The Psychology Of Hate - What Is Hatred & Why Do We Experience It? #GetPsyched

#Hatred is a concept widely studies in #psychology. Psychologists have tried to understand what drives our hatred and why certain group hate other groups. On this weeks episode of #GetPsyched, we are going to take a look at the psychology of hate. What happens to people that elicit hatred and where it might stem from.

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[someonesomeone]

I'm not sure what hatred is. All I know is that I sometimes feel that I want some or all others to cease existing, because I'm bitter inside.

[rochek]

Man this is so good. I feel like this explains the root of mob mentality.

[littlelilith]

For me, I hate this one person. We use to be best friends, but she would always downplay my emotions and feelings. I was never allowed to say what I wanted to and she’d get mad when I would tell her how I feel. Eventually these built up into uncontrollable rage and mental instability.

[BlackCoffeeee]

My hate stems from being used and abused over and over again by someone that I love. All my relationships from childhood onwards were like pushing rocks up a hill. I began with hateful people and continued with hateful people. I kept forgiving and loving but now I'm done. I've wasted my life being loving to hate filled people and now I've become one of them. I'm raging and full of hate.

[Cornelius]

I'm a easy going person, not a mean bone in my body. I've learned many of life's lessons. I didn't just wake up and decide I hate people. It's people's actions that made me hate and for good reasons. I'll never forget and I'll never forgive.

[helpiamstuckonthismanshead]

Why do i cry after i stoped being angry

[aiahzohar]

I'm generally distrustful of "psychology research." It's odd to me that while no one bats an eye at "hating" certain foods or art styles or other animals, one particular kind of hatred--that of other humans--is so often portrayed as objectively wrong. I've read some psychologists argue that humans who hate dogs--a very popular animal in the West, at least--likely suffer from mental disorders. But interestingly, hating other animals that are no less sophisticated than dogs (like pigs...) doesn't earn the same social or professional condemnation. Seems to me that how much society values the thing being hated often determines whether hatred is a problem in psychology. If it's natural to hate, and it seems to be, then some people will just hate thing the rest of us don't.

[Mantras-and-Mystics]

It's amazing that those who act most hatefully and try and destroy you (family members) are the ones who profess to LOVE you.

[raphlvlogs]

hatred is often used by politicians as a tool to unify people and and gain power.

[shyamprasadmusic]

People disliking this video is the greatest irony 😂

[domkill]

I’m having a very difficult time getting over my hatred towards my ex girlfriend. She broke up with me on my birthday and then died in a car accident 2 weeks later. I found out she cheated on me for a year after she died. She was also extremely emotionally abusive.
It’s wild that the love I felt towards someone became just as strong as the hate I feel now.
I don’t want to feel this way anymore.

[clown]

I can't believe i barely came across this video! I have a project that deals with the psychology of hate and this helped a ton with understanding and grasping the concept of it. Thank you so much and keep up the good work man! Instant subscribe.

[rickynunez]

some people hate happy people they cant stand seeing someone happy because it reminds you how your not happy

[zainqureshi]

You just gave me a huge breakthrough man, thanks a million!!

[halycon]

Hatred at least in my view as someone who experienced intense hatred is an intense form of passionate anger,
Often unfiltered and the reality of our initial feelings. I think the purpose is to push away the perceived threat that has utterly shattered your trust as a means of regaining control and a sense of self. Anger is often a response to a loss of control of your state of happiness or what you see as an important part of your life, hate is something personal and vicious partly due to fear of being hurt further when you’re deeply wounded towards the cause.

An example is I hate one of my longest-standing friends for committing an act of taking every fearful experience I had everything that hurt me, put it into one action despite being the one I trusted the most, someone I grew up with who knew exactly what my fears were. I hate them because my wound is fresh and deep, I hate them because they will never understand my trauma and thus don't understand how deeply hurt I really am they can only see the surface and think the pain is mutual and blame me. I can't forgive that though I hope one day I will, I ended the friendship walked away from that as I still care for them despite my intense hatred, I left them because neither of us deserves the toxic friendship it's turned into.

Now I use my energy from my hate towards exercise, creative outputs and hopefully that fuel will dim and I can move on but know that hate is there for a reason to teach a valuable lesson in moving on and accepting your feelings. The only thing I'd note is never take that anger and turn it into a weapon, use it constructively not to hurt yourself or others. Once the new year comes I aim to completely wipe my past and move onto something new.

[aarone.]

Simply put; any time someone doesn't agree with our perspective is against us; therefore we have anger towards them!

[inspiredlife]

The best way to avoid hate is to understand how it is created in our minds. And your video helps a lot to create this awareness. 👌

[Itwasntalieitwastrueinmymind]

I was raised in hate. Now I just want to share love & tolerance of others

[samanthasmiles]

I am suffering from hatred and I know it is harming my own life. My sister-in-law (husband's sister) has been financially supported her entire life. Her parents pay for everything. She refuses to work and expects everyone to give her support whenever she needs it (financial or emotional). For many years, she was just that annoying family member that we avoided like the plague. Recently, we found out she was abusing her daughter. (I tried warning everyone but no one would listen until it the situation became very bad). My Husband and I took in our niece (we convinced her by telling her that she has too much on her plate and that she needs to focus on herself - not her child. She agreed and let us take full responsibility of kid). I, now, feel like my SIL has a rope around my neck. I have grown to love her daughter as my own. She will constantly use our love for her daughter as a weapon to control us. "Well, if you don't do this then I will just take my daughter back." I literally hate this woman. Once my niece is 18, this woman will be dead to me. The issue is I have many years to go and I am miserable. Am I afraid of my SIL? Yes. My Dad was a malignant narcissist and I feared his outbursts and rage. My SIL has the same issue. She has "rage blackouts." I feel like, deep down, I hate her because I fear what she will do to and I fear that I won't be strong enough to protect myself because I am weak. I was a doormat for many years and my defense was always to just kick these people out of my life. Problem solves. However, this is the one situation where I can't do that. If I am mean to my SIL, she will take back her daughter and she will suffer. (and yes, I contacted CPS). They said it was "good ol' fashioned bad parenting" but until she has evidence of physical or sexual violence, they couldn't open a case. I feel so trapped and angry.