How to find the Perfect Wife. Masculinity & Femininity in Christian Marriage.

A Video for the Single Christian Guys: A girl is not your mission. You’re not her helpmeet. Your mission becomes her mission.

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NUTRIMILL: Where my grain mill is from

[Shoop]

This advice is really good. I’m realizing how much culture has affected my life. As a wife, I’m hoping that I can be better at my role and help our family get into a godly hierarchy.

[nicoledennis-lawrence-lglc]

Please keep sharing your Christian ideals with the world!!!!

[jamesfrels]

Great points on how believing so many small lil half truths & tropes about marriage and relationships, can lead to a life of pain. I’ve witnessed this with my own parents for my entire life. They are strong believers yet this type of conversation has never entered their boomer minds ( I say it with love ) I’ve witnessed an entire room @ a wedding erupting in a standing ovation because the phrase “ happy wife happy life “ was said, again ALL believers. Love y’all for making truthful well rounded videos about the topics that are most relevant & can actually be controlled by our actions. Glory to God !

[JesusFreakEver]

Thank you for the language to pray: that God's Spirit Lead us to both to commit to a Biblical World view.
Thats the only way this is gonna work.
And now I understand why my husband says we shouldn't 'shove religion' down our kids throats, that we should live by example and just let them figure it out for themselves. That is *exactly* the libertarian-type of worldview you're talking about. Scripture is clear we are to teach our kids. Our kids are college aged but Praise Jesus still live at home. So they are seeing the Peace thats come from me getting Saved and husband and I going to church. One of our kids goes to church with us. But none of them Saved yet.
It alarms me that my husband doesn't seem to have a concern about this and even got angry at me when I gave the kids an overview of The Bible. But - that honestly was out of order! My husband should've been spearheading that. I did it because he was NOT! (And The Lord did give me an outline).
But I understand the earworm causing that thinking now!! I used to think it was caused laziness (and that may play into it some) And he never wants to discuss anything! Now I see *that* as part of this mind virus too!!!
God THANK YOU for Truth and Clarity!!!!

[elektromeha]

Dear Scott & Kelly, this video is answer to my prayers. It is just want I needed. I am struggling with my manly hood and relationship with opposite sex. Thank you for making it much clearer to understand the roles and mission in man's life.

[bassoonatlarge]

This is the most red pill advice I’ve seen from Christians. Awesome.

[AC_.-]

Amen, amen, amen. So grateful for the messages you are sharing, Scott and Kelli. 🙏❤

I just have to share a personal testimony here (tried to keep it short!)...In the midst of my stubborn pride and rebellious spirit within the God-given roles of husband and wife, God providentially brought a serious illness to me that has completely shaken things up in the most positive way. Our marriage now looks so much more like God’s design, and it has truly gotten stronger as time goes on within this design. I’m so humbled and grateful to the Lord – His ways are so much higher than our own and we have joyful anticipation for how He is going to continue leading us!

I also have to share a favorite definition I've come across over the years (John Piper): Submission in marriage is the divine calling of a wife to honor and affirm her husband's leadership and help carry it through according to her gifts. It is a disposition to follow a husband's authority, and an inclination to yield to his leadership. Where disposition and inclination are heart words, not merely behavior words. We do this from the heart - so it's a joyful submission, not a bitter or begrudging submission. Such a difference!!

[RealFredbaby]

I've been thinking about this subject for the past month and I"m glad y'all uploaded the video. Any books you recommend? Besides "When I Say No I say Guilty" or "Boundaries" or "No more mr nice guy"

[mcanultymichelle]

I’m a single mother of two grown sons and
I don’t care how old they think they are, they are not to old to sit down and listen to Scott’s and Kelley’s wisdom.l make them listen to your videos if they want to eat .my house my rules 😆.
Thanks for being a good role model

[Fearlessly]

If a man compared being in a relationship with me to parenting a child, he wouldn’t be my man for long.

[reneecrotty]

What you two said about the Matt Walsh thing is exactly what ive been doing towards the daily wire and Candace Owens .. I always feel anxious and negative afterwards! I try not to click on the videos either!

[reneecrotty]

Im sure we are all around the same age, but I feel like you guys are my parents (in the best way) hahaha! Love the wisdom!!!! You always surprise me 🇦🇺🦘

[scarliebee]

How do you teach your boys (children) to be on a mission? Do you have any book recommendations for that? Games for little kids, goals for middle schoolers, jobs for high schoolers? I wonder how we can practice that in a fun way for our sons.

[kaylajames]

I love you guys. Men, put your foot down. This video taught me about men.

[Sugarbabyl]

I’m single and I want to be a house wife where do I find a man that want a house wife

[GameDevFox]

"Pleasant Wife; Pleasant Life"