5 Signs You're His Rebound

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5 Signs You're His Rebound

"Mark, what are the signs I’m his rebound?" is a dating advice question I get constantly from women!

Giving dating advice to women on the signs they may be his rebound is one of the most important jobs I have as a dating and relationships coach. That's because missing the signs you're the rebound - falling for a man who isn't falling the same way for you, is a one-way street to terrible heartache.

Men handle breakups differently to women. Many women (following a breakup) can find connection, empathy and understanding in the girlfriends they keep close. This often is not true for men, who can rarely share their emotional pain as easily or acceptably with their male friends. Thus, rebound connections are common place for men following a breakup, an attempt to fill a void of emotional support previously provided by his girlfriend.

In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationship coach) am giving you 5 signs you’re his rebound, so you can spot the signs early BEFORE you become emotionally attached.

When a woman comes to me saying "Mark, what are the signs I’m his rebound?" my first thought is "If she’s asking the question, I’m already worried. Women have a gift of sensing when things aren't right, and men don’t deal with emotional turmoil well. Often unsuspecting new women to a man’s life following a breakup will be used for the loving support they provide. I don’t want that to happen to this woman!". I chat seriously to this woman and make clear to her the signs that she could be a rebound, so she knows if she needs to emotionally defend herself.

After watching this video on "5 Signs You’re His Rebound", never again will you find yourself saying "I don’t know what the signs of a rebound are. How can I ever know if a guy is rebounding?". Instead, you'll know exactly what the red flags and signs of a rebounding man are so you'll know if you're safe to invest your feelings or whether to instead protect yourself against the chance of heartbreak.

Learn 5 signs you're his rebound in this dating and relationships advice video from Make Him Yours!

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Enjoy the video guys! This is Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from Make Him Yours :)

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Mark Rosenfeld is the Australian dating and relationship coach for women and the founder of Make Him Yours, a dating advice and relationship advice service empowering women to find the love they desire.

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[smileyadjejevbe]

I'm going through this now, it's so painful cos I fell in love with him too quickly 😭😭😭😭😭

[NavvyH]

This one's spot on. My recent ex who was clearly rebounding first told me his last relationship was "this year' when we met end of last year. Turns out it ended as a little as a month before we met. When I first asked him about that breakup he also brushed it aside and said he was "fine with it". Fast forward to 8 months later and he has realised (after mentioning her non-stop) that he's not over her and while he doesn't think he wants to be with her again, he's realised I'm not the one he's in love with. We travelled, we made plans .. all gone. I helped him deal with his breakup .. and ended up heartbroken.

[autumnrose]

Basically, don't let him use you to feel better.

[whosahotmail]

This reminds me of that great quote:

How is it possible that so few men are in therapy when every single man I've ever met should 100% be in therapy.

[dianamoore]

Also if you are talking and he disappears then texts you out of the blue. You are definitely a rebound. Great subject Mark :)

[lorrainesmith]

My own personal experience of being the rebound was when I noticed that he was always trashing his know, like constantly putting her down, telling me she was no good and how all his friends had warned him about her and he should have listened to his friends and how he is so much better off without RED FLAG LADIES!
Even if a man his trashing his ex, it means that she is still on his mind and if she is still on his mind then that means he is not over her yet.
In fact I got the feeling that he was trying to convince himself that he didn't love her any not being successful about it.
The final straw for me was when he started telling me about her favourite sex was gone!
Let someone else listen to it.

[lindamaddox]

If the break-up is less than one year ago, run for your life, because, when his heart heals, he will not be so eager to get back into another committed relationship so soon. He will be ready to play the field again. He realizes that he is breaking your heart, but that won't stop him from dropping you. If he has a conscience, he may feel guilty for using and discarding you; but that won't stop him either. To ease his own conscience, he may buy you an expensive gift, ask you to "just be friends, " or even ask you to forgive him; and you will because you love him. Sisters, don't let this happen to you. If you want to help him, be his friend, i.e., refer him to a reputable therapist who specializes in this sort of thing; and run like hell in the other direction. Take this from an old pro. I've been there and it's no fun, only heart break; and it sucks big time!!!

[SS-ints]

I loved that we were going slow. What a bummer, I was the rebound. I’ve never been one before. Mark is spot on with all the signs, be cautious people!

[imliterallyjustsomeguy]

This makes me wonder if he's MY rebound...

[EmelieStenberg]

I started talking to a guy 3 months after his ex dumped him. I asked him many times in the beginning if he was really over her and he promised he was.
Then after a few months with me he realized he was not over her, and his feelings for me did not feel the same, he got kind of "depressed" and one day he just told me about this, like after 1 month after he realized he was not over her. And then just out of the blue he dumped me...
He's my first love and I'm so hurt...we had already plans to move together and travel this winter...
And now I know that even though he was with me I wasn't good enough, it was just her her and her all the time...
I know they will never be together again, cause his ex really doesn't want him back...
It feels like our time together didn't mean anything to him.

[Bella-Mae]

I was the rebound before. Omg it sucked!! Defintly crushes the ego knowing the guy you liked was just using you to help distract his mind from the girl that he really actually wants. Knowing while he's with you, he's thinking about her instead. Dude left his gf and then leads me on and after 6 months of flirting and fooling around he randomly tells me how he didn't want to date me anymore and that he wasn't attracted to me and felt that way for a while.. like wtf did you still continue to play with my feelings and waste my time then??.. he dropped me and crawled back to his ex and never talked to me again. He said he was done with her, and told me we had a chance to changing his mind and wanting her again and becomes disgusted with me. I guess the more time he spent with me, the more he realized he missed her 💔 it sucked. But I got over it. Just not a pleasant memory.

[sunadethegreat]

I 've seen these signs this week and ran for my life🏃‍♀️

[youtoo]

Avoiding relationships all together is probably best but deep down we're all looking for love So eventually we go looking for it

[Anna-ggwp]

i was dating rebound guy -emotionally unavailable .. he burned me emotionally.
verbally abusive .. threaten to kill me treated me like dirt ... took me more then a year to heal .

[sylwiaes]

I wish you published this video eight months earlier... My heart wouldn't be broken now...

[Markrosenfeld]

Gawd, I've gotta stop publishing videos at 2am. Apologies guys, not my finest editing moment.

[keepsmiling]

1-know how long it's been since his breakup or divorce.
2-He was already a long term friend of yours.
3-There wasn't a "No contact" periox with his ex.
4-He says: "you're so much better for me than my ex" after a short time.
5-He downplays the importance of his previous relationship.

Thanks alot Mark🌹

[MariaShirleyTurkiye]

Truth hurts, but knowledge is power. Thanks Mark for this enlightening video.

[roseseet]

True to the Mark! I was briefly dating a widower whose ex committed suicide 6 months earlier leaving him a single father of their 4 year old son. As much as I would have liked to believe that we could be something special there were too many red flags. Having been divorced and understanding the complexities of grief and that it's just not a linear process I knew I had to walk away. He was ultimately too entrenched in his grief to really appreciate me as a whole person and not just a 'band aid'. I also realised myself that the main reason why I was so intensely drawn to him was because I wanted to 'rescue' him and his little boy. Not a good reason to start a relationship. A younger more immature me would have not known any better!

[angelajia]

Thank you for the video. My bf:
1. When he met me; he has been a divorced man for nearly 2 years. And he went onto lots of dates before we met.
2. He only contacted/contacts his ex for matters that related to his child.
3. He acknowledges that he did have a great relationship with his ex at the start of their relationship. And he has never badmouthed his ex although at times he did tell a few things about her in a negative way.
4. He has never (yet) said that I was a better fit… for that, I often feel jealous. But I should not.