Understanding Why People Hate You: A Powerful Truth by Jordan Peterson

In this powerful speech, Jordan Peterson unravels the deep psychological reasons why people hate you. From jealousy and nonconformity to boundary-setting and standing up for yourself, this video provides profound insights into how our behaviors and choices can provoke strong reactions from others. Discover why your authenticity and strength may make others uncomfortable, and learn how to navigate these challenges with wisdom and resilience. If you've ever wondered why people might not understand or even resent your success, this video is for you.

Reason to Watch:
In this eye-opening video, you'll learn the underlying causes of why people may harbor negative feelings toward you, how your choices can challenge others, and why standing firm in your beliefs is both empowering and necessary. If you're looking for clarity and motivation to live authentically, this speech is a must-watch!

Timestamps:
0:00 - 🌟 Introduction: Why People Hate You
3:00 - 💡 The Power of Nonconformity
6:00 - 🔥 Jealousy: The Silent Force
9:00 - 🛑 Setting Boundaries for Self-Respect
12:00 - 💪 Refusing to Tolerate Disrespect
15:00 - ✨ The Discomfort of Challenging Expectations
18:00 - 🤝 The Role of Authenticity in Relationships
21:00 - 🌍 Standing Firm in Your Truth
24:00 - 🙏 Conclusion: Embracing Your Power

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Keywords:
Jordan Peterson, why people hate you, jealousy, nonconformity, boundaries, self-respect, standing firm, authenticity, emotional strength, personal growth, disrespect, human behavior, psychology, self-improvement, life lessons, mindset, overcoming adversity, personal development, strength in relationships, emotional resilience

Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed in this speech are those of the speaker and are for educational and informational purposes only. The content provided is not intended to replace professional advice or therapy. If you are experiencing emotional distress or need personal guidance, please seek help from a licensed professional. The speaker's ideas and perspectives are meant to encourage thought and discussion, and may not apply to every individual's situation. Viewer discretion is advised.

[thebattler]

When people call you names it's more a reflection on them - you can tell who's a genuinely good person & who's not.

[lawrenceatkinson]

:"People often hate not because of who you are but because of what you refect back to them. When you rise it forces others to confront their own stagnation. When you speak truth it exposes the lies they've chosen to live by.

[DonnaFerguson-ly]

I love it when people hate me, this means I am doing something right they hated Jesus too, people hate the truth, I love the truth I don't get angry when they tell me the truth I love it and I can handle it too I will agree with them as well if it is the truth

[jenniferlynnbond-ataraxia]

I really needed this encouragement today. It helps knowing I'm not alone. Thank you so very much!

[ksabene]

I love Jordan's lectures. So great! Thank you.

[HerrVonStinky]

It doesn't matter what other people think....if you don't care what they think it doesn't matter....

[DebbieDavis-de]

This lecture is a gift. It brings so much clarity to the actions of others. Thank you, and thank you for the reminder to move forward regardless of the opinions or pressures from others towards our divine assignment. 🙏 ✨️ 🕊 ❤

[laurawilliams]

'Such a good message for the new year! Thank you. Now, I need to know how to maintain the strength of authenticity. It becomes exhausting when you have no support system. As a senior, striking out on my own appears to be a very daunting task but I can no longer play games with the people in my life. Most people my age are making plans to die. My G_d, I can't do that!

[eileenmarr]

St Francis …… “It is better to understand, than to be understood”. Took me years to get this ! So grateful to JP 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[melliecrann-gaoth]

My mother deeply hated me. And then a colleague and my husband

[shaftwood]

If you've ever had someone you love, perhaps a close family member, say to you something like "You think you're better than me, don't you?" Especially when the concept of one person being better than another never even entered your mind. You know exactly what this video is all about and have experienced it yourself.

[sharonwickens]

Jordan, thank you what a gift for the new year with love and respect sxx bravo Juliett

[TS-kmwn]

I was born an Oddball & I was aware of this at an early age. I get along with most people & I can speak with anyone, anywhere any time, any place. Some people Misread me, Others can't stand me....
I don't much care what other people think they know about me or what they believe about me....
I never go against my Nature & many people have tried to do this. When they fail, they resort to Spreading Lies, Gossip, Rumors..ect..
I have no Time for that Bullsh*t. That & Having No Sense of Humor.

[sallybyrd]

Excellent video. Quote "Have the courage to be disliked!"

[Rich_Girl_Era]

As I've gotten older, I've learned all the reasons why people have hated me over the course of my life. It's always about them, not you. To have strong dislike or hate towards someone is a personal issue. Most of the time if you don't like someone or certain things about them, you should have neutral feelings towards them. There are some people however, that despise you so much & it gets under their skin. In my experience, I've been hated on for the following reasons. I've also dealt with personal attacks, jealousy & envy, sabotage, not getting hired at jobs because of catty jealous females, dealt with retaliation from men because I kindly rejected them etc. I've never done anything directly to anyone that's ever hated or disliked me. It's always been something about the essence of who I am. I'm above average looking (& I don't say this in a pretentious way, it's just factual), intelligent, extremely ambitious, motivated & goal oriented, love to dress well, be in my feminine energy, put myself together & take care of myself. Have a good sense of style, very sure of myself & carry myself as such, not a people pleaser, don't seek outside approval or validation, I know who I am, somewhat disagreeable, conservative, don't fit the status quo, been through a lot in my life & don't look the part, my goals & ambitions don't "match up" with my past & that alone bothers people, I have strong boundaries & a strong sense of self & self worth, I love & value myself, I'm a critical thinker & don't go along with group think, my discernment is strong, a lot of things about me are contradictory, I figure people out quick & move accordingly, my cut off game is strong, I give people the same energy they give me & treat them how they treat me, whether good or bad, (people don't like it when you bully them back after they bully you, generally because they're narcissistic & they think what's ok for them, isn't ok for you to do. Narcissistic & sociopathic individuals think they can disrespect the hell out of someone & then put a statute of limitations on how someone disrespects them back. It's a double standard they have). I stand up for myself & I have a low tolerance for BS & what I allow in my life. I have many sides to my personality & people can never quite figure me out. And even if they can, sometimes it bothers them that & I'm both this & that at the same time because they can't make sense of it. It bothers people when they can't peg you & put you in an exact box. People also hate it when you come from less & do more & overcome dark periods in your life. Most people in general, don't like it when you love yourself, value yourself, know your worth & don't end up in the fetal position or in the gutter because of what you've been through in life or because of your past. Especially if you end up surpassing them at some point in time. I also don't overshare & keep people out of my personal business unless you're in my close inner circle. There's no reason why anyone & everyone needs to know every single thing about you & your life. People don't like it when they can't collect intel on you. So, I promise you, if you're all of these things combined, you're going to piss some people off, (usually narcissistic & sociopathic types). Society at large, wants women to be docile, subservient, caring what people think, begging for approval & validation outside of themselves, seeking their self worth outside of themselves etc. The only person you should ever "be submissive" to is your husband, not the general public. And there is such thing as balancing your feminine & masculine energies. I am very good at balancing both. So long story short, if you posses any or all of these traits, you'll be deemed as a b****, "difficult", "who does she think she is" or stuck up because you don't put yourself in positions to be taken advantage of, controlled or manipulated. You'll also be targeted & harassed by jealous & envious narcissist/sociopath types.

[davidfarrall]

We are grateful for your inspirational and motivational Works, Dr. Peterson, your closeness to God and your genuine emotions and tears on behalf of the World.

[peace_love_light]

The timing of this video couldn't be more perfect. Thank you for posting this. ❤

[louislopez]

Amen, Thank you Jordan!👍This gave me some much needed clarity concerning some around me in my quest for excellence, integrity and Authenticity.

[DaPortuga]

He was at Newark Prudential Center last month I really wanted to go to his lecture but couldn't afford at the moment. Maybe next time 🎉

[jW-qxqd]

Jordan, thank you so much for this video. This was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. God bless you and your family.