrickvernon]

Also people change. Good luck out there

[wf]

I don't know ... compatability is often used as an excuse. It's a lot of work to align with a good partner. And you won't get around this work, anyway. But some try. They basically long for a clone of themselves.

[shamibrown]

Peace and happiness
That’s the goal in life to me
There’s enough stupidity and evil in this world. But peace and happiness will be maintained within myself and my crib. If you can’t maintain peace and happiness within yourself, stay the f$&@ way from me.
Good post miss

[ftang]

I kind of wish there is a video specially giving examples of compatibility/incompatibility in relationships. Because I'm not sure I completely understand what it looks like in real life.