The dark love bomb

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[NarcSurvivor]

Narcissists will often lovebomb you, only to bait you in, with the intention of punishing you once they’ve gotten you emotionally invested.

[DominieRobinson]

My mother often Warned me " BeWare the man who puts you on a Pedestal, only to Treat you like a Footstool later "

[lt]

The dark love bomber may also store away your hurts and injustices done to you only to weaponize them against you at a later date.

[youngblood]

The hungrier and insecure you are about yourself is what makes you more vulnerable to the lies from these demons.

[titansky]

"Love bombing is a limited release with a short run" truer words have not been spoken

[catherinewholey]

I’m done with relationships so will never fall for the love bomb again. I’ve been single for 7 years and am concentrating on living my life stress free. It was strange at first but I love my single life. The peace!

[cheekytitaable]

The worst part of being with a Narc, isn't just the relationship being founded on illusion and slight of hand, it's that you let yourself become vulnerable to someone so undeserving and false. It's almost like self betrayal. Another kind of self inflicted wound one has to heal from post Narc relationship.

[sushmayen]

All of us are vulnerable to the love acting. Then we're stunned when they throw us under the bus. Rude awakening.

[youngblood]

The worst LIE someone can tell you is, "I LOVE YOU"!

[brightbite]

Remember that narcissists do not know they are broken, so they can't fix your brokenness!

[WendyFranklin-ob]

😮 Thank you 😊 for saying "we ALL are vulnerable to Love Bombing", I thought of myself as an intelligent wise woman, ohh no no 😢

[TheNintendoDScollector]

Much love to everyone struggling... things suck.

[CS-ivtk]

We all just want to believe they are honest people that truly want to be on our side

[tredd]

The damage my 2 year/engagement/ ring Narc/Avoidant did to me can never be repaired.
I will NEVER be the same, and in a perfect world, there would be charges/crimes they could be charged with and prosecuted for. It's weird to me that being a mean, heartless, reprehensible, cruel, life-altering, lying, cheating piece of worthless shit isn't a chargeable offense.

[mjaye]

My father once railed on when I referred to someone as a friend. He railed that I did not have friends, only acquaintances. I responded that I would decide. That seemed to enrage him, and he said that a friend is willing to die for you.

Me: I don't have that requirement for friendship.

I didn't know about grievance collectors or narcissism back then. I had done enough healing to let a bit of light in. I realized in time how I was primed to connect with chronically angry, jealous, or wronged people. I mistook intensity for understanding and positive connection.

[lyrasus]

Future faking and love bombing is so confusing to me when the narcissist lacks all other foresight? Like, how am I even be worth the effort if they don’t deem their own needs or struggles worth addressing or sorting out.

[DiscordBeing]

My narc ex used to dark love bomb me by out of nowhere mentioning how everyone underestimated me because I am autistic. It always felt really mean when it came out, somehow. Now I know why.

[vivianMarvin-zk]

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[MichaelKevin-ly]

Exciting video, A year ago I took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

[NintenJon]

Really appreciate how much you upload, Dr. Ramani. I live at home with a parent who is a narcissist, and I’m currently struggling with anxiety that causes me chronic inflammatory pain because of it. Need these daily reminders to both keep myself safe and unbothered so that I can find the strength within to move on.