The right age to get married

On which side of the "right age" to marry debate do you stand?

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[aninditabhaumik]

There is nothing wrong in looking for partner if u have achieved financial there is also nothing wrong in waiting for the right person despite ur be aware that the more u age the harder it is for u to

[जीतऽ]

27 yr old
From a small village, Rajasthan
Still no pressure from family
Internet changed ppl a lot

[spongebubbly]

Guys don't take celebrity advise on marriage...

[Tree.]

Bhai jisko jab krni h tab kro....feel from within do not get into new narratives and chaeh 25 ho ya 35 just plan well above the legal age YOUR

[mutchlouis]

She is so true about this. I mean I am a guy and I ain't marrying a girl who is less than 35 that means i have lot more years to go before I settle. Just 28 now. there is so much to know, learn and grow. Making kids is not the priority here but to enjoy, support, love and live is what matters to me the most. Otherwise, all you see is couples just frustrated of each other.

[jswlprtk]

There's a reason behind the abrupt rise in IVF clinics, even in tier 2 cities.

[cyrilmatthew]

We dont need celebrity advise ... When ever you feel like marrying ...do it ... If you dont wana get married ...dont marry ... Its as simple

[sugimichael]

In my opinion, if GOD sends you someone whom you fall in love with and seems like soulmates, wait till your parents agree to your marriage. It's a blessing if your parents bless. Because I have come across cases where the girl or boy runs away with partner without the support or blessings of their parents, after marriage with the daily needs cutting on their lives and if they don't have sufficient to provide for their basic needs or to raise their family, sooner or later it becomes sour then bitter

[swagatamukherjee]

Absolutely right. Marriage should be a personal choice and not a societal obligation, that are deliberately constructed in a way that serve the interests of the patriarchy.

[peengoo]

Jisko shadi karni he kare, nahi karni to na kare....
Bacche karne he to kare, nahi karne to na kare...
Jese jeena he jiyein
Bus kisi ki life na kharab kare 🙃
PEACE ☮

[CalculusSince]

I'm 17 right now and don't plan to be ready to be in a relationship until I turn 29(when I'll be at least somewhat financially stable).

[mocktailsucker]

This woman is really intelligent. Once I had sent her a msg regarding her work and she was so sweet who took the time to reply and be so kind. 1:02

[samia]

I am 34 and unmarried. No man wants me, they want the younger women. The man I loved chose a younger woman too. I been wanting to get married since 18 so I can’t imagine how much more hopeless it would have been if I started my search at age 30. This is terrible advice. Must be easy to say things like this once you are already married with grown kids you can give bad advice to while sitting on your wealthy cushiony bed sipping tea with your husband whom you married in your 20s (she married Vipul at age 27)

Edit: I already have purpose in my life. I am an independent woman who by the will of God has a successful career and make my own money, I travel to different countries, have hobbies, etc. I want a marriage and my own biological children. It doesn’t mean that my life revolves around that or I have no purpose beyond it. All I am saying is that if you truly do want marriage and kids, 30 might be too late to start. If you don’t want to get married early, then start around 25 so by 30 you can have some potentials.

[bindasdas]

Pls dont spread wrong advice.... Get settled soon. Sooner the better.... Problems get sorted on the go..

[sudiptaghosh]

For men, 28–32/33, and for women, 27–29/30, is a good age for maturity, stability, and better understanding.

In metropolitan areas, personal choices are less scrutinized, as people stay within their circles. But in semi-urban and rural areas, strong community connections mean others often care about - or even try to influence personal decisions. These influences can be both positive and negative, regardless of location.

My mother married young, right after her 12th, at just 17. While she excelled as a mother and wife, I’ve seen the challenges of early marriage, limited her confidence and independence. Even now, she hesitates to explore the outside world.

I’ve also observed some good but many challenging aspects of late marriages or remaining unmarried among people I know.

[suvarna]

If you don't want people to get married as per the biological age, do you want them sleeping around with random people? Changing partners faster than their wardrobes?

[Spidy]

Marriage is not a big deal. Men and Women need to be financially stable first. Idk why Marriage is a big deal in india . After marriage you will produce more babies hence more population . My mindset is different. Live your life enjoy your life, and be happy in life

[xyz_]

So basically her son will retire around 35 so he can have fun with his kids if he gets married at 30. And she is totally fine by it. But, how much can a man earn just working for 10 to 12 years so he can rest at home to have fun with the kids. Its just madness. If one wants to get married around 25 its her or his choice. But whoever wants to get married early is automatically mad and nuts according to her. Personal choice gyi tell lene.
Lets see if her son rest at home when he had kids and how much time will he give to them.

[nandinisinha]

Every person doesn't do love marriage.
Point is if its going to arrange, then better meet your partner at a young age . Before 30 a person's mind is like kaccha gadha, they both will adjust to each other, accept and there is scope to change for each other, but after 30 both man and women will have atleast 1-2 relationships which makes it difficult for them to adjust in a new relationship with a new person.

[anupmasrivastav]

Parents are also opposed to things like live in & having bf. They also don't want their son to get away with a gf of his choice. They want daughter in law of their choice. They want their son in law to be the most hi fi in their relatives. So, they pressurize to get married.