When to Teach Your Son About Periods !!

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[DS]

The fact that moms don't talk about this with their daughters until they began having it, how will the say it to their sons?

[Lingyang_impregnator]

When i was in my middle school when during the time most of the girls started getting their periods, obviously they had to go to toilet at random times so they would use the word "emergency" with the teacher like "sir/mam i need to go to washroom, it's an emergency" so the boys noticed this and they that time didn't know about girl's periods, so they decided during the exam when they need to ask answers they would just gather at the washroom by using "emergency" as an excuse, all girls told them not to do it and that the teacher won't permit but they didn't listen and thought we were just gatekeeping.

Then on the day of the exam the boys were not permitted to go until the other guy didn't come back but there was this one girl who went during her "emergency" while the previous girl didn't come back, then the boys got furious and started saying they had double standards and what not.

Then the next exam day one guy saw that a girl was opening her bag before going to the washroom (obviously to take her pads) and he knew the teacher could see it, when the exam finished the boys were very mad that the teaches treated them this way.

For a few days no girl had to go to washroom for their periods but then on the last day of our exam Some girl had her periods start unexpectedly and this girl had very heavy flow, i was the one sitting behind her and saw a dark spot on her navy blue skirt and told her, she panicked cause she didn't even knew her period started.

So she asked the teacher and went but then almost all the boys stood up from their seat and went after her, they literally started to drag her, she lost balance and fell but they still didn't stop dragging her and the other boys were about to rip her bag because she was trying to get her pads but they thought she was cheating and obviously the teacher was shouting and calling other staff to control the children but then .... Silence, all i could hear was the girl who was being dragged crying and all the boys were silent, then i tried to peek at what had happened, turns out when she fell down and got dragged her period blood was smeared all over the ground, it almost looked like a crime scene, and all the boys were shocked, panicking as if they just committed a crime, they thought among the commotion someone had hit her which caused her to bleed, they were *HORRIFIED*, moreover they have never seen so much blood in their entire lifetime they really thought she was going to die due to how much blood was on the ground.

Thankfully, she never felt embarrassment due to that incident cause after that day no guy in our class could look her in her eyes, everyone was apologizing for what they did, they seriously thought it was their fault and that she must be in so much pain.

This incident was the reason why our school started an extra class on Friday where all middle school boys and girl were taught about the changes which occur in both genders, that cleared a lot of things but most of the boys still thought that period hurt very much cause for them anything that bleeds must hurt and also the fact that the teachers also said that girls get cramps during their period so the boys thought it was very severe pain for it to bleed so much lol

[ikku.luv.]

The comment section is gold way better than all Netflix shows

[btsarmyot]

Yeah, there is nothing for shy 😅
We boys are aware and we also understand this matter

[anupamak]

Nowadays boys are aware of periods, as I hear my daughter telling her male colleagues, she has periods and she is in pain, and she says, they sort of understand. Times are changing.

[Bjufvjmk]

Watching this on my periods and thinking that yes everyone should be enough educated about this topic 🥺🥺

[mbel.pp]

My first period was when I was 10, I remember when they started getting more painful and I was in primary school. My year group had learnt about periods and one time at school, it was break time and I think I looked really sad and tired or something, but my (male) best friend asked what was wrong and I told him I had period pains. He was really chill about it and asked if I wanted to lay down or something and we made a few jokes to lighten the mood! Hes one of the bestest friends I’ve ever had, so grateful for him and happy we met💕

[vaishnavishukla]

I'm thankful for my mom for teaching me ( I'm a girl)and my brother together about periods so it's not awkward and shouldn't be also

[yashny]

Teaching boys early also instills empathy and maturity in them so they won't make fun of girls going through pain and have leaks in school.

[shakityass]

Soo true.... Wen my son was born the 1st thing my MIL said me was boy baby has born and u hav to be very careful as he grow up.... Wen u get ur periods get up, take bath & wash clothes early before they wake After listen tat I came to know tat y my husband is not understanding my pain and the cramps tat we face during our periods.... If I say say tat I can't tolerate the pain he says don't create scene.... I didn't understand then I decided tat we hav to teach everything to boys too... Respect & understand the girls/women....

[prachialdangadi]

I grew up in a family of more girls than boys and was taught having periods is very taboo and shameful and girls should be extra wary n keep away from people at such times so that they dont come to know that we are having periods.
I was 13 when my family decided to go and visit the family temple n I was made to sit in the verandah of the temple as girls are not allowed inside the temple during such "unholy" days. People stared at me all throughout the day n I felt like an alien on display. But couldn't help myself as my mom n granny both believed in the unholy nonsense.
Now I am a mother of a 14yr old boy n when he was around 10, I told him all about periods. He feels so sorry that girls have so much trouble n inconvinience n takes extra care of me during such days.
Recently girls in his class told me that he always helps them when they stain their uniforms n need someone to rush to the school nurse to fetch a pad. He even suggested a few better brands to the school nurse 😊 all girls tell me that if other boys also become like my son then truly ladies will not have any troubles during such days.

I strongly advise all moms to talk to their sons on this matter. It's a biological process, nothing to be embarrassed about. We dont feel ashamed to catch a cold right ? If men give a helping hand, then ladies will surely appreciate it.

[i_dunnoo]

im iraqi but i can relate, my mother always says that we should keep it a secret from them even though my dad is a doctor and knows what a period is
she still says that i shouldn't let him know im on my period,
i told her "why?" and she looked like she was about to scold me so i just pretend like i agree with her and left
i still don't understand what's so shameful about telling YOUR FAMILY that you have a period...like i can say im going to the restroom but i can't say im on my period??
im a muslim and women in islam can't pray when they're on their period...so when i don't pray my siblings think im just being lazy and it's destroying my image as an older sis... so whenever i tell them to go pray, they sometimes say "later" and i can't insist because "I dOn'T pRaY"
same goes to when i don't fast in ramadan, i can't eat freely since I'm supposed to be hiding the fact that im on my period...and i have to only eat some bites before iftar even if i was starving
AND IT'S NOT HARAM TO TELL MEN ABOUT PERIODS, SO THERE'S NO REASON TO HIDE IT FROM THEM.

[aarthinarasimhan]

My 7yr son understands both periods(a natural phenomenon in girls) and even breastfeeding. They are not myth for him. When I have my periods he understands that I’m unwell and gives me some rest.

[sophiakiran]

My son knows a little bit about periods...he is 10yrs old.... He brings me food to bed if I'm in pain... He ask his younger brother not to shout or yell cause mom is sleeping.... I'm blessed

[It_is_me_ig]

In middle school, I once had pads in my bag and some of the boys saw it but they were all so normal while I was boutta have a panick attack😭❤

[Karunamayii]

I never hide my pain and bleeding from my son...
I do this so that after me, He will respect his wife and care her understand her pain and support her unlike some of the men who say meri maa to sabkuch kar leti thi tu bhi kar jyada natak mat kar...

[loki]

This message should know to all the people in the world.lets make this era as a educated era ❤️

[rashij.a]

When I was in school some people came to teach us about period and at that time they also gave us a packet of pad and a polythin so we were required to keep it in the bag ...so I was a cool kid I kept it in my hand I was hedding to the classroom..AND I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE my teacher slap me for this and said keep it in the bag all the boys can feel disgusting...
And still cant believe a teacher did this
PLS TO EVERYONE PERIOD IS A VERY NORMAL THING DON'T MAKE IT A SHOULD HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE OF EVERYTHING ....

[blackpinkblink_fangirl]

ya thanks to aunty for teaching my crush about periods

one day I was soo early to school and my crush also came at same time so I was getting more pain in stomach so I was going to wash room with my pad to check and I got my periods he was following me till washroom and my skirt was cream coloured so the stain was visible and he saw that when I was going to washroom he saw the Stain on my dress and said to my bestie to exchange our blazer because my blazer was short and after the school he was praying for me that I should not get stomach pain

he is such a sweetheart ❤️
thank you God for introducing a such a sweetheart in my life

[guhanravichandran]

My boy is 4 1/2 years now. He asked me what it is and he himself answered that it's mom's diaper.