7 Habits That Ruin Relationships

Are you in a toxic relationship right now? Some habits are endearing and make that person unique, however, others can cause issues between people and cause the relationship to break down. Let us know if you relate to any of these habits.

Writer: Jade Hamilton
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Rebecca Wong [new animator]
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[nicolapessotto]

The hardest thing in this list Is not to take your partner for granted, After some time it's really common to do It. But the important thing Is to realize It and start to appreciate It to it's fullest again.

[khalilahd.]

Wow these tendencies kill more than romantic relationships. I had a best friend that was always jealous when I hung out with other friends and it definitely was a major factor into why I couldn’t be her friend anymore 😕 these traits are definitely things to look out for

[divyamurugesan]

1. Constantly comparing to other people including exes.
2. Allowing jealousy to take over.
3. Not being in the present moment.
4. Lying to your partner.
5. Timing discussions badly.
6. Taking your partner for granted.
7. Commenting on how you look in a negative way.

[highliving-animatedvideos]

*7 bad habits that kill a relationship*
1:11 - Constantly comparing to other people, including exes
1:43 - Allowing jealousy to take over
2:12 - Not being in the present moment
2:39 - Lying to your partner
2:59 - Timing discussions badly
3:26 - Taking your partner for granted
3:55 - Commenting on how you look in a negative way

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[mhowkun]

This is exactly what I need. I just got a girlfriend yesterday and it's thanks to you. I watched a lot of your videos and confessed to my crush later, and it turns out that she likes me too. Now that we're in a relationship, I don't want to end it too fast. It's all thanks to you Psych2go!

[avidhossanmansur]

The defining traits of an amazing future partner
1. Humility, is the ability to see their own flaws and limits and improve on them if possible or just accept them if not.
2. Kindness, is the ability to look beyond their own well-being and a desire to uplift others in the long run.
3. Honesty is the ability to speak the truth or if the truth is too harsh, at least not lie because we all have to face the truth inevitably.
4. Integrity, the ability to uphold their promises and not make ones that they cant.
5. Most importantly a general love for everything. This means having an overall optimistic outlook on life and not being overly pessimistic.
If you are looking for a partner it's better to look for people's minds than anything else. As we are not our jobs, our wealth, our looks or anything superficial like that we are our the sum virtues, our past experiences and most importantly who we choose to be. Now get yourself out there and happy dating!

[giuliasartori]

7 bad habits that kill a relationship:
1. 1:13 Constantly comparing to other people including exes
2. 1:43 Allowing jealousy to take over
3. 2:12 Not being in the present moment
4. 2:40 Lying to your partner
5. 2:59 Timing discussions badly
6. 3:26 Taking your partner for granted
7. 3:54 Commenting on how you look in a negative way

[AutisticArcher]

My partner and me are both on the autism spectrum and to be honest, I did all of this, at least one time in my, almost 6 year and counting, relationship.
She did too.
However, we both live in an housing for people with autism, and we have amazing help in our relationship.
The councillors help us to see out of our own bubble.
Sometimes, we unintentionally hurt each other, without even knowing that.
We have incredibly heights, and incredibly lows in our relationship, but we don't let each other down.
People say: communication is key, but for us, communication is a problem.
But we our councilors help is talking to each other and we found out that we understand each other better, then people who are NOT on the spectrum.

[Squydward]

One thing my boyfriend and I do is we always tend to be open with each other make sure that if there's something that needs to be addressed, that we do it privately. We've also come to the understanding that while we're both busy sometimes, we still tend to make time for each other, and comfort one another, especially after a long day. I just hope that I'm putting in as much as he is into our relationship, because I can never tell if I'm being too much or not enough. May 10th will be our 8 month anniversary.

[deadinside]

The one thing I tend to struggle with is jealousy I trust my partner I just get jealous if the girl is prettier than me and all of that crap I’m scared he’ll like her more but I’m slowly getting over that fear he loves me and only me

[patienceacheampong]

Number 8: Not putting in any effort. All relationships thrive on effort, so if you make your partner feel like they are the ones putting in all the effort, they will eventually give up.

[soonersciencenerd]

habits that are killing YOU:
comparing YOU and your hobbies, tastes, to others,
allowing jealousy to consume you,
not being in the present,
not making, hoping for a better tommorow,
letting guilt consume you,
- i am compromised by several of these.

[UltraHylia]

1. Constantly comparing to your ex - 1:12
2. Allowing jealousy to take over - 1:43
3. Not being in the present moment - 2:11
4. Lying to your partner - 2:40
5. Timing discussions badly - 3:00
6. Taking your partner for granted - 3:26
7. Commenting on how you look in a negative way - 3:54

[kraz]

my boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for three months now and it‘s been tough for me, especially with the jealousy part. it‘s not that I don‘t trust him, it‘s actually the opposite. it‘s more of the „his friends can hang out with him more than I“ and me comparing myself to his female friends constantly, especially when I think they‘re pretty. since i am diagnosed with asd, sometimes i get overly sensitive, overanalyze and misinterpret things he says or does, which is quite annoying and exhausting for both parties. but just as he has his flaws, so do i and it‘s more of an internal conflict I have with myself rather than I have with him. i guess strengthening my self esteem will ultimately improve our relationship quality. one thing he‘s good at is making me feel good about myself ;)

[EFJoKeR]

I used to have several of those qualities in me, when i was younger. After watching this video, and reflecting on the person i am today, i can honestly say - I don't have any of those qualities in me any more... Thank you for a very insightful video... <3

[rosalie]

I always struggled with jealousy, probably because my mum cheated on my dad and they got divorced so that really had an impact on me, but thankfully it's easier with my current partner since he's literally the most honest person I've ever met and also loves reassuring me and saying that he loves me randomly

[lOteChoCo]

I was about to sleep, but this notification just can't be ignored

[iamgoddessoflove]

Cheating is not an excuse or a mistake, it’s a choice that we make. 😕
💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[grim.consequences]

Back when I was unhealthy mentally and didn’t know red flags in relationships, I’ll admit me AND my past partners did most of these things. I knew stuff was off but I want quite sure what I was doing or one of my partners were doing. I talked to some people I trusted and they gave me advice and I understood what they did and it hurt me. Now that I’m 50% more healthier than I used to be, I’m doing kind of better in my current relationship except I am noticing he and me are doing things wrong still. I will try to improve daily but it takes time to build up a healthy relationship fully.

[nuraliasyafiqa]

1 Constantly comparing to other people
2 Allowing jealousy to take over
3 Not being in the present moment
4 Lying to your partner
5 Timing discussions badly
6 Taking partner for granted
7 Commenting on how you look