'being trans isn't that hard' // vent TW - implied s/h+transphobia+bright colors

[Crzy_bmb]

I'm a trans male I get what your going through I’m going through it too.

[Zack_is_proud]

I wish I wasn’t trans sometimes too. But we are made this way because when we are put through shit times, we come out way better then before! ❤️🏳️‍⚧️

[kyrktpg]

Transfem here im 14 .

At first i relised i was bi through femboys .then i started to like the idea of being a femboy .

and after doing some reasearch i relised im proply transfem .

There were signs .i just never knew what they meant

Hope you stay safe bro youre a man in my eyeys

[Mil_Ooo]

I'm trans and it's very hard especially when you live in country where it's illegal to be one

[whereis_macguire]

I know I'm somewhat late to say this but, as a closeted trans man, it IS hard. It's one of the hardest things to go through, even if you aren't closeted you're still gonna have memories of being deadnamed and misgendered for YEARS, not to mention the fact that some people (and those specific people are terrible people) will still go against your boundaries for NO reason. I'm so sorry about this, you deserve a lot better <3333 /p

[Mishina_Bunny]

My best friend is a trans boy and he always tell me how dificult it is, special with transphoc moms.

[melodi_bunniez]

I feel you. I'm not trans, I'm female\male and bigender, but I also experience moderate level gender dysphoria. I'm definitely more feminine than masculine, but there are days where sometimes I prefer being referred to as male or neutral. In one of those days, I'd think to myself "Why can't I be both? Why only one?". I am fine being called by my irl name (I think it's a very nice name, my mom tells me so), but being called exclusively as a "she" feels so extremely awkward and even uncomfortable when I've been calling myself a combination of "they", "she" and "he" in my mind. Sometimes I wish I wasn't bigender, but I've learned to accept both the boy and the girl inside of me. At the end of the day, they don't want to kick out the other, they just want to have space for both of them to fit in. That's why I made 3 OCs of different genders - My tertiary persona is a male gingerbread man, my secondary OC is a female kitsune, and my primary is a witch who can naturally switch between being male and female! I support you no matter what, stay safe and be proud brother ❤

[soulnotfound]

I feel you. I'm trans and this is literally so true.

[CloudySky]

I’m so sorry! I hope you feel better king! 👑

[akl]

I’m so sorry you have to go through that! I hope you’re doing okay!<3

[starchildofthesun]

Hey, I fully support you. As a non binary person, I understand that not being cis is hard and we most certainly didn't choose to be this way, but there will always be more of us out there.

[Ray-exup]

This almost made me cry bc I have the same pain ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[ZeraseMartinez]

I feel you. It's also the "are you trans" when you have said before, and it makes the whole situation way more awkward

[stop-following-me-waltah]

Im trans also, and i might not get how your feeling but i do go through the same as that.

[lemnade]

I'm tranf FTM as well, i'm maybe only 16, but i have to admit being trans is really hard. Sometimes some people just doesn't want to understand that our birthing body and genre is really hard to live with. Feeling that i'm inside of a body which i feel it isn't mine is hard to accept. Welp, i really hope you'll get a surgery for this if you plan to, because i do, have a great day, stay strong :).

[bunnybird]

I don't necessarily wish I was cis because I feel like that I would have a completely different set of issues. But if I ever died and came back I would never choose to come back as a trans person ever again (or not at least until I am in a more supportive environment).

I'm not even out yet but my severe lack of confidence makes me already worry about things like "how am I going to handle transphobic harassment" and "I don't want scars on my chest". I am afraid that I will have to struggle with extreme internalized transphobia until the day I die.

[DUCKKK.]

It's not fair and I'm sorry that you have to go though this and feel this way -Love coming from another trans individual

[alex-moon_demon-]

Some people don't understand what it feels like I recently got in a fight with my grandma cause she refused to call me ash and calls me my deadname (I'm trans masc)

[Autismtheartist]

As a person who used to be trans, I completely understand, and I'm sure other people who are trans understand too. Just remember your not alone❤

[Wonder]

I'm sure that the message you want to give here is a voice and a light for all trans youth and children who remain silent.