Depressed Virgin Incel Regrets Getting Some ─ 4Chan Greentext Stories

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this is a fictional story i wrote about a guy who thinks he's got a connection with a girl but then is sorely dissapointed

[ExecutionerDan]

Anon rips failure from the jaws of victory. Real.

[ChickFilA_Sauce]

“I’m not depressed” proceeds to explain symptoms of depression

[AiOinc]

Fake: anon went on a date
Gay: anon hates kissing girls

[GodotOfficial]

Anon fumbled the bag entirely of his own accord

[--_-__-_--]

If that was a guy anon would be bricked up

[GUILLE]

Anon is only slightly at fault. He has interiorized that he should be "ready to go" at any moment, when it's clear he was uncomfortable with the situation. He was only pressured to accept immediate physical contact because of FOMO and social expectations. He just wasn't ready for that, specially while dealing with depression. He shouldn't feel guilty about it, he was justified in not wanting anything. Anxiety and fear is not something to be blamed for. Hate to say this, but if anon was a girl people wouldn't be as judgemental here.

[freddoesvox]

“I am no longer depressed” final line of the paragraph “I want to kms atleast once a week” sure Anon, if you are no longer depressed then Im fucking batman

[CosmicFearUkulele]

That’s fair, not everyone accepts intimacy quickly or easily. I usually accept hugs if I get them but not from strangers, so I don’t blame him for getting uncomfortable for that, making out is outta the question for a while.

However I would still communicate and try to work it out from there. Just platonic-ish stuff until I would have been more comfortable with them.

[Gabriel-dxdo]

I miss what my life could have been if I just took all the opportunities it gave me. Anon, you are not the only one.

[Winter_Fan_]

People cannot understand that there exist folks who don't want to instantly make out/ do anything dirty with others, even when they are pretty.

If it's just about meat and bodies, it becomes meaningless, Anon wanted somebody special and a warm relationship. Instead he got a blonde escort for free

[hunterkiller]

In reality, anon went to a movie with his friends. His friend and a girl made out, he just awkwardly sat next to the other girl for the entire movie wishing he was able to do the same while she showed no interest.

[mEtil]

To me it feels like he wasn't ready at that time and his 5 year older self wishes in hindsight that he were (which is understandable, but for some things you can't just magically be ready when you just aren't yet)

[Daxter]

"im no longer depressed"
john cena: "are you sure about that?"

[MegaVega]

We brainwash young men into thinking they need women to be happy and vice versa. If we hadn’t taught people that marriage = happiness/value to the world we would be fine without it.

This doesn’t mean that individualism is good or that loneliness isn’t a real problem like some people are saying today. It just means you can be happy with friends, a family and a community. A partner is just another complimentary aspect about your life that you can live without

[JohnDoe-wqeu]

That last part was hilarious.
When life gives you a perfect opportunity and you don't take it regret is the only feeling you should have.

[plasmaflare]

If he was uncomfortable with it, he shouldn't be forced to do it. I don't know why people say that they feel like a failure for not making out or having sex, it literally doesn't have anything to do with the value that a person has, it is not such a big deal.

[harsha]

He has better self control than any of us, fair play to him

[bobon]

I was a virgin until my late twenties because of social anxiety. I still remember *vividly* all the missed occasions more than anything else, bashing myself all the times for missing them. Even now, that I have had my experiences and I am happily married with kids I love, I still think to that night in high school when a girl (I had kind of a crush on her) snuck in my bed during a school trip and I kept faking that I was sleeping because I did not know what to do. Or when another girl (we had clearly a crush on each other) asked me to come to her house to study, adding that she was alone at home because her parents were traveling, and I went there (she lived half an hour from my house) but then I could not remember her exact address and therefore I panicked, I thought about searching for a payphone to call her (cellphones were kind of a new thing, I did not have one yet) but then I became worried that it was weird: who would go somewhere without knowing the address? So, I went back home, and we never spoke about it with her for years. I spent years bashing myself for it, rethinking countless times at how I should have acted, but it did not work: years later I met her at a college party, and I failed again even more spectacularly. We spent all night sitting on a hammock in the garden of the party house, while she spoke about the fact she was sexually frustrated with her current boyfriend, and she would really like some more action. Several times she searched for physical contact. Still, even if I spent those years repeating to myself "Never again, the next occasion I will act differently", again I failed to move to action (I think I suggested her to buy a vib for her needs).
It was a real trauma for me, just after college, to push myself to kiss a girl, to do that first move. I would like to say that I understood my issue and overcame it, but honestly I was able to do that first step only because the girl in question was _super_ insisting and clear in her interest, and she gave me more than one occasion at it to the point that it was more embarrassing *not* to kiss her than to do it. I should really search for her to thank her, because after that moment my life changed for the better. After the first time, every time it gets easier. People without social anxiety do not understand it, as I look fully functional and even social and successful in my job, but these situations where I feel evaluated by others are a nightmare for me. If we organize a dinner with friends, I am a very social person. However, if I have to cook, although I like cooking and I am quite good at it, the first times I felt _terrible_ for days before, thinking at what to cook and if people will like it. But, again, every time it gets easier. The first time I was paid to speak at a conference, I faked a disease and I did not go. Now I do it every month, and I even enjoy it most of the times. But every new thing is a tragedy. It is all about the first step, but it is quite useless to try to tell to someone "just do it".

[johnnycampbell]

Wow im 29 and would give anything to even have a chance like this why did he leave?

[Spartan]

He's still depressed he just now has regret as well